the sex part is awful confusing

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Here's the thing, as a teen tried going out with girls, they were nice enuff but could not get aroused, but show me a young effeminate male who in some cases is very close to a female ,with some obvious differences, I am immediately excited and aroused. Masculine and muscular younger guys nothing happening at all.I don't know, just cannot figure it out.

On the other hand when I meet an older male who is gay but very male I want to play the female role, I mean it happens seamlessly, been in a few of these relationships to the extent even dabbled with estrogen and other feminizing hormones, but even so a younger fem guy still drives me crazy.this seems pretty strange to me almost like a split personality but it only operates with regard to sexual relationships.anyone ever run into anything similar to this.Maybe its just another wacky freudian quagmire with noanswers just more questions.
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estragen (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 12:34 pm Here's the thing, as a teen tried going out with girls, they were nice enuff but could not get aroused, but show me a young effeminate male who in some cases is very close to a female ,with some obvious differences, I am immediately excited and aroused. Masculine and muscular younger guys nothing happening at all.I don't know, just cannot figure it out.

On the other hand when I meet an older male who is gay but very male I want to play the female role, I mean it happens seamlessly, been in a few of these relationships to the extent even dabbled with estrogen and other feminizing hormones, but even so a younger fem guy still drives me crazy.this seems pretty strange to me almost like a split personality but it only operates with regard to sexual relationships.anyone ever run into anything similar to this.Maybe its just another wacky freudian quagmire with noanswers just more questions.

Or, how about a young, masculine female (http://www.somekindofwonderful.org/imag ... d/901.html), who looks very close to a male?

What you have is gender role confusion.

You will have to find your own answer to this question. No one can tell you how to be comfortable within your own body.

Perhaps if you tried looking at the soul instead of being 'dominated' by the physical attraction things might turn out better for you.

Of course, the physical attraction is strong and it IS pleasurable.

Stay away from people who are older than you. With what you say you sound like you would be easily taken advantage of. Stick with those your own age or younger, (legal age, minimum.;) ), and I expect that you will find what you will be satisfied with, although you must realize that you may never find satisfactory answers to your questions.

Sometimes food is best when eaten instead of analized for its content and nourishment qualities.
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estragen (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 12:34 pm Here's the thing, as a teen tried going out with girls, they were nice enuff but could not get aroused, but show me a young effeminate male who in some cases is very close to a female ,with some obvious differences, I am immediately excited and aroused. Masculine and muscular younger guys nothing happening at all.I don't know, just cannot figure it out.

On the other hand when I meet an older male who is gay but very male I want to play the female role, I mean it happens seamlessly, been in a few of these relationships to the extent even dabbled with estrogen and other feminizing hormones, but even so a younger fem guy still drives me crazy.this seems pretty strange to me almost like a split personality but it only operates with regard to sexual relationships.anyone ever run into anything similar to this.Maybe its just another wacky freudian quagmire with noanswers just more questions.

Perhaps this is just who you are, no biggy.

I hope that you arrive at that place where we are all headed, soon, a comfortable journey 🚬
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A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:06 pm Stay away from people who are older than you. With what you say you sound like you would be easily taken advantage of. Stick with those your own age or younger, (legal age, minimum.;) ), and I expect that you will find what you will be satisfied with, although you must realize that you may never find satisfactory answers to your questions.

I'd agree. You definitely need to stay away from underage folks.
A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:06 pm Sometimes food is best when eaten instead of analized for its content and nourishment qualities.

Analized? What an interesting Freudian slip!!!
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Besides its no big deal, these days is seems everyone has the hots for young hi-fem pretty boys. Tween age girls (The Beatles, David Cassidy, Lief Garrett, most of Duran Duran etc., Gay men, Straight women (Mary Kay LeTourneau had her golden, doe-eyed Polynesian boy), even straight men occassionally. (I met a gay lawyer in a bar once (and I know you can't always trust stories told there) who said when he was a page in congress, several gay pages had a competition to see who could have sex with the most straight congressmen. He claimed to be quite successful.) So enjoy the attraction and grab a bit if it swings your way or maybe try to be the hi-fem pretty boy yourself. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may.
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A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:06 pm Or, how about a young, masculine female (http://www.somekindofwonderful.org/imag ... d/901.html), who looks very close to a male?



That is HOT!!!!!
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Must agree, in truth she reminds me of a guy I know. Was she in Fried Green Tomatoes?
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A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:06 pm Sometimes food is best when eaten instead of analized for its content and nourishment qualities.
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Old wives tale.
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estragen (imported) wrote: Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:57 am Must agree, in truth she reminds me of a guy I know. Was she in Fried Green Tomatoes?

Movie: Some Kind of Wonderful (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094006/)

Actress: Mary Stuart Masterson (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000524/)

BIOGRAPHY (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000524/bio)

But, yeah, she's HOT!

It has become sort of a cult film with a cult film following.
A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:06 pm (http://www.somekindofwonderful.org/
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Of course, if you want a little more you can always try Phoebe Cates. (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/115124/ph ... mont_high/)

OR, perhaps THIS (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/830444/ad ... upermodel/) suits you...

But I have a question. ARE THESE PEOPLE (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/888606/too_skinny_beauty/) DAFT? NUTS, Stupid or just assholes... Maybe the English Tabloids should lay off of Brit Spears if this is the way that they feel.

NOW, HERE (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/784443/ra ... l_catfish/) is something REALLY FISHEY...
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A-1 (imported) wrote: Thu Nov 08, 2007 2:59 pm Movie: Some Kind of Wonderful (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094006/)

Actress: Mary Stuart Masterson (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000524/)

BIOGRAPHY (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000524/bio)

But, yeah, she's HOT!

It has become sort of a cult film with a cult film following.
A-1 (imported) wrote: Thu Nov 08, 2007 2:59 pm 960]
(http://www.somekindofwonderful.org/
)

Of course, if you want a little more you can always try Phoebe Cates. (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/115124/ph ... mont_high/)

OR, perhaps THIS (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/830444/ad ... upermodel/) suits you...

But I have a question. ARE THESE PEOPLE (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/888606/too_skinny_beauty/) DAFT? NUTS, Stupid or just assholes... Maybe the English Tabloids should lay off of Brit Spears if this is the way that they feel.

NOW, HERE (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/784443/rar
[/quote]
e_spoonbill_catfish/) is something REALLY FISHEY...

Gee, Phoebe Cates is killing me, making me crazy jealous, her tits are way better than mine!!
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