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Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:49 am
by FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)
Yoli here,

I've discovered that I am being, well, I WAS being, stalked when I went downtown to the office over the past few weeks. This is about the fourth such episode in my life and it's something you do NOT become accustomed to or blase' about. Frankly, it's chilling at best, terrifying at worst.

I'd been having a feeling of being watched when I parked my car in those wee hours of the mornings when I scoot downtown, do my office duties, then blast off for less congested environs before the AM rush reaches insane proportions.

Well, as it happens, one of the other employees in the building parks within sight of my reserved slot and he also does the early bird thing. Over the last few weeks he noticed that sometimes, after I parked and wiggled over to the elevator, a fellow appeared from "nowhere" and left rather hastily.

Initially, this guy shrugged it off but then he began to get a bit suspicious. He made it a point to be alert when he parked and began to wait a while, himself kind of hiding, to see if I showed up. If I didn't he went about his business.

This was pretty special in that I don't hit the office more than once or twice a week, but always at the same time. I also depart within rarely more than 20 minutes after arrival.

Please remember that I am alone when I park; alone on the 'vator OR the two flights of stairs I sometimes use, and alone in the corridors and office.

Anyway, this morning I made it downtown at a little before 5:30 AM, parked, and was proceeding to the elevator when I was VERY startled by a ruckus not far from where I park.

I had just reached into my purse and taken out my little friend (See: GUN!) when the fellow I have mentioned and another guy dragged someone out from where he'd been watching me as he did you-can-guess to his you-know-what. They told me that security was on the way and that all was OK.

I must say that for two business-suit clad fellows to have rather severely handled the creep was sort of amusing. The guy who originally become suspicious is in his 50s and his cohort is in his 30s...whatta team!

Twice during the brief wait for security to show the creep tried to rise and flee...BIG mistake! When a highly polished wingtip-shod foot just "happened" to arrive between his legs he decided to stay put.

As the two wonderful Neanderthals from security dragged him past me on the way to the elevator the cretin looked right at me and mumbled "I wouldn't hurt you. I love you." Awwwwwwwwww.

So, the PD arrived and took over but not before, according to the security troops, the guy confessed that he's been "admiring" me for nearly two months!

He is not some street bum, not at all. He lives in a nice downtown apartment and actually works in the building that adjoins ours (We share parking.) Well, he might need to file a change of address...C/O Texas Dept. Of Corrections.

From now on I'm going to alert security when I am headed in, just as I used to do when that capable female plainclothes security amazon was on our "beat". Some may remember that she and I came close to some fun and/or games a while back. Well, I called her from the office and told her what had happened. Now she's taken the day off and is on the way to meet me at the Cracker Barrel to "comfort me"...Hmmm. I think I'll OD on pancakes!

Well, off to the "Barrel".

Love to all from still-shakey Yoli.

Forget the kawfeeeeee! Another Bloody Mary! (But Ash[leigh] is outta town...sniff.) Truthfully, I'm finishing my second vodka and OJ as I type.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:55 am
by tugon (imported)
Yoli I am very glad that you are safe.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 5:36 am
by Paolo
Tell the cops if they let him out, you're going to start stalking him in return - with a rocksalt loaded shotgun!

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 6:06 am
by Blaise (imported)
Extremely dangerous! This is because you never know when one of these guys is the one who kills. As a probation officer, I did not like the notion of having to deal with these guys. I don't think that I ever actually supervised an exhibitionist, but I did supervise domenstic violence offenders who stalked their victims.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:27 am
by JesusA (imported)
Yoli,

I'm glad to hear that you're safe, but I hope that you are much more aware of some of the dangers around you in the future. Letting security know before you arrive at work (and when you're leaving) would definitely be a good idea.

J.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:10 am
by Blaise (imported)
Yoli,
JesusA (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:27 am I'm glad to hear that you're safe, but I hope that you are much more aware of some of the dangers around you in the future. Letting security know before you arrive at work (and when you're leaving) would definitely be a good idea.

J.Excellent idea.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:26 am
by FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)
Yoli is....Yawwwwwwnnnnn...in the house.

