I think that a relationship built on high sexual tension will quickly fizzle. I think a more realistic relationship, where your partner needs you to do things for her, would be more sustaining. Taking care of someones needs is rarely sexual. Although the power that one relinquishes when moving into a more domestic role can be exciting, one should seek a relationship that has the potential to be sustaining. Further, not all women want to live up to that leather wrapped Dom bitch that many man hold as ideal. They don't want to be angry all the time, or even physically aggressive during sex.

Reading many entries I feel blessed on my upbringing. My masculinity was preserved ever so carefully by parents, especially my mother, as I was slowly castrated into manhood.

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