butterflyjack (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 21, 2012 5:08 am Things have certainly improved for you Danya..I'm so glad to hear about your recent employment and improvements in your pain recovery...Go easy with Mr.X...He may have changed...Just don't dive in head first...Don't get hurt...smooches Jackie
'X' hasn't changed, for the most part. Some of his views are gradually shifting as he continues to be exposed to a diverse group of people at school. I have altered my own outlook on the importance of certain things, including some that tended to be flash points between 'X' and me when we first dated.
'X' now tends to largely avoid certain topics that he knows have caused trouble in the past. I get the sense, though, that he is now testing how far he can go with those subjects without causing a problem.
Thanks for your advice on not diving in head first. I agree. There's also the possibility that he does not want to go further than friendship. I don't know that I do.
Two days ago, however, he sent an email stating he's now planning another visit over his winter break. I'm not sure what to make of this.
During his November visit, we will attend a concert by the San Francisco-based male a capella chorus Chanticleer. I firs
achieve that if you so desire.janekane (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 21, 2012 5:38 am t heard them four or five years ago and was very impressed.
Danya,
Having met you in person at the 2012 MoM, I am especially thrilled and delighted that you have apparently, finally, landed a suitable job.
There is the advice of the late Joseph Campbell, "Follow your bliss."
May you fully
I know that you are worth it.
Thanks for your very kind remarks. For the next two years or so, this job will be a pleasant way to make money. Beyond that, it will enable me to follow my bliss evenings and weekends as I pursue my ongoing musical development. It will also provide breathing room so that I can investigate some related and not so related career options that will bring me more satisfaction.