I'm convinced that if a man continues to fantasize about getting castrated that eventually the fantasy will become reality: He will seek true castration and become a eunuch. There are a few men who are on the BME "castration play page" who are now on the "eunuch page." That alone is not enough to prove my theory, but it adds weight to it. I believe statistically, based upon the fantasies of people, that a fantasy is really a true inner desire, but for several reasons, fear being the most prominent, they resist acting upon or acting out the fantasy. However, the longer the fantasy persists or the longer it is fantasized about, the greater the chance of the person acting upon the fantasy. Recently a 50ish woman I know finally got a tattoo. She stated that she had thought about getting one for years, she fantasized about it, but was afraid of what others would say if they saw it. Finally she got it and it lifted years of self repression. As she got older the fear abated or subsided. The same thing will happen to many of the castration wannabees who frequent this community. The probability of acting upon a recurring fantasy is statistically great. If you continue to fantasize about being castrated, the likelyhood is that you will be castrated someday. It's just a matter of time. I would like to know how many eunuchs fantasized for years and at what age did you act upon it? I actually had one testicle removed when I was around 40 and then the other when I was 48. Comments please?

I first encountered castration when I was about 24... Decided to do it (and arrangements were made) at about 30. Fate intervened and the idea was present but dormant until I was in my 50's. It was finally done this summer at age 62. There was a persistant fantasy most of that time. --FLO--

Things like piercing, tattooing, body building, cosmetic surgery, do all seem to have an addictive 'snow ball effect'. But are they any more addictive than, say, playing or watching sport? All these things are driven by fantasy. We need to role play, or at lease exercise (or exorcise?) the fantasy before we know how far we want to go. But I'm not convinced that it's a one way street. For instance, a friend of mine used to do a lot of cross dressing. It was obviously a big turn on for him and he went clubbing, etc. But he admitted recently that he now rarely feels the urge. He does seem to have gone as far as he wanted to with it. I used to be crazy about angling, but I rarely get the urge to fish these days. (But I still have my rods )

But back on topic: I was only 3 or 4 years old when I was first turned on by fantasies about toe amputation (I don't remember where the seed of that idea came from) and later fantasised about penectomy. I did self piercings in my teens. Had nipple and genital piercings plus a voluntary circumcision at 30. By 40 my glans was bifurcated, and the idea of castration was becoming at least as much of a turn on as penectomy. The latter, probably because my wife said that she found the idea of no balls more attractive than no cock. Where will it all lead?

For me I can say that the statement would be correct

My desire was strong and I acted on it in many failed attempts and many painful

And embarrassed E.R. Visits I can that I am castrated but since I still have balls

I can not claim to be an eunuch, may be they will shrink until they disappear

As each day passes they do get smaller maybe one day I would have the right

To say I am a eunuch to me that would make me very happy

I don't know...there is a big difference between castration and other types of body mods like tattoos and piercings I think.

For the people who just fantasize about it, to actual do it would be the end of the fantasy/thrill and any other fantasies (unless they want to go on estrogen or something)...

I think someone who really wants it deep down is different than someone who the fantasy is just a turn-on.

That's my opinion, I could be wrong

Batman (imported) wrote: Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:29 pm I don't know...there is a big difference between castration and other types of body mods like tattoos and piercings I think.

For the people who just fantasize about it, to actual do it would be the end of the fantasy/thrill and any other fantasies (unless they want to go on estrogen or something)...

I think someone who really wants it deep down is different than someone who the fantasy is just a turn-on.

That's my opinion, I could be wrong

Fantasy is always the initial basis for reality. We have to dream up the basis of our reality. Do we simply take a left or a right at or on the way to fruition? What is the basis for our fantastic reinforcement? Orgasm or fulfillment? Interesting thing to contemplate, and one any serious wanna be here must needs do!

Theory: All castration (any realized goal) has been preceeded by fantasy/role play/desire. But not all fantasy/role play/desire leads to a realized goal.

I want to agree and in some ways I do. However, the joy of a fantasy is generally lost once it is fulfilled. Or, sometimes worse, it's replaced with yet another fantasy that may be dangerous. As an example I would offer that there is a group of people to whom their current fantasy is to be a human sacrifice and then eaten. research shows that these people have gone through an escalating series of fantasies that started with what some might call "self-mutilation" and, once that was done, this desire to be food presents itself.

To some degree it depends on how one defines the word "fantasy". At base we must each of us decide what is desired as a realistic conclusion and that which is considered for some form of stimulation be it mental or physical. Fantasy implies some form of possible wish fulfillment. Understanding why something is desired is another issue. As one moves up the scale of fantastical involvement, it's necessary to be clearly aware of the consequences and to be able to accept them whether they be positive or negative.

kristoff wrote: Wed Nov 14, 2007 8:13 pm Fantasy is always the initial basis for reality. We have to dream up the basis of our reality. Do we simply take a left or a right at or on the way to fruition? What is the basis for our fantastic reinforcement? Orgasm or fulfillment? Interesting thing to contemplate, and one any ser

Allen (imported) wrote: Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:09 am ious wanna be here must needs do!

Theory: All castration (any realized goal) has been preceeded by fantasy/role play/desire. But not all fanta

sy/role play/desire leads to a realized goal.

Of course not. Your point is implicit and essential to the statement that was made.

I have always had a fantasy about castration from a young age (pre-puberty). Now that I am an eunuch at age 65, the fantasy is still there to some degree because I continue to enjoy the stories in the Archive.

Involuntary castration without any preliminary fantasy can be devasting to the ego. I am happy as an eunuch because I took my time getting there. If you desire castration, do not rush into it.