Please forgive me if this post is in the wrong forum. But I was wondering if anyone new of a way to make orgasm less intense? A way without prescription medication? Like something physical perhaps? Some kind of habit forming way to totally diminish the intensity of an orgasm so that I'm not wanting one or chasing after it all the time? Someone told me once that I should masturbate as quickly as possible and orgasm as fast as I can to help wanting to do it all the time. And they said that as soon as I start to ejaculate I should initiate the end of the process by starting to clean it up and move around and act like nothing happened. That would decrease my desire for it. It's actually worked for a while, but then I can't help myself to prolong the ejaculation when I do masturbate. I was wondering if someone had any other ideas along those lines.

Also, I was wondering if anyone knew of anything topical, over the counter kind of ointments, salves, medications that would decrease the intensity of the feeling of masturbating. Something that would keep me from wanting to spend so much time doing it. I read some stories about the victorian era of masturbation and those guys really had some ideas! But without terrible physical harm, I was wondering if there was anything that could be applied to my penis or scrotum, or even inside the urethera that would thwart my desire to masturbate so much? Something that would make it unenjoyable to do? Essentially I'm looking for something to take the pleasure out of it so I don't do it at a chronic level. Something that would keep me from even desireing it after a while because of the lack of feeling or intensity. Is there anything that could desensatyze my penis and scrotum and eliminate the intensity of an orgasm? Any thoughts or suggestions would be much appreciated. Thanks.

numnuts (imported) wrote: Sat Dec 18, 2004 1:36 am Please forgive me if this post is in the wrong forum. But I was wondering if anyone new of a way to make orgasm less intense? A way without prescription medication?

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Thanks.

I notice when my Testosterone is low my orgasm is not very intense, and the amount of seamen is reduced, when I had very little testosterone I hardly had any orgasm and would orgasm before ejaculation could accrue. Drove my wife nuts.

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Well thanks for the advice! LoL. Is there a hidden message in there?

Lidocaine and Benzocaine are off-the-shelf topical gels (look in toothache section of pharmacy) that will cause significant numbness for a few hours. With lidocaine I can do modifications, burrns etc. without even feeling it!

Interestingly, there is a new condom called Durex Performa that uses benzocaine inside to help male stamina during sex.

numnuts (imported) wrote: Sat Dec 18, 2004 1:36 am Please forgive me if this post is in the wrong forum. But I was wondering if anyone new of a way to make orgasm less intense? A way without prescription medication? Like something physical perhaps? Some kind of habit forming way to totally diminish the intensity of an orgasm so that I'm not wanting one or chasing after it all the time?

I am afraid that the only way to do this permanently is with Depo-Provera. After over 2 years of being on it I have no desire for sex & my penis is virtually numb. Try it.