I've received several PMs from members, and I am fairly tolerant when it comes to profanity, but I also have my limits. I try my best to answer questions for people who seem generally interested in what I have done. But it would be really nice if things could be kept clean. I didn't do this to get sexual gratification, it's more like for the complete opposite reason.
Fortunately I live on the opposite side of the earth compared to most of the other members here so meeting up is generally impossible. I did however find someone on the chat site who gave me a little too much interest and I got scared to the point I've had to block him. I guess be careful what you wish for right? Would be nice to find someone in the same boat as me that I could actually meet, I'm not interested in meeting wannabes.
How to appropriately admire eunuchs and those truly wishing to become one
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thraddash (imported)
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Re: How to appropriately admire eunuchs and those truly wishing to become one
Simply put, I discourage a lot of discussion of the why's, wherefore's, and what's it feel like questions. I was castrated on 19 June 2000, I am pleased with the result. End of story. I will respond once or twice to a polite inquiry, and will carry on with respectful questions, but I cut off the wankers pretty fast. On the other hand, I do have discussions with a number of people who have had penectomies and castrations. One can be more candid then and learn a thing or two. Of course, my questions aren't about wanking. I thank them.
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But the sister is so hot!
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"Shall I compare thee to a summer's day in Wisconsin?"
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nullorchis (imported)
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Re: How to appropriately admire eunuchs and those truly wishing to become one
Put all of this together and make a new "dummies" book. The book of Eunuch Relations For Dummies.
It seems quite understandable that people who have no compulsion, no craving, no purpose in needing or wanting castration are going to be curious, question, downright stunned, that any man would be voluntarily castrated. But then when you get right down to it, talking with anyone on any subject that has to do with the private parts, just isn't the kind of conversation that people have with each other. It is not your typical social get-to-know you opening line. At least, in the EA, the topic is open for discussion. I can see how those who have been castrated might tire of answering the same questions over and over again. There is no obligation or requirement that a member of EA be a source of information. If they do not want to be asked, that should be made clear in their profile so that people who do have manners will avoid asking the questions.
Right now I am an experienced alcohol injection "castrate". While I do not mind answering questions about my experience, I do try to be most careful in not recommending that anyone do this. It is a permanent destruction of testes, just like medical castration. So it is not to be taken lightly. And coupled with that it may be rife with danger. I had no serious negative side effects, but someone else might. So I can only convey what I did, the results, and suggest that others not do the same. Is it irresponsible to tell what I did? Might my successful experience lead someone else to hope, believe, conclude that they will have the results they are seeking? If I had unsuccessful results, and lived to tell about it, I would be sharing that information. It is up to each person to seek knowledge, self-evaluate, and make decisions for themselves.
It seems quite understandable that people who have no compulsion, no craving, no purpose in needing or wanting castration are going to be curious, question, downright stunned, that any man would be voluntarily castrated. But then when you get right down to it, talking with anyone on any subject that has to do with the private parts, just isn't the kind of conversation that people have with each other. It is not your typical social get-to-know you opening line. At least, in the EA, the topic is open for discussion. I can see how those who have been castrated might tire of answering the same questions over and over again. There is no obligation or requirement that a member of EA be a source of information. If they do not want to be asked, that should be made clear in their profile so that people who do have manners will avoid asking the questions.
Right now I am an experienced alcohol injection "castrate". While I do not mind answering questions about my experience, I do try to be most careful in not recommending that anyone do this. It is a permanent destruction of testes, just like medical castration. So it is not to be taken lightly. And coupled with that it may be rife with danger. I had no serious negative side effects, but someone else might. So I can only convey what I did, the results, and suggest that others not do the same. Is it irresponsible to tell what I did? Might my successful experience lead someone else to hope, believe, conclude that they will have the results they are seeking? If I had unsuccessful results, and lived to tell about it, I would be sharing that information. It is up to each person to seek knowledge, self-evaluate, and make decisions for themselves.
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Losethem (imported)
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Re: How to appropriately admire eunuchs and those truly wishing to become one
I think if those people did have manners, they wouldn't ask the same person the same question over and over. Frankly, that is the first sign I see that tells me the person I'm speaking with is 1. Devoid of manners, and 2. Likely using me for their own amusement (read: Jacking off as I'm talking to them).