Thank you all!

There's been a strange and rather maddening twist in this matter. It seems the sorry SOB is the son of "somebody" and it's all being kept on the QT. WHAT???

Well, I can assure you that I won't let that sleeping cur lie for long.

Actually, I prefer silence re the incident so long as punishment is meted out.

Will report.

In keeping with the spirit of the EA, and not in the least facetiously, I will state that if he accepted SURGICAL castration along with a term in a nuthouse (or should one say "Nutless House"?) I'd be satisfied. Since he's "of means" I might press for a little cash settlement as well. I know this sounds venial but, hey, the price of Prada, Gucci, and top shelf bewze has gone up and shopping will be as therapy to me.🙄

I'll forego the $$$ of I am allowed to attend the snipping and be permitted to dance naked in front of him as it's carried out...BAD YOLI!🍑👋

The consolatory breakfast at The Cracker Barrel was OK. It was nice to see the Amazon again and she accepted my polite refusal of more intense therapy with grace. I intend some Sapphic (mis)adventure with her at a later date...mebbe! I'm kind of intimidated by the sheer mass of her, well-configured and handsome/pretty though she be.

And now, having been told by my adoring/adored bosses to "get lost" 'til after Sunday, I'm off to meet two friends and host a dove hunt. Tomorrow MAY find me on the casting deck of the bassboat. On Friday I may (this is crazy) DRIVE to Norman to meet some friends, attend a serious tailgating cookout and drinkathon, then enjoy OU's thrashing of TCU (Saturday).

Then again, mebbe not.

Love to all,

Yoli

Pistol Packin' Mama

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 3:11 am
by Arab Nights (imported)
Go have fun, but when you come back, I would vote that you have a very serious discussion at work about safety procedures. You are right, this is no fun. For every stupid procedure we have to endure in life, there is always some jerk that caused it. Unfortunately, this in probably a small amount of time will pass thru the system and go away. The building and your company need a procedure that does not change and go away so that you can exercise your right to go where you want when you want without fear. Good luck.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 3:52 am
by Blaise (imported)
FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:26 am Yoli is....Yawwwwwwnnnnn...in the house.

Thank you all!

There's been a strange and rather maddening twist in this matter. It seems the sorry SOB is the son of "somebody" and it's all being kept on the QT. WHAT???

Well, I can assure you that I won't let that sleeping cur lie for long.

Actually, I prefer silence re the incident so long as punishment is meted out.

Will report.

In keeping with the spirit of the EA, and not in the least facetiously, I will state that if he accepted SURGICAL castration along with a term in a nuthouse (or should one say "Nutless House"?) I'd be satisfied. Since he's "of means" I might press for a little cash settlement as well. I know this sounds venial but, hey, the price of Prada, Gucci, and top shelf bewze has gone up and shopping will be as therapy to me.🙄

I'll forego the $$$ of I am allowed to attend the snipping and be permitted to dance naked in front of him as it's carried out...BAD YOLI!🍑👋

The consolatory breakfast at The Cracker Barrel was OK. It was nice to see the Amazon again and she accepted my polite refusal of more intense therapy with grace. I intend some Sapphic (mis)adventure with her at a later date...mebbe! I'm kind of intimidated by the sheer mass of her, well-configured and handsome/pretty though she be.

And now, having been told by my adoring/adored bosses to "get lost" 'til after Sunday, I'm off to meet two friends and host a dove hunt. Tomorrow MAY find me on the casting deck of the bassboat. On Friday I may (this is crazy) DRIVE to Norman to meet some friends, attend a serious tailgating cookout and drinkathon, then enjoy OU's thrashing of TCU (Saturday).

Then again, mebbe not.

Love to all,

Yoli

Pistol Packin' Mama
My (some of them) cousins were graduated from OU; a nephew was graduated from TCU. Gosh, both schools are out there in the widlerness! But still go TCU. I met one of their old quarterbacks and had dinner with him. I liked the lad.

Re: Being stalked is NOT fun.

Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 3:55 am
by Blaise (imported)
Most exhibitionists are not dangerous. But that is not always the case.