Hi all, I'm been visiting this site lately and have decided to speak up. I'm not a eunuch nor am I eager to be "cut", but my sex drive has become quite low in recent years. (I'm 40 yrs old, in good shape otherwise) I've had a fantasy interest in castration since my early 20s so this is less disturbing that it might have been.

I still like women and still find them beautiful but my interest is....how to put it.......more general than sexual. (?) Less focused on T & A and more aware and apreciative of the whole person.

I'm not in any sort of crisis about this but I do feel that I'm in a period of adjustment. Still trying to get a handle on the idea that some women, in reality, do like men with little or no sex drive. From what I've read some seem to see it as a positive thing.

I'm not into the extremes such as seeking pain and/or enslavement (but it that's your thing, go to it), but I've always had a tendency toward being submissive (in regard to women) and that sort of relationship is even more appealing now.

Its not the sort of thing I can talk about just anywhere. Thanks for reading.

Hello!

I'm not really interested in being cut myself either, although I find the concept fascinating. One thing that I *do* plan on doing to myself is taking hormones to decrease my sex drive, since I consider being horny a distraction. (I've ordered some as a matter of fact, and will probably be posting about my experiences with them on this forum in about 2 weeks.)

Welcome to the zoo! Don't be afraid to post and ask questions, and if there's anything you would like to know or need help with, don't hesitate to ask or email.

Thanks for the friendly welcome, Paolo! I like the atmosphere here.