Came home to some terrible news.

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Earlier this AM I got back from Norman OK after some serious partying and watching my Sooners destroy Texiz Kristshun...Sooners 35, Horned Frogs 10...to find a message on my ans/mach. I last had checked it about four hours beforehand, while in transit, and there were a couple of idle chit-chat messages which I erased.

When I wandered into my little cubbyhole, shedding clothes and whining for Ash(leigh) to run me a nice warm bath (WITH bubbles!) I noticed the lighted number "1" on the machine. The voice was that of a member of our little Kinky Kastration Koven (KiKaKo), who was obviously distraught and imploring me to call her regardless of the time. Mind you, it was past Midnight when we got home.

I called her and she had some devastating news.

One of our "Charter" members, a woman in her early forties, had been killed in a one-car accident while visiting in Tennessee. This occurred at dusk last Friday on a rural road and the accident was not discovered for maybe an hour after impact.

She was returning to the town where she was staying after some sort of gathering in the country and apparently slid sideways into a large tree, T-boning her vehicle at the driver's door. According to the girl I was speaking to, our friend's mother was told by the county sheriff's deputy that called from Tennessee to break the news and who had investigated at the scene thinks she tried to avoid a deer or some other animal and lost control.

The accident was discovered by a group of teens who were out for a spin. They called the law and tried to assist our friend but it was too late. One can only wonder what might have been if someone had actually witnessed the accident and was able to render aid after summoning EMS.

This woman was pretty, very intelligent, had a well-paying job and many friends. She was bisexual, leaning toward Sapphic pleasures, and we had shared some intimate moments, the last time being after a KiKaKo gathering about a month ago. She was much into castration-related talk and fantasy, had her own collection of pics and stuff, and worshipped our "pet" eunuch, Barry. She and he got along famously and she loved to do "Touchy-Feely-Nibbly" on his peepee and empty baggie. He liked pleasuring her as well.

It's too late to be calling the other members of The KiKaKo but I'll have that sad task later in the AM. This will not be easy.

Her mom and I get along well and I have a key to our lost friend's condo. She lived in a small town not too far from here and I will take charge of securing her home and removing ALL that might cause gossip or grief to her relatives. I have a key to the place, given to me with the instructions to do exactly as I've described should she die or be otherwise incapacitated...How prophetic.

She wanted to be cremated and her ashes cast to the wind atop Enchanted Rock. I will assist her mom in having cremation arranged in Tennessee and perhaps will fly with her to collect the urn. There is no shortage of funds whatsoever but the cost of shipping her back in a casket will incur ridiculous expenses.

Well, that's what spoiled my otherwise glorious OU Football Weekend. I hope life remains unremarkable for a long time to come.

Now, back to crying.

Thanks for letting me bleed on you.

Yoli

PS: Please take care of yourselves, my friends and lovers of the EA. I don't want to return from Waco next weekend, all aglow from the Sooners' thrashing of Baylor (book it!) to find bad news here!

[Blaise (imported)]

What sad news. Thank you for posting.

[Riverwind (imported)]

Yoli, I am so sorry, hugs.

River

[Kangan (imported)]

Oh dear. How sad.... At a loss for words.....

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Yoli here.

I can say only "Thank you" to those who have so kindly responded.

I've completed all the notifications, to both KiKaKo members and some folks listed for me by my lost friend's mom. There was the additional trauma of notifying her office, which I did in person.

I can attest that walking into the reception area and asking the person behind the desk to tell the big boss I needed to see him was indeed a dreadful chore. He didn't know me from Adam and he was a bit taken aback that some red-eyed little number was insisting on an audience.

When I told him the news he literally went into shock and was unable to speak for at least five minutes. Then, he summoned the others and told them. I had the feeling that some wanted to shoot the messenger but most were kind and consolatory to me as well as each other.

After I left that sad scene I went to the mother's home and happened to be there when a police chaplain called from Tennessee. The mom was in the bathroom so I answered the phone. He asked if I was related to the deceased and I kinda lied a little.

The gist of what he had to say, which will NOT be told to the mom, is that they will not allow her to see the remains if she does go up there. The car hit a tree head-on at a high rate of speed and the engine crushed her from the midriff down. So, I have talked the mom into staying HERE while another relative goes up to pick up the urn containing my friend's ashes then bring them here.

A word about MY bosses. They have been very kind and supportive to me but there's another thing that all should know about them; They are flying the relative (Cousin, I think.) to Tennessee in the company jet. No charge. They all had met my friend since there is a business relationship with her firm and they thought the world of her. They are also, via connections in Tennessee, arranging for any legal obstacles the relative may encounter to be swiftly dealt with. The fact that one of my bosses is a fraternity brother of a powerful judge in that county can't hurt.

There are some great people in this world.

Thank you, again and again.

And now, I'm gonna undress, take a serious pitcher of adult beverage to the pool, and soak.

Yoli

More Posh Puffs, please.

[A-1 (imported)]

Hang in there, my friend.

Grief loses intensity and you will be comforted with the memories of life as you think of the tragedy less and less often.

Our hearts are with you...

[Arab Nights (imported)]

You have a gold star next to your name in my book for helping others in a time of trouble. We will look forward to your posts when things get back to normal. Take care.

[Blaise (imported)]

You have a gold star next to your name in my book for helping others in a time of trouble. We will look forward to your posts when things get back to normal. Take care.

I agree. You have acted kindly. Thank you for the example. We all live by (what metaphor really works?}.

Take care of yourself.

[sheep79 (imported)]

Yoli... I have never met you but I would be honored to call you a friend. You have gone so above and beyond. Huggggssssss and please keep in contact. You have many friends and admirer's here. Dave

[IbPervert (imported)]

Sorry!

At a risk of sounding crass...i believe that we all have a final check out point and when we reach it God brings us back to heaven.