For me, that is the biggest line-crosser I see. The person that comes at me multiple times with the same questions after I've answered them. Either they're incredibly thick headed and stuff isn't entering their brain, or they're not being up front about why they are talking to me. I have a lot of respect for someone that starts a conversation with me and lets me know they are into the fantasy aspect of this from the start. I actually enjoy conversing with them because they have been honest with me and are not pretending to be something they are not.
The people I have a issue with are those that act sincere, never tell me they are into the fantasy, and then speak to me as if they are truly seeking answers when a bit later in the conversation it is obvious that's not what they're after. It's not the asking of the same question a second time, it's the third, fourth, fifth, etc. time.
The other things that will stop conversation with me in its tracks is when I'm asked for photos and videos at the beginning of a conversation. At that point it's game over and the conversation ends immediately. That is rude, crude, and tasteless to ask a eunuch or modified man for photos when someone has established NO relationship with them. Why they hell would I send someone these most intimate photos of me after two sentences in a chat?
Another person that frustrates me is one who keeps asking questions in rapid succession without first waiting for an answer to the previous question. Umm... What, are they going down a laundry list until they get to their favorite question that causes them to fire their cannon? Please allow me answer your first question before you ask me another.
I'm sure there's more, but these are the things that stick out in my mind as some of the most egregious violations.
And I'll never put a statement in my profile that says I'm not willing to be a source of information as that would discourage conversation with people who are true wannabes - a group I come here seeking because I want to help them talk out their feelings about why they want to have this change made to their bodies, and lend them a sympathetic ear when the rest of society says they are strange, crazy, or worse.
I am willing to be a source of information but I'm not willing to be a zoo animal for the people who fantasize and try to tell me they are sincere, which is what many of these offensive folks wish to use me for. After nearly 15-years being on these forums, I've become pretty good at figuring out who is here for reality and who is fantasy.
--LT
For me, that is the biggest line-crosser I see. The person that comes at me multiple times with the same questions after I've answered them. Either they're incredibly thick headed and stuff isn't entering their brain, or they're not being up front about why they are talking to me. I have a lot of respect for someone that starts a conversation with me and lets me know they are into the fantasy aspect of this from the start. I actually enjoy conversing with them because they have been honest with me and are not pretending to be something they are not.
The people I have a issue with are those that act sincere, never tell me they are into the fantasy, and then speak to me as if they are truly seeking answers when a bit later in the conversation it is obvious that's not what they're after. It's not the asking of the same question a second time, it's the third, fourth, fifth, etc. time.
The other things that will stop conversation with me in its tracks is when I'm asked for photos and videos at the beginning of a conversation. At that point it's game over and the conversation ends immediately. That is rude, crude, and tasteless to ask a eunuch or modified man for photos when someone has established NO relationship with them. Why they hell would I send someone these most intimate photos of me after two sentences in a chat?
Another person that frustrates me is one who keeps asking questions in rapid succession without first waiting for an answer to the previous question. Umm... What, are they going down a laundry list until they get to their favorite question that causes them to fire their cannon? Please allow me answer your first question before you ask me another.
I'm sure there's more, but these are the things that stick out in my mind as some of the most egregious violations.
And I'll never put a statement in my profile that says I'm not willing to be a source of information as that would discourage conversation with people who are true wannabes - a group I come here seeking because I want to help them talk out their feelings about why they want to have this change made to their bodies, and lend them a sympathetic ear when the rest of society says they are strange, crazy, or worse.
I am willing to be a source of information but I'm not willing to be a zoo animal for the people who fantasize and try to tell me they are sincere, which is what many of these offensive folks wish to use me for. After nearly 15-years being on these forums, I've become pretty good at figuring out who is here for reality and who is fantasy.
--LT
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graylayer02 (imported)
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Re: How to appropriately admire eunuchs and those truly wishing to become one
Basically, it boils down to, if you were in our situation, how would you want someone to talk to you? I'm happy responding to people who are serious or genuinely curious, but there are a lot who are obviously looking for release for the night or are completely incoherent. There are really some strange messages that come across, including some that are not obviously written in any language whatsoever.