hi , everybody here is talking about our thoughts ands needs but what about the wifes needs.

What i am trying to say is this, i ve bin castrated in december 2003. my wife fully agreed with it. but she has problems with my look now.

The empty sac.

It is very much wrinkled now , just like an old man.

i think it is because i had a very large sac from al that stretching.

i find it myself also not good looking.

she want touch it because she's finds it abominable.

had anyone of the eunuchs here , married ofcourse or living together , ever had the same experience as i.

and how can i change this problem. does i only have to be more patients?

greetings marca

I haven't read any of your other posts, so forgive me if my comments have already been addressed. Have you considered the option of prosthetic testicles or just having your sack removed. How are you feeling emotionally now after several months? Do you have any sex drive? Are you taking any HRT? Is your wife otherwise happy with the result of your becoming a eunuch? Has it enhanced your relationship? I"m asking because of my own situation; I may lose one or both testicles due to an injury.

DocT

DocT (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 25, 2004 12:29 am I haven't read any of your other posts, so forgive me if my comments have already been addressed. Have you considered the option of prosthetic testicles or just having your sack removed. How are you feeling emotionally now after several months? Do you have any sex drive? Are you taking any HRT? Is your wife otherwise happy with the result of your becoming a eunuch? Has it enhanced your relationship? I"m asking because of my own situation; I may lose one or both testicles due to an injury.

DocT

emotionally i am feeling ok, in the beginning i had mood swings. my sexdrive is completely gone. but at this time i dont take HRT. but as some friends here know , i recently made a bonescan and i have already osteoporosis after 2.5 months. so soon? yes , but is it from the castration? we(my doctor and i havend figured that out.so he send me to a specialist(andrologist). tomorrow i have an appointement with him.

my home doctor said , i think hes gonna prescribe you testosteron and medicine for the osteo.

however i want no erections no more ,so i m gonna tell him that i dont want to take testosteron. lets see what he says tomorrow.

i keep you informed

greetings marca

DocT (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 25, 2004 12:29 am I haven't read any of your other posts, so forgive me if my comments have already been addressed. Have you considered the option of prosthetic testicles or just having your sack removed. How are you feeling emotionally now after several months? Do you have any sex drive? Are you taking any HRT? Is your wife otherwise happy with the result of your becoming a eunuch? Has it enhanced your relationship? I"m asking because of my own situation; I may lose one or both testicles due to an injury.

DocT

oh yeah, about the sac.

i have decided to remove the sac , ore at least a big piece of it after a few months.

so that the skin is tightly.

my wife is content about it me being a eunuch now, yes, accept for my sac.

our relationship is inproved, better.because i am much calmer and i am a better lessoner than before , and womans want that. hihi.

thanks for your reply.

marca (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 25, 2004 7:16 am emotionally i am feeling ok, in the beginning i had mood swings. my sexdrive is completely gone. but at this time i dont take HRT. but as some friends here know , i recently made a bonescan and i have already osteoporosis after 2.5 months. so soon? yes , but is it from the castration? we(my doctor and i havend figured that out.so he send me to a specialist(andrologist). tomorrow i have an appointement with him.

my home doctor said , i think hes gonna prescribe you testosteron and medicine for the osteo.

however i want no erections no more ,so i m gonna tell him that i dont want to take testosteron. lets see what he says tomorrow.

i keep you informed

greetings marca

Why not ask your doctor about taking estrogen? - it should not boost your desire for women but help your osteo problem. Small amounts will not have a feminising effect.

There are plenty of guys around to satisfy you wife.

MaryM (imported) wrote: Thu Apr 15, 2004 9:57 pm There are plenty of guys around to satisfy you wife.

Is that really what you want? It doesn't make for a very good marriage.

MaryM (imported) wrote: Thu Apr 15, 2004 9:57 pm Why not ask your doctor about taking estrogen? - it should not boost your desire for women but help your osteo problem. Small amounts will not have a feminising effect.

There are plenty of guys around to satisfy you wife.

i have finally the results from the additional tests the specialist doctor did because i have already osteoporosis. everything was ok, he could not find anything that is abnormal or that caused my osteo. so we talked about medecine. he said no fosamax, because i had a stomach ulser previous year.

their where other medecine like fosamax but they are not payed back by the medical ensurance.now he is gonna try to get me some experimental medecine out of the states.i asked him for a bit female hormones but he said that it would causes femenisation.and he will look it up in books for smal doses.for now he prescriped me calcium 2500mg.

over two weeks i have to call him for it.so lets wait for his advice and i ll keep you informed.

and about "

MaryM (imported) wrote: Thu Apr 15, 2004 9:57 pm There are plenty of guys around to satisfy you wife

" my wife does not likes sex.

Hello Marca,

I live in Paris and I search a surgeon to a full nullification : remove testicles, scrotum and penis.

Do you think that is possible in the clinic where you have been castrated?

Thanks and goodbye

cdejours (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 17, 2004 8:06 am Hello Marca,

I live in Paris and I search a surgeon to a full nullification : remove testicles, scrotum and penis.

Do you think that is possible in the clinic where you have been castrated?

Thanks and goodbye

Hi,

Did you hear about Dr. Murray Kimmel, urologist, his telephone # is area code (215)Philadelphia, and the local number is 563-0847. He shares a clicic in a building with other doctors. His reputation preceeds him: His address is 2301 Pennsylvania Avenue, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania UNITED STATES, two blocks from a Best Western Hotel, that's where most of his patients stay if they are from out of town. He suggest two days at the hotel before travelling.

Good luck,

Bull