I was wondering.....

Are there any genetic women out there reading this fourm on this site, that actually would perfer a Eunuch male partner? This site seems to be filled with eithier Homosexual Men, or Trans gender Women. I was wondering the number of Women who are at this site. If you are one of these reading this, could you tell me your interest in eunuch's? Why you would like one as a partner? If you would prefer to E-mail me instead my email is [email protected]. I have often wondered if this fetish is only linked to men, and transgender. Thank you

I don't mind responding here. I think responses help others with the same types of questions!

I'm a woman who was born genitically so. My interest in eunuchs started out because I am a singer. I researched the history of castrati and found the recording of Moreschi and his cohorts from 100 years ago. I also am interested in the differences between men and women- and what role hormones play on our behavior- specifically sex hormones. Are eunuchs really more "sweet" just because they lack (so much) testosterone? Are there people in this world who are just as gentle who are 100% fully-fucntional males? What about women who are very aggressive? I think people are all different and some are more sexual and some are less so and yes hormones play a roll in some way, but its more about personality.

Personally, I would NOT prefer a eunuch as a sexual partner. I feel lucky to be dating someone right now who is gentle and caring and who can be all those things I've heard eunuchs here talk about- can just caress for hours without needing sex, he is communicative, in touch with his feelings, etc. At the same time, he "Works" so we can have what I just describe AND much passion and all that goes along with that. Its a nice mix.

Hope that answers your question!

eunuch_wannabe (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 10, 2005 12:34 am I was wondering.....

Are there any genetic women out there reading this fourm on this site, that actually would perfer a Eunuch male partner? This site seems to be filled with eithier Homosexual Men, or Trans gender Women.

I have often wondered if this fetish is only linked to men, and transgender. Thank you

Actually, I am neither a Homosexual Man (not that there is anything wrong with that) nor am I a Trans gender Woman (not that there is anything wrong with that). I was an active heterosexual before my castration.

Which, by the way, I do NOT regard as a fetish, whatever the heck you may mean by the use of the term. I had enough of sex, wanted the Eunuch calm, now have it, and that's that. I doubt if that can be regarded as a fetish.

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Andrew (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 14, 2005 1:22 am Actually, I am neither a Homosexual Man (not that there is anything wrong with that) nor am I a Trans gender Woman (not that there is anything wrong with that). I was an active heterosexual before my castration.

Which, by the way, I do NOT regard as a fetish, whatever the heck you may mean by the use of the term. I had enough of sex, wanted the Eunuch calm, now have it, and that's that. I doubt if that can be regarded as a fetish.

:shakemitk :shakemitk :shakemitk

Your situation has never seemed a fetish to me. Your realized desire to be a eunuch makes perfect sense.

I am not interested in having a eunuch partner, but I am also a biological female...

I answer because I have also wondered whether this interest skips women (other than myself). It appears not - well, not entirely.

Some times I do wonder if Fate does exist.

I just joined the eunuch archive today, this is my first entry in this forum, and I picked it randomly, having No idea what the messages in it would be about.

I am a 35 Yo woman, I am Bi, and have as a lover and friend a member of this group. O I was born as a woman. Sal.limpone and I have been together a few years now. No 24/7/365, but maybe once a week or so for several years now. Although all of the manly parts are still attached (I wish they were not, I think that stuff is Ugly!) But nothing works <Thank the gods> He really does spend hours giving me much pleasure, and many orgasms, till I am too sore to touch or lick.

Since his set does not work, I have never been asked to even touch him down there. {Thank heaven} I have asked him why he even bothers to diddle me, and he says that while it does nothing for him physically, that it does make him feel better about himself, he can still give a woman much sexual pleasure.

Frankly he is as good as 95% of the women I have had as Lovers, without my having to raise a sweat by giving back some fun. He also looks very manly, and that helps also when I am on his are in public. That is I think the only thing he gets out of it, being seen with a good looking woman.

One other point, I Know that he has similar relationships with about 8/10 other women. They he assures me, are as straight as can be.

Have a good day people

Jill13ny

Moreschi (imported) wrote: Thu Jan 13, 2005 11:47 am I feel lucky to be dating someone right now who is gentle and caring and who can be all those things I've heard eunuchs here talk about- can just caress for hours without needing sex, he is communicative, in touch with his feelings, etc. At the same time, he "Works" so we can have what I just describe AND much passion and all that goes along with that. Its a nice mix.

That's wonderful! I'm a man who got involved in this web site because I may lose my testicles soon. This is due to an injury that occurred about 35 years ago when I was a kid. My bits never worked properly after that, so I have been on testosterone therapy most of my life. Consequently, because of the testosterone, I'm a big muscular guy, and people are often frightened by my appearance. But I'm a very gentle person (so much for what they say about roid rage). I'm very sentimental and romantic. I never lose my temper (sometimes I get hurt feelings). My teenage daughters aren't afraid of me; they tell me everything that goes on in their life; they ask my advice,and we talk things through. My wife and I are very physically close and tender after 26 years together.

I think the years I spent as a eunuch (4 years of high school) taught me a lot about being a considerate lover. I developed a quiet spirit at that time that is still with me.

DocT (imported) wrote: Tue May 17, 2005 11:41 pm That's wonderful! I'm a man who got involved in this web site because I may lose my testicles soon. This is due to an injury that occurred about 35 years ago when I was a kid. My bits never worked properly after that, so I have been on testosterone therapy most of my life. Consequently, because of the testosterone, I'm a big muscular guy, and people are often frightened by my appearance. But I'm a very gentle person (so much for what they say about roid rage). I'm very sentimental and romantic. I never lose my temper (sometimes I get hurt feelings). My teenage daughters aren't afraid of me; they tell me everything that goes on in their life; they ask my advice,and we talk things through. My wife and I are very physically close and tender after 26 years together.

I think the years I spent as a eunuch (4 years of high school) taught me a lot about being a considerate lover. I developed a quiet spirit at that time that is still with me.

you say you spent 4 yrs in high school as a eunuch, i take it to be it was chemical castration, as you say you have daughters, just wondering if your testicles were not working how you had daughters

No, there was no chemical castration. I was injured. The blood vessels to my testicles were damaged and they do not get much blood flow so they do not produce much testosterone. My level was 54 when it was checked. Normal would have been about 450 - 650. So it was 1/10th of normal. Sperm production does not seem to be as sensitive to blood flow, so I wasn't sterile, but I had very little sex drive due to the low testosterone. As a lot of guys here can testify, testicles can take a lot of abuse before they give up the ghost... probably a result of natural selection and survival of the most tenaciously fertile.

This is Jill13ny again,

I just got done with my second try at Joining. I have had a # of people ask me over the Years why I would prefer a Eunuch over a Man? I was Molested by my dad and others as a Kid, and young woman. I have never got over the feelings I have when I see and smell a stiff cock coming towards me. I do not believe that has anything to do with Why I love Women, as I did before all that stuff started.

Jill13ny