ALL,

Many of us are apparently married. I am and wanted to explore on a thread how we satisfy our wives. So I will start. My wife and I have never had intercourse, but we have been happily married now for seven years. The deal is simple that when she wants sex, she "makes the date." I usually get all dressed up in some nice lady things and usually fix dinner and we have some good wine and conversation. Then when she decides, we retire to her bedroom where I do the things to thououghly satisfy her. This may include oral sex or me using my hand. Sometimes she likes a dildo. When she is fully satisfied, then I get a nice little kiss on my cheek and I retire to my bedroom and she goes on to sleep.

Wondering how others handle this situation.

Glenda,

This is an important topic that deserves to be explored thoroughly here.

I know that you have referred to this theme in some of your earlier posts. In those, you also referred to your own pleasure, something that’s absent from this post.

We know that the largest sex organ on the human body is the skin and the most important one is between the ears. How are you making use of those two, both for your wife’s pleasure and for your own? That you are happily married indicates that you are BOTH receiving pleasure from the relationship.

Jesus

Hi!

I am as you might know still not an eunuch but still want to ask if there are any of the members here who still could and would penetrate their wives. I am still thinking about the possible castration in Belgium as it seems to be the best place for us Europeans.

Greetings

John

JesusA (imported) wrote: Tue May 31, 2005 8:26 am Glenda,

This is an important topic that deserves to be explored thoroughly here.

I know that you have referred to this theme in some of your earlier posts. In those, you also referred to your own pleasure, something that’s absent from this post.

We know that the largest sex organ on the human body is the skin and the most important one is between the ears. How are you making use of those two, both for your wife’s pleasure and for your own? That you are happily married indicates that you are BOTH receiving pleasure from the relationship.

Jesus

it might be that we are married but we dont have sex with our wifes we have been married 17 yrs we dont have sex now weve done it all before nothing more than that we love each other respect each other but just dont have sex

Jesus, you noted,

JesusA (imported) wrote: Tue May 31, 2005 8:26 am In those, you also referred to your own pleasure, something that’s absent from this post.

I get off tremendously when she comes off. I will masturbate alone and think about bringing her off or some other fantasy/reality.

Hope more will share on this thread.

Glenda J (imported) wrote: Tue May 31, 2005 10:51 pm Jesus, you noted,

I get off tremendously when she comes off. I will masturbate alone and think about bringing her off or some other fantasy/reality.

Hope more will share on this thread.

are you a eunuch as you say you masterbate i thought once the balls were gone there was no sex interest

Cavi, you said,

caviman001 (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 01, 2005 8:15 am i thought once the balls were gone there was no sex interest

As I have noted before, I am chemically castrated, and not physically so. My penis and testicles are quite small at this point.

I have not had an erection now for many years and the last time I had an orgasm in a woman's body was about 30 years ago. I note that in the EA survey results there is a wide range of sexual interest among the participants. I do know two physically castrated men who have regular and apparently satisfying sex lives with their wife in one case and girlfriends in the case of the other. So I think any generalizations here are unwarrented.

I am curious as to whether I could father a child at this point even though I have no desire to do so. I would have to get a sperm count to find out I guess.

my mistake i thought you were sugically castrated thats why i asked if u were masterbating as i thought with no balls no sex interest

I find a good math text book eminently satisfying - works well to prop up furniture, etc.

krister maths books for proping up furniture, is there any other use for them

My wife and i have been married now for 38 years and for the last three years i have been a chemical or now a castrated eunuch and our sex life is just fine.I can have peneration if thats what she wants but the good old vibrater is just what gets her off and thats just fine with me.I think thats a question that should be asked and discussed befor you take that final step i know thats what my wife and i done.We read up on it and talked about this befor we went ahead with the surgery and we havent regretted it one day so i say be honest and talk things out befor you do this but thats just what worked for me.