Hi all some may not what to know but others it may help. I had sex last night for the first time 6 weeks post castration. I got erect and maintained it throughout but not quite as hard as before. My wife had finished long before me it took a log time to ejaculate around 20 minutes where as my normal time whould have been around 5 to 10 but when I did it was different it was so much better. My wife said it was a different kind of sex as there was more love and not just jump in to it.

I have to say I am very happy I have a lot more control over it I get the morning wood and then it looks like I can use it when I wan to not it control me through out the day I used to masterbate 3 to 4 times a day and that has all stopped which is great, my wife is disabled and has a low sex drive anyway

I am taking 2.5mg of testim gel per day and that seems just fine.

My new life so far is wonderfull apart from the fact I still have a post op infection that just wont clear. HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY

Have they cultured any drainage from the infection? If you were castrated in a hospital or medical center you may need to be checked for MRSA. I am not sure if you would be contagious to your partner. The reason for the culture is to make sure they are targeting the right bacteria. I hope you recover quickly from the infection.

Thanks I have had tests done but they seem to think it is down to the internal stiches that should have gone by now but havent, if I stillhave problems in 2 weeks they are thinking about doing something with them. No maatter what I have done or even a small cut I always get an infection im just strange.

Thanks