Dave (imported) wrote: Thu Dec 23, 2010 8:09 am as for bathrooms --- much of that depends on attitudes toward modesty and practical appearances.

We had a pre-op transsexual where I worked. One Friday he left as a man and returned Monday as a woman for his year as a woman. It is convenient in this conversation to address the person as "he" for what will be obvious reasons.

He could not use a men's room under the rules set up for the "year as a woman" but he couldn't go into a women's room because he retained his male equipment. That had as much to do with other people using the washrooms at the same time. ...............

hogger (imported) wrote: Thu Dec 30, 2010 4:21 pm The only other comment I would like to make is, as a fantasy of mine I have a vagina as a man, and would make for really hot sex with a TS woman with a penis. I've seen lots of movies with a TS woman fucking a man in the ass, but never taking it in a pussy. Maybe I could be the first....

joydivision_27 (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 19, 2006 9:52 pm Hey There,

I've been lurking around this board for years, but have never posted.

I think the reason for my shadowy hovering is that I feel I'm in the margin of an already marginal sexuality. I'm gay -- not TG. And in essence, I would not consider myself a eunuch.

However, Polarthong has articulated what I would deem to be my deepest, and probably most private desire: to remain a gay man, but to have a vagina. (How f**'d up is that? I get to be completely ostracized by nearly everyone!!). I do not desire to be a woman or to present as a woman, but in general, I do love the idea of masculinity with a touch of femininity.

I am a masculine guy, and intend to remain so. On the other hand, nothing would make me happier than to be married to a husband, and truly be his gay "wife" sexually. So, am I a Freudian basket case or what? Is this merely an extreme fetish or something existential? I really don't know.

I've heard the term "genderfuck" and kind of like it because I often feel that nature has genderfucked me -- not only by dropping me right in the middle of gender identities, but also sexualities. (A gay guy with a twat? That kind of negates the whole idea of "gay" doesn't it? Heellpp!!!)

Anyway, thanks for Polartong for resurrecting this thread.

I know I'm a freak, but I'm so happy to not be alone in my freaky!!

Far_Rider (imported) wrote: Thu Jan 20, 2011 9:51 pm You may be interested in googling "Buck Angel". He is a FtM who looks to have had the complete transformation, but he still retains his vagina. Perception is key. Buck considers himself a male, but enjoys a relationship with a female, while the majority of the porn he creates is gay porn.

It may take some time, but it is crucial you are happy in your own skin--believe it or not you are not alone. Personally, I think all the "rules" society places upon us hinders our ability to explore and express ourselves.

koku (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:33 am I'd like something similar. I want vaginoplasty, but without penile inversion. Hell, I've got enough sac for two vaginas! (i'm stretching it larger, just in case) The therapist I was used to go to (back when I had insurance) didn't see me having much of a problem with getting it (the cost of a plane ticket and the surgery in thailand are about 1/3 the cost of just the surgery here in the US). Hell, it'd probably already have been done if I hadn't had to quit my job.

Ah, life.

koku (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:33 am I'd like something similar. I want vaginoplasty, but without penile inversion.

todbaron (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:34 am You can't always get what you want. Surgically, a vaginoplasty is a penile inversion. That's where the depth and sensitivity come from.