Hi,

I'm wondering how a guy can have sex after he has a penectomy.

I really need to know before I have my dick cut off.

Johnny

P.S. I'm gay, so I would prefer to know the gay end of it.

Hi,

Johnny_60016 (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 25, 2005 10:00 pm I'm wondering how a guy can have sex after he has a penectomy.

I really need to know before I have my dick cut off.

P.S. I'm gay, so I would prefer to know the gay end of it.

The sister has it right on. You'd better be a bottom. You'll never cornhole another guy again.

I know one gay guy who's had his cock amputated (has balls), another who maintains a stump (no balls, but receiving testosterone) and know another who plans to in the near future (no balls, but receiving testosterone). Beyond that, I have very little knowledge. I hope someone with personal knowledge may come through with some personal experience.

Prostate massage is the critical method for those with not even a stump. My BF and I have experimented, and it's possible for me to cum w/ a flaccid cock. Prostate stimulation can be manual or the result of being fucked - usually from the front so that the top's cock stimulates the place where the prostate gland lies just inside the anus. The guy I know who's planning to have a penectomy in the near future says he's been focusing extensively on anal stimulation and now almost always cums. There are other possibilities in the cases of guys with stumps who've had partial penectomies. They can still get hard and have the cock remnant manually or orally stimulated.

Make sure you experiment first. It's one thing to follow through with a fixation on losing one's cock. It's quite another to live with the result.

JeffEunuch (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 26, 2005 9:44 pm The sister has it right on. You'd better be a bottom. You'll never cornhole another guy again.

I know one gay guy who's had his cock amputated (has balls), another who maintains a stump (no balls, but receiving testosterone) and know another who plans to in the near future (no balls, but receiving testosterone). Beyond that, I have very little knowledge. I hope someone with personal knowledge may come through with some personal experience.

Prostate massage is the critical method for those with not even a stump. My BF and I have experimented, and it's possible for me to cum w/ a flaccid cock. Prostate stimulation can be manual or the result of being fucked - usually from the front so that the top's cock stimulates the place where the prostate gland lies just inside the anus. The guy I know who's planning to have a penectomy in the near future says he's been focusing extensively on anal stimulation and now almost always cums. There are other possibilities in the cases of guys with stumps who've had partial penectomies. They can still get hard and have the cock remnant manually or orally stimulated.

Make sure you experiment first. It's one thing to follow through with a fixation on losing one's cock. It's quite another to live with the result.

A few years ago, I could obtain organism through stimulation of my prostate. They could be as intense as the best penial stimulation. That does not seem to be the case now. However, I now do not really have “penis centered” orgasms. My experimentation did convince me that, as long as one has a healthy prostate, that he can enjoy orgasms.

I personally am much happier with my sex life now. My orgasms would kill my sex drive and since I can't just orgasm anytime I want I can keep going all night long. When the sex partner is good he can make me orgasm by massaging my prostate using his cock, uis mouth, his hand or the ass toys I stock next to my bed or take to the bath house. Many times I will just orgasm when asleep and dreaming of having a hot sexual encounter.

dicklessdave,

Do you still have some of your penis left and do you have stump erections?

i fear without my cockhalfs i never would reach a climax. only with prostata - idont believe. It can make the cuming better and greater, but allon it wint go at me. perhaps at you young cockless boys, but an old like me...

i need my slitted halfs, although it has to be the greatest and most amazing to remove greater parts of them or the whole halfs and shaftstick!!!