Met with the counsler this am at the VA. I guess they don't call it impotence...it's an intimacy problem. Ok, I get it, it's no big deal, so now it's not a problem, right.:-\

I won't get into it but she did ask about acts of homosexuality. I confessed to the 5-6 instances. Which I thought was man-ing up to the situation...but then she had to ask "and how was that?", I about died on that one.

So...we're getting to bottom of the intimacy problem real fast but the impotence issue seems to sinking in fast and now appears more hopeless than ever! I think I did better as a pissed off domestic than a confessed gratified participant of passive homosexual sex acts.

cried yesterday, confessed today

chilli-

chilliwilli (imported) wrote: Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:00 pm Met with the counsler this am at the VA. I guess they don't call it impotence...it's an intimacy problem. Ok, I get it, it's no big deal, so now it's not a problem, right.:-\

I won't get into it but she did ask about acts of homosexuality. I confessed to the 5-6 instances. Which I thought was man-ing up to the situation...but then she had to ask "and how was that?", I about died on that one.

So...we're getting to bottom of the intimacy problem real fast but the impotence issue seems to sinking in fast and now appears more hopeless than ever! I think I did better as a pissed off domestic than a confessed gratified participant of passive homosexual sex acts.

cried yesterday, confessed today

chilli-

Sounds positive. Stay with the sessions.