• real vs. fantasy

Posted: **Sun Mar 05, 2006 1:25 pm**

One could go along for years enjoying a fantasy of castration and find it the most satisfing sex he is having in that time. But is it because the fear of losing that intence orgasm that you feel when you have balls and that each orgasm that you have could be your last during the fantasy? Or the other side of the coin, is it that all the things you fantasize about are really turning you on and that making that real is what would really satisfy you? The thought of a lover stroking the smooth area where my balls once were is my strongest fantasy.

Posted: **Sun Mar 05, 2006 3:28 pm**

I have wondered what it would be like if my castration fantasies came true for real, I guess most of us have wondered about that.

I have fantasized very intently trying to imagine what the reality would really be like and what all I would experience while a beautiful young woman was performing castration surgery on me, then imagining what it would really be like spending the rest of my life serving and worshipping her as her eunuch slave, and I tried to make my fantasy as realistic as I could.

What I realized is that for most of us with such castration fantasies, reality would be nothing at all like the fantasy and that in most cases the reality would turn out to be a living hell.

What I realized is, accept your castration fantasies as just that, fantasies, and enjoy them as such. I don't think you would like the reality.

Posted: **Sun Mar 05, 2006 4:26 pm**

i tend to agree with IWW. that is why i write stories. it helps me visualize where i want to be. but in my case, i usually don't stop at the event, but conceptualize what life would be after. that is what you find in most of my stories, is that the actual castration is early and almost insignificant, as it is the life of service that i find most rewarding in my fantacy life.

i never wanted to be male and do not feel comfortable this way anyway.

come chat with us in the lobby and share your feelings. we like that.

Posted: **Sun Mar 05, 2006 4:56 pm**

This desire is somewhat new to me...but it is a compelling one...for it to mean anything to me though, i'd want the person taking my balls, and cock, if that's what was wanted, to be my Owner...someone who i felt i was going to be in a long term relationship with...to just give up ones balls to some anonymous person on the spur of the moment would be horrible *for me*...i lost my virginity that way and have regretted that for a long time.

As far as if it would be a living hell...i'd only feel that way if after my balls were taken, i was released...as that would make me feel they were taken under false pretenses...that would be hard to live with..but if i were to stay together with the Owner for a decent period of time afterwards...then i'd be good with it, as i will have given them up for someone i cared about, and who, at the time, cared about me.

Your mileage may vary.

Posted: **Sun Mar 05, 2006 9:44 pm**

Before you take a big step and get castrated I would try it out for a while first. For many when reality hits them when castrated they are very sorry that they were done. I like many others have tried out castration with chemical castration drugs. It gives all the effects of castration but not permanent with some drugs. I knew just how I would feel after I was castrated. I noticed no difference between the drug and the real thing. For almost all guys it is best to keep castration just a fantasy and not a reality.

Posted: **Mon Mar 06, 2006 8:20 am**

tom911 (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 05, 2006 1:25 pm One could go along for years enjoying a fantasy of castration and find it the most satisfing sex he is having in that time. But is it because the fear of losing that intence orgasm that you feel when you have balls and that each orgasm that you have could be your last during the fantasy? Or the other side of the coin, is it that all the things you fantasize about are really turning you on and that making that real is what would really satisfy you? The thought of a lover stroking the smooth area where my balls once were is my strongest fantasy.

I think most guys would be satisfied with castration as a sexual fantasy.

I can vouch though that the reality can be every bit as satisfying as the fantasy. I do really get off - either as top or bottom - when my sexual partner fondles my crotch where the balls used to be when we're making luv. It's definitely one of the best aspects of being ballless. I usually shoot shortly afterward. Of course, whether str8 or gay, I'm not sure lovers that enjoy balless partners are easy to find.

But try it out before you go for the fantasy. Many guys find they can't live with the reality, and at least a few are regretful following castration. And know that castrates must be happy either as always being bottoms or with a lifetime of testosterone supplements.

Posted: **Tue Mar 07, 2006 12:02 am**

One of humanity's biggest problems is our tendency to create mental frames of imagination that don't reflect reality. This is true of all our fantasies, not just those about castration!

Only go through with castration if your mental picture is realistic -- the long hours in doctor's offices, the pus-filled oozing wound, the hot flushes as your body drains of all its maleness, the slow/depressed mental states when your hormonal fuel no longer keeps you alert, the change in body image as muscle and fat rearrange itself, the regrets, the lowered confidence as your testosterone-driven dominance fades, your poorer results in athletic activities, your relationship worries that are complicated by your sexual state, etc.

If your mental image is just about a rush of pain, adrenaline and orgasm as your genitals are sliced off in a gush of blood and cum ... you're way off from the reality! So keep that as fantasy.

Posted: **Tue Mar 07, 2006 1:43 am**

SplitDik (imported) wrote: Tue Mar 07, 2006 12:02 am One of humanity's biggest problems is our tendency to create mental frames of imagination that don't reflect reality. This is true of all our fantasies, not just those about castration!

Only go through with castration if your mental picture is realistic -- the long hours in doctor's offices, the pus-filled oozing wound, the hot flushes as your body drains of all its maleness, the slow/depressed mental states when your hormonal fuel no longer keeps you alert, the change in body image as muscle and fat rearrange itself, the regrets, the lowered confidence as your testosterone-driven dominance fades, your poorer results in athletic activities, your relationship worries that are complicated by your sexual state, etc.

If your mental image is just about a rush of pain, adrenaline and orgasm as your genitals are sliced off in a gush of blood and cum ... you're way off from the reality! So keep that as fantasy.

Thanks, SplitDik,

your are completely right, nothing to add, nothing to correct.

HM.

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