I miss making love, masturbating, daydreaming about sex, orgasm, touching, sharing, and most other aspects of sexuality. I am not depressed about not having sex. I am not bitter about not being able to act on my sexual longings. I simply miss sex.

Cool. I'm too concerned at the moment with the action of FSH, a testosterone derivative if I recall correctly, and how its wrecking havoc with my face, but I do look forward to the day when sex is completely and utterly impossible and its desires are gone.

Sink California,

awen

Life is now simplier. I am not certain that is always better. It is different. I recall being unable to go one day without an orgasm. That went on for perhaps 30-40 years.

What I miss, however, is both being desired and having my desire for others appreciated by the objects of that desire. That is no longer the case. Sexual play was fun. I miss it.

So, Softee, get yourself a girlfriend. There are 3.2 billion females in the world, probably 1.3 billion of which are over 21 years old. If the idea is to want someone--even only as a friend--and to be wanted, you ought to be able to manage that.

Why does everybody think that an association, or relationship, between two people of different sexes, has to involve orgasm? There are a whole lot of women who don't get much of a thrill out of orgasm, and enjoy the preliminaries more than they enjoy intercourse. I remember one graduate student telling me that she would enjoy having a sexual playmate who didn't want to penetrate her.

As always, there are people out there who would get along fine with you--you just have to find them.

Actually, I do have a girlfriend! We have been friends since 1999. We met on the web. We talk almost every day. She is lusty, but she is also a conservative Christian. She won't share intercourse with marriage, but we are not in a financial state to support marriage. She lives in another state. We do visit each other. Not being able to get off helps me with this relationship.

I am amused that my eunuch-related fantasy was to endure penectomy but to keep my testicles. In essence that is what I have--testicles that work and a penis that doesn't. I have a raving libido sometimes and no way to get off. In a way this is exquisite.

I have learned that my sexual problems come from diabetes and should improve as I diet and exercise during the coming year. I do not know how much improvement I will enjoy. Still, this has been an interesting experience.

I for one dont miss sex i think i abused it so much when i could that i love not being controled by this anymore.I dont miss constantly thinking of my next obsession that would consume my thoughts I dont miss hiding things from my wife and the list goes on.

No i dont miss sex

amen brother!!!!couldn't have said it better.[twin]

My former wife was a sexually celebrative and adventurous woman. I hope and trust that she still is. Making love with her enriched 21 years of my life. She was a beautiful and intelligent woman. I am thankful and grateful for her gifts to me.

However, I too enjoyed my years of celibacy. I liked the time I had to read, walk, and think. Now, I sudeenly miss sexual play. I suppose the HRT worked.