Thanks so much everyone! I really didn't mean to make this a pity party, just started off introspective and gravitated that way. Thanks for the comments about the avatar!

I was listening to Jack Johnson album today (not mine, someone elses') and heard a wonderful song (as a lot of his songs are!) that I wanted to share with my favourite group of eunuchs.

It captures the spirit of this thread exactly as I felt it when I began to type.

Supposed To Be - Jack Johnson

maybe its up with the stars

maybe its under the sea

maybe its not very far

maybe this is how its supposed to be

maybe this is how its supposed to be

maybe its trapped in a jar

something weve already seen

maybe its nowhere at all

maybe this is how its supposed to be

maybe this is how its supposed to be

lookin forward as we rewind

lookin back its a trap sometimes

bein here is so easy to do

if you want to

if you want to

if you want to

if you want to

(repeats)