Glenda J.,

I contacted tri-ess, and Jamie e-mailed me. I just missed the TAMPA, FL convention by a week. Jamie said that Tampa has a great chapter. I wrote to the Tampa Chapter, but I haven't heard anything yet. Thanks for the information, and I'll keep trying to get in touch with them.

Bull

Your experiences resembles vrey much with mine. I think your statements are true and very much so. I will take my time reading your "papers" once more and put down any further thaughts and ideas that might pop up in my little head later.

Yhanks for having sorted out in a very strutured way how a long term positive relation containing love and sexual activity can be maintained with your wife. An active sexlife without penetration fille with joy and pleasure for both.

It has workt out for us and I am happy to find out there are more of us out there. With this one of my most important reasons to visit this plase has been achieved.

Guys I didn't say all! Please notice that!

Hey,YLVA! Your in good company here.Say whatever you have too.You got support.

Hugs,Leona

bullgeo (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 05, 2004 11:57 am Glenda J.,

I contacted tri-ess, and Jamie e-mailed me. I just missed the TAMPA, FL convention by a week. Jamie said that Tampa has a great chapter. I wrote to the Tampa Chapter, but I haven't heard anything yet. Thanks for the information, and I'll keep trying to get in touch with them.

Bull

Glenda,

Like I said before, Jamie from tri-ess e-mailed me, and said that there was a great chapter in Tampa, FL., but the Tampa chapter never answered me. Sounds like a great organization, except for Tampa...

Also Glenda, I think it is healthy to be in a relationship.

Bull

Bull, Tri-Ess is not always that swift. Most likely someone is either on vacation or the communication got lost in the bit-bucket (on someone's desk etc.) Most all Tri-Ess chapters have lots going on in the Fall and especially around Halloween. I suggest you try again. You can always join the National Group and then you will get the Femme Mirror magazine. That has the listing of all chapters and there may be another one down your way.

Hi! It's me again,Leona.This is such a good post,I thought I'd get back out here.My Wife and I have a wonderful marriage although I think what's going on with me scare's her.But we'll work through it and we do really Love each other.T.G. is a touchy subject and scary for our loved one's but as we share back and forth here ,it helps us to say the right things at the right time.Hugs,Leona

Well Folk's,I spoke to soon as usual.In my marriage I'm begining to feel the full Transgender experience.This hurts very much and not sure how to fix it or if it can.Be careful what you tell other's,they probably will not understand.What a bummer.Regular folk's don't get it at all.More later.LOL,Leona,update

Leona Lee (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 15, 2004 10:35 am Well Folk's,I spoke to soon as usual. In my marriage I'm begining to feel the full Transgender experience. This hurts very much and not sure how to fix it or if it can. .

. . Leona,updateDoes this mean that your wife no longer understands and supports you? Sounds to me like her support is important to you. Take it slow and if you find ways to get her support please share them with me.

For me, it is important to have my wife's understanding and support. That is why I have been trapped and unable to openly experience my inner self.

Glenda,

Thanks Glenda, I think I will try again. Holloween...I bet they are busy...l0l.

Bull

Mac (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 16, 2004 7:07 am Does this mean that your wife no longer understands and supports you? Sounds to me like her support is important to you. Take it slow and if you find ways to get her support please share them with me.

For me, it is important to have my wife's understanding and support. That is why I have been trapped and unable to openly experience my inner self.

Hi Mac! Well,the best way lately that I have found is to keep my trap shut.I had thought that we had unconditional Love.Odviously I was mistaking.A very hurtful situation,I'm thankful,at least the good folk's here are supportive.I think that most people do not understand or don't want to understand.Your closest friends and relatives will walk away in a second.Be very careful, Dear, what you share and with whom.they will turn on you. It hurts bad,Honey.Hugs,Leona Lee