Yes we like labels;

Blacks call themselves African Americans but there wrong.

I have only known one African American. My old boss, he was born in South Africa, went to college in the USA met his wife and became an American. He is white.

Of all the comments above, all are right on. Luv you are right on the money. And yes, whats the big deal, str8/bi/gay/other- Black/white/brown/yellow/red inside we are all the same.

I think I understand it as my older brother was gay and three of the five colors are in my family, (x-wife, kids and grandkids).

However I want it known, I am predigest, yes I am, I hate all bigots equally.

River

wonders how the eulogy of a wonderful man became a rant. sorry i participated. Bboy you will be forever missed. Thank the powers that be for blurring the lines to allow us to find a way to get along. and i will always be in your debt. i, for one, will always miss you (even though we only met through chat).

i hope you find your pease, (that peace you granted us) (one who also is accustomed to grief, no matter the reason).

toad