Firstly Mr T, thanks for the words of warning. This is something we have discussed for a long period of time and the issues with my cancer mean that sex is a major issue anyway plus I have enough trust in our (very long) relationship to be comfortable when M goes elsewhere for her sexual pleasure ...

Thanks Milkman. It was a scarey old time but I have agreat partner who understands me and whom I love very much. I was not actually even ill (touch wood) from the cancer. It was just found. Aggresive and no choice but removal but luckily caught in time. Given M's desires it does all rather seem like ...

Thanks for the reply Clysmaniac. This is just a difficult thing to start out alone. I have trawled through here a lot but there are just so many different answers and threads. We both wnat to get this going as soon as possible to be honest. Mistress has no interest in my bits anyway and loves the ...

I am looking for some advice on what is obviously a very complicated subject. I am a very serious and experienced sub who has recently had a (looking succesful) Radical Prostatectomy because of Prostate Cancer. I am now left with difficulty gaining an erection etc without Edex or Caverjet injections ...