i dream to be..

[truly committed (imported)]

I want to ask about a-sexuality, sex very much so freaks me out-i do not like that i am horny sometimes..i wish i never was-but like most people i am , i am human so..

anyway some people on their profiles have stated a sexuality, but also "lowered sex drive" as an interest. Isnt a sexuality when someone is not attracted sexually to male or female and has no interest in sex?

So i looked this up on wikipedia, it says if you prefer solo sex to sex with another person then it can also be considered a sexual? Im not sure, i still dont think i would consider it that way.

Sex causes so many problems, i believe the sex humans are known to is not the sex that was intended (after the downfall) everything got screwed up, sex included. Also i dont believe in the future of the human race, so it makes sense to me not to embrace sex when that is what makes a new life.

I know, i may be coming across with some weird ideas-but thats ok, i truly believe them and know that 99.9999 percent of people will think i am strange for having them.Thats ok..we all see with differnt eyes.

The sooner life on earth comes to an end, then the sooner we see the truth. If everyone was honest im sure they would agree sex is seriously fucked up and causes many more problems compared to any joy it may bring....

I guess i am just venting,but would like to know more about a sexuality ( i dont believe it is a choice, i think it is a sexual-orientation) and wondering if anyone feels the same way about sex as me? I do not have a super high sex drive by the way....

My friend was abused by her dad since the age of two years old, he did everything, people are raped everyday-if sex did not excist this stuff would not happen. Im sure i cant be the only person to have these feelings.....

so i see sex as evil and not good in any sense..

[bobbie (imported)]

Hard to define just what someone thinks asexual is.

For the most part of my I considered myself to have been born that way. I did not and still do not have any sexual desires to be with someone else on a sexual level. Yes I am living in a very committed relationship. The relationship is based on each other and love.

Prier to my castration (chemically included) I would masturbated often. Talking with many I seen to have been masturbating far more then most guys my age. I enjoyed it very much. The big difference with me is that I did not fantasized about having sex with someone while I was masturbating.

I guess I have gone one step feather on the asexual side with the castration. I have no desire to masturbate at all now. Think it is over 4 years since my last time I came. It is strange but I have no desires or need any more. I do not consider myself to be male. I see myself more in the middle and being of no sex. Being a nullo is still a deep desire.

[genderless (imported)]

For me anyway, I can take it or leave it. Probably more of the latter.

Overpopulation will doom us in the end anyway unless we are going to populate another planet somewhere.

[A-1 (imported)]

hmmm.

I wouldn't mind you looking like that either...

...in fact, if you did, I'd just LOVE to pull your strings...

[genderless (imported)]

Well, I didn't know you cared?

[plix (imported)]

I've been on and off T so many times because of the very fact that I can't decide whether I want a sex drive or not.

When I go on T and the drive returns (to the limited extent that it does on replacement T - certainly universes away from what I ever had with my own T), I don't want it anymore and want to go off. When I'm off and the drive fades, and I want it back and go back on.

What I would really like is to be able to turn libido on and off at will. The replacement T could be said to be like that in a way - it is very on and off - but I can't control it and the opposite of what I want is usually the case. When I want a sex drive it's nowhere to be found, and when I don't, it won't go away. Most of the time it is off. But if I could have more control of it then it would be perfect.

[truly committed (imported)]

it would be nice to be able to control our bodies and feelings...

[homptydumpty (imported)]

to me. the major two problems with sex are one some people cannot control there sexual urges. Two, sex leads to reproduction, and there is way too much of that in the world.

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[truly committed (imported)]

way to much reproduction!! yeh! how about adopt you wanna be moms and dads!!! adoption rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

later for that sex...........soon for love.

[Rambler56 (imported)]

homptydumpty,

You are right about there being way too much population growth. There are far too many people in the world, and far too many of them are the wrong kind. Love is so much more important than hate and fear.

I dream to be a penisless man living with a female or transgender female.