I read an article on here and can not find it again but there was something about how to keep the penis from become erect. I am dating a guy and we both want to start out with this. No erections whatosever on him but not have him feminized.. Any suggestions? Seems like all the drugs i am reading about tend to feminize as well.. Just want one that keeps him limp at all times

thanks for your help

Here is reply from a UK doctor, as follows.

Question

I am being circumcised in about two weeks and want to know if there are any anti-erection drugs available. I have a very high sex drive and will find it difficult to not get erect.

Answer

Erections after circumcision aren't usually a problem. In fact, it’s now many years since a patient complained to me about post-circumcision pain.

In the old days, doctors used to give the drug bromide to men for a few days after the op, but it's not much used now because of side-effects.

Unfortunately, there is no simple and safe drug that will reduce a man's sexual desire. I'm afraid you'll just have to try not to think sexy thoughts until the incision has healed.

Good luck.

PLease read my separate post today about my results of Androcur + Tamoxifen.

Here is a layman's summary of the 2 drugs.

Androcur is an anti-androgen which both reduces testosterone profuction in the testes and prevents testosterone from binding to receptor sites. In this way, it reduces both libido and erections.

Taking Androcur alone for sufficient dose to shut down libido and for sufficient duration may cause breats and milk ducts to grow. This happens when Androcur reduces testosterone level but the male body continues to produce its dose of estrogen as normal. With the imbalance of male vs. female hormones, the breasts may start to grow. I have experienced painful nipples as they start their growth. (But some other people may not experience any breast growth.)

Tamoxifen is an estrogen antagonist. It takes over estrogen in binding to estrogen receptor sites so that the sites may think they are getting the right amount of estrogen but not receiving the effects of the estrogen. So, in a testosterone deficient body, the breasts would be blocked from the effects of estrogen in the body. Tamoxifen is quite widely prescribed to prostate cancer patients who have gone through either chemical or surgical castration, but do not wish to develop breasts.

As a optimal amount of estrogen is required for male sexual response, another benefit of Tamoxifen is to remove that effect as well. So, some, though not all, people while taking Tamoxifen also experience a drop of libido and erectile dysfunction.

[There is one other benefit, which though may not be at the top of your mind, should still be something to worry about. Tamoxifen helps prevent osteoporosis which can be a problem with low testosterone.]

When Androcur and Tamoxifen are combined, you can go along with much lower doses to achive soft dicks and low to no libido, while avoiding feminization and other undesirable side effects of taking Androcur alone.

If interested, please do a search on tamosifen on this board, and you will find a lot of information on it.