anyone trying castration without telling your family?

[impotentus (imported)]

Since I goy chemically castrated a a year ago, I NEVER told my family. A few days ago, I got surgically castrated. I still haven´t told my family. My father has told todat that "something looks different about you, it´s just that I can´t tell what." My mother who has much sharper senses than my father told me a few day ago: "you smell different. Are you using some lotion or anything?. Latter that day she asked me again : what are you doing to your skin? it looks so clean.

As of today my lips are shut towards my family about my castration. I have lost some muscle tissue, got some fat in my belly and lost my beard and moustache.

My legs seems to be fattening too. Besides that I am not that much different. Mood swings haven´t startd yet.

My question is: Has anyone trioed chemical or surgical castration without telling your family? (including your wife)

My family is somewhat harsh on the sexuality theme. I got a hellish load of troubles, critics, attacks, yelling and some worst things when My family discovered that I was gay, and I had a male boyfriend. Everything has changed with the time passing and when I left the house of my parents. But pretty deep inside of me, I fear that they won´t accept the fact that I got castrated. (specially the fact that I got castrated for a power play with my boyfriend).

Part of it, though, doesn´t seems to care. I feel that I got whatever I wanted from the begining and that is all that matters. My boyfriend on the other side, he is more romantic, loving, caring than ever. He is even worshipping me! (which feels weird). He told me that all that matters is how I feel, and other simply wouldn´t understand. I sincerely feel that he is right. He loves the fact that I am castrated and he loves he "power trip" that he got from my castration.

[tugon (imported)]

I have never told my family about my castration. I never felt like discussing my balls with them when I had them so I felt no need to share that they were gone. I am much more comfortable as a eunuch and I think they perceive me as happier. My two sisters know of the abuse I suffered and I think they attribute much of who I am today to those years. Kind of gives them something to consider when they notice any changes.

[Ryby1234 (imported)]

Hello

I would like to congratulate you a successful castration.

My situation is similar to your. I will be castrated on 27 January 2013. I will meet with a man who remove my left testicle and cut my right vas deferens. We have set all details of our meeting. I will have to tell my family a lie that that I take a part in conference, in reality I will be castrated and next will rest after surgery. My family doesn't know about this dark side of my sexuality. Although my fascination of castration has began about 20 years ago, this is my best protected secrete. No one from my family or other that I meet personally know or expect this what will happen soon with my testicle and fertility. My mother and rest of family knows that I don’t want to have a children, but they hope that in a future I will change my mind and finally I will be a father. They don’t know that I will remove my fertility completely in order to take a pure pleasure from sex but never be a father.

The only person that will be informed (I will do it at beginning of the next week) about my castration and vasectomy will a beautiful 19 year old girl who is friend of mine. We have a sex on regular basis, but we are not a typical couple and will neve be a marriage. There are a elements of close friendship between us. She knows me very well. She knows my life, my history and problems and I also know a lot about her. We like to talk, and we are frankly to each other.

She is my biggest problem, I don’t want to lose her. I will have to tell her about this dark side of my sexuality It’s almost sure that she will be shocked, or may not understand why I want to do it. It is possible that she will tell me that I’m a madman, and this might poison our relationship. I know that this might be hard for her but I don’t want to tell a lies to her, she should to know a true. The only thing that I’m sure is that she will not tell anyone about my secret. She is a discrete girl who keeps a information about us in secrete. I know that in this case I can trust her.

Best regards

[cheetaking243 (imported)]

I'm on chem castration at the moment, and no, my family does not know about it. My roommate/ex-girlfriend does, but she's the only person I know outside of internet-land that knows about this.

My dad will probably know soon enough, though. I don't intend to quit playing nudist volleyball just because I'm going through a bit of an awkward physical transition, so once Superbowl comes around in September, I'll probably have to spill the beans when he inevitabley notices that I've feminized and my boy bits have shrunk down to pretty much nothing.

[jako9999 (imported)]

I wanted to be a eunuch for some time and reduce my labido so I injected vodka and the only people who new were on this site, how can you tell your family you want something that most would think mad. I am 45 and have all my children so why not be as I want and happy so I decided to go for it and I love it. My only regret is that when they were dead I had a trip to the doctor I new he would suspect cancer and remove them this was a great worry to my family and I hated it I am so so sorry for it but it was all over in 3 weeks they were gone and what else could I do apart from keep saying it will be fine and testicular CA is fixable.

I still hate my self for it but it a year on now and I still have all my checks at hospital every 3 months and my family are happy I and I am very pleased with the way my life is now my family are now totaly behind me in getting a scrotectomy which is also what my goal was but this time its easy I just said its a pain which it is and it gets sore so it must go.

So congrats and good luck in your new life and tell your family there was a problem and they died but you didnt say as you didnt want to worry them and its all fine now they will be fine trust me they love you.

Thanks a happy eunuch

[impotentus (imported)]

Today I was talking with my boyfriend. We both agreed to never say anythng to anyone outside us. (except the members in this forum.)

My family has no reason to know that I was castrated.

[Losethem (imported)]

Why bother? Are you planning to drop your pants and wag you mid-section at them?

--LT

[Patrickchemcast (imported)]

I was chemically castrated in 2010 and 2011, then started injecting alcohol in my balls in 2012. Never told anything to my family. I am retired, have no partner and love being free of sex. Today my balls are almost dead, I injection alcohol a few days ago, it is slowly destroying what's left of them. One day after the last shot, I played with a band around the penis, it has probably damaged a nerve, my glans is insensitive now. This is the end of my sexuality, I feel free, happy, I reached my goal.

My next step is to advise those who seek castration. Alcohol has worked fine on me, took a year, but it was a wonderful experience, my body did adjust to the slow descent of testosterone. This method is definitely one of the best, it did not cause the shock of a surgery or burdizzo which stops the production of testosterone overnight.

I just discovered that there are lots of candidates for castration in France too, where it is illegal for a doctor to castrate a healthy man, alcohol and other methods are available, no need to wait.

[Ryby1234 (imported)]

Today I was talking with my boyfriend. We both agreed to never say anythng to anyone outside us. (except the members in this forum.)

My family has no reason to know that I was castrated.

Yes, my opinion is the same no one among the persons that I meet personally, (except my friend) should to know that I will be partially castrated and will lose my fertility. There is no reason to inform them. Less peoples know about this is better for me.

[_g (imported)]

Family does not need to know only your partner or partners!