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Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:23 pm
by twaddler (imported)
I enjoy sexual fantasies but the real thing I just don't seem to enjoy at all. Cuddling and affection-like thingies trump sex any day, in my opinion.
I would like to aspire to asexuality but I don't think it works that way.
Good stuff:
http://community.livejournal.com/asexuality/
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:33 pm
by twaddler (imported)
Rambler56 (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:03 pm
homptydumpty,
You are right about there being way too much population growth. There are far too many people in the world, and far too many of them are the wrong kind. Love is so much more important than hate and fear.
What always annoys me is that most parents I've met are truly awful parents. It really shocks the hell out of me how many people just treat their kids so poorly. Anyways.. :/
Rambler56 (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:03 pm
I dream to be a penisless man living with a female or transgender female.
Personally, I would like to be a spoiled, neutered (of course) housecat with affection on-demand. I just can never get the hang of being human. Now how's that for weird.

Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:45 pm
by mrt (imported)
In my experience mental focus and my sex drive take a long time to roll up under Testosterone Treatment. I don't know how it works for everyone but I know of a few guys that report the same thing. So... I guess what I'm saying is taking an Adroderm Patch or Androgel for a few days is not a switch to turn back on everything. It spools up like a jet engine.
Frankly I would stay on the Testosterone until I was at healthy levels for like 3 months then take cold showers when I wasn't wanting alot of sex filling up my head. Or have a sexual relationship that I can use as my outlit for sex so I don't need lots of external stuff making me crazy about it.
plix (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:34 pm
I've been on and off T so many times because of the very fact that I can't decide whether I want a sex drive or not.
When I go on T and the drive returns (to the limited extent that it does on replacement T - certainly universes away from what I ever had with my own T), I don't want it anymore and want to go off. When I'm off and the drive fades, and I want it back and go back on.
What I would really like is to be able to turn libido on and off at will. The replacement T could be said to be like that in a way - it is very on and off - but I can't control it and the opposite of what I want is usually the case. When I want a sex drive it's nowhere to be found, and when I don't, it won't go away. Most of the time it is off. But if I could have more control of it then it would be perfect.
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:46 pm
by mrt (imported)
Self control (My opinion) takes years and good training. Some kids are left to run amok and they don' t have any motivation to control themselves.
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 9:46 pm
by sag111 (imported)
I am finaly happy the way I am and dont want to go back to that out of controal person I hated so much.I realey enjoy women now because I can enjoy them but I dont need to have them.If I were a young man I probley wouldent feel this way but at my age it is just fine now.
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:42 pm
by Chozzie (imported)
I get fed up of my sex drive/sexuality often. The good thing about castration is the fact you lose it but i worry about the side affects it has. Is there such thing as a castration where you only lose your sexuaity?.
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 3:59 pm
by twaddler (imported)
Chozzie (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:42 pm
I get fed up of my sex drive/sexuality often. The good thing about castration is the fact you lose it
Not necessarily. I still have a significantly annoying sex drive. My body really must be doing some major hyperandrogenicity or maybe I have some kind of testosterone secreting tumor? heh.. something, anyways. (Too bad an auto-adrenalectomy is unfeasible.)
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 9:08 pm
by A-1 (imported)
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 05, 2007 10:35 am
to me. the major two problems with sex are one some people cannot control there sexual urges. Two, sex leads to reproduction, and there is way too much of that in the world.
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The harm coming from the fact that the most proficient of the reproducers should not be allowed to.
Here I go with the Eugenics lecture again...
truly committed (imported) wrote: Sun Jun 03, 2007 4:44 am
The sooner life on earth comes to an end, then the sooner we see the truth. If everyone was honest im sure they would agree sex is seriously fucked up and causes many more problems compared to any joy it may bring....
I think that you have it backwards. Fucking is seriously sexed up...
...if you do not get enough joy from fucking then you are not doing it often enough...
Re: i dream to be..
Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 5:27 am
by Paolo
Tang,
Have you had a T. test lately?