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upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 11:32 am
by Jenny Wize (imported)
Hi all .
I get real upset at times, I know I am a female in a mans world on this site, and on the whole I have been welcomed, of course I have mete the odd male who thinks he rules the world and usually I respect his views.
Recently I introduced a female friend to the chat room on her first night she met one of the rare guys who told her in no uncertain way, females are not welcome here and she should go, this upset her I think it is such a shame to be so bigoted and treat new members in this way.
I must add most people I have mete are great and I have had a lot of laughs here, and through a rather difficult time when my partner was in hospital I received a lot of support from friends hear.
jenny
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 12:12 pm
by Leona Lee (imported)

Hi Jenny! First of all,I apologise for some of the ignorance of some people that visit here.The Chat room is open to everybody and some that are not members.Most of us TG folk's are very happy to have you and remember,we
want to change our sex to a women.So all the more reason to have you on board.I,also have had problems in chat and many genetic females visit with
made up names to hide there gender.Don't let a few spoil it,we TG folk's appreciate you.Please tell your friend to return.Big Hugs,Leona Lee

Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 12:21 pm
by sag111 (imported)
Jenny i feel so bad that happened and if you ever find out who said that let me know we will ban that person their is no room for that kind of hate here in the chat room or the archive.Jenny you are a dear friend of mine and i love you dearly and again i am so sorry this happened.
When i go in the chat room i see my friends i dont care what gender they are we are all friends and thats the way it should be.
Jenny tell your friend to come back and see us again and if anyone says anything negetive we will take action that will stop this.

Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 1:59 pm
by Christina (imported)
Jenny,
First of all let me appologize for the treatment your friend recieved in the chat room. If ever anyone has a problem with another person in the chat room, please tell one of the operators immediately. There is no need to ask an operator first before talking to them in private for this type of offence. If there is no operator in the room at the time, please write the name down or send an Email to:
http://www.eunuch.org (
http://www.eunuch.org/).
I speak for all the operators when I say we do not allow this type of behavior in the chat room.
We have rules for the chat room. This other person clearly violated them and your right to be there as well.
Rule #3:
Personal attacks, flaming, ethnic bashing, derogatory remarks, harassment, or talk of politics will get you kicked with moderator review for re-instatement.
Jenny, I do hope your friend decides to stop back in the chat room again. All are welcome to the chat room.
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 3:46 pm
by Riverwind (imported)
Jenny,
I support what my two ops said, we dont allow that kind of treatment to anybody in the chat room. I wll say again, if this happens to you tell an op asap, or give me the persons name and time of day, date. Send it to me at Riverwind@eunuch.org
I will take action .
Riverwind, head chat room op,
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:12 pm
by Kelly_2 (imported)
Wow. This is wonderful. Here is a place where bigots do not rule and the powers that be defend Jenny. She is made to feel welcome here.
Hugs,
Kelly

Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:21 pm
by awen (imported)
Jenny Wize (imported) wrote: Thu Oct 07, 2004 11:32 am
Hi all .
I get real upset at times, I know I am a female in a mans world on this site, and on the whole I have been welcomed, of course I have mete the odd male who thinks he rules the world and usually I respect his views.
Recently I introduced a female friend to the chat room on her first night she met one of the rare guys who told her in no uncertain way, females are not welcome here and she should go, this upset her I think it is such a shame to be so bigoted and treat new members in this way.
I must add most people I have mete are great and I have had a lot of laughs here, and through a rather difficult time when my partner was in hospital I received a lot of support from friends hear.
jenny
Unless that person were an operator, he had no authority to force her to leave. Staying would have turned the tables delightfully in her favor.
awen
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:28 pm
by talula
Everyone is welcome at the chat room except for a small minority that are bigoted, encourge others to hurt themselves, are minors, are rude, etc.
The rules for the chat are very small. The golden rule is respect each other and chat.
tal
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 6:16 pm
by bigtwin (imported)
There's always one person that is looking for trouble.
don't let that idiot drive your friend away.This site is a
second home to many of us and I have alot of friends here.So if that happens
again please report it.Take care,[twin]
Re: upset at bigots
Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 6:52 pm
by Sunny (imported)
How awful. Do try to bring your friend back around, there are more likeminded people here than you might think.