I am happily married. I have a strong sex drive, but my wife has none.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how i might lower my drive without going as far as Depo Provera?

You could always think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold wet day.

Beleza (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 05, 2004 10:44 am You could always think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold wet day.

That would do it. So would thinking of Hillary Clinton, and she wouldn't even have to be naked.

I think SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) can decrease libido.

happousai (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2004 1:36 am I think SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) can decrease libido.

You can use Androcur. It is a chemical castration drug. Just use a lesser dose to have less libido.

DEA i to had a strong lobido and with me it was out of controal.Now as others have said antidepresents will help to slow things down and i only wish that i would have been on them earlier in my life but that is past history .Now i am curently on depo provera and it has stoped my sexual urgers completly and now i finaly have the life that i am comfortable with.This may be to much for you but one never knows just what another is looking for so keep looking here and i am sure that you will find just what is best for you my friend. If nothing you will find that most are friendly and very willing to help you.

DEA (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 05, 2004 9:25 am I am happily married. I have a strong sex drive, but my wife has none.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how i might lower my drive without going as far as Depo Provera?

DEA doesn't stand for Drug Enforcement Administration now, does it? I don't think Depo-Provera is too drastic. Try it, you'll like it.

madscientist1 (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 07, 2004 8:57 pm DEA doesn't stand for Drug Enforcement Administration now, does it? I don't think Depo-Provera is too drastic. Try it, you'll like it.

Oh great, the DEA is now after us now. You would think that with all the right wing extremist in the US Government they would approve of us giving up sex. Of course they would only approve of our efforts if they were drug free in nature. Be thankful you live in Canada.

Growing old seems to have helped lower my libido. The jumpstart HRT did increase it a tad. Loss of libido is not the worst fate I have had. I confess that I almost enjoy the lower level of desire.

DEA (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 05, 2004 9:25 am I am happily married. I have a strong sex drive, but my wife has none.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how i might lower my drive without going as far as Depo Provera?

I elastrate myself with a narrow leather band (a leather shoe lace with a "hangman's knot"). I tighten it up each 10 minutes until my balls are a deep blue. After about an hour numbness sets in. I have been doing this for about an hour a day for two weeks. The pain in now minimal and mostly deep cord crushing feeling to the left and right above my penis. The impact has been a flacid cock (almost as if it, my cock, were expecting this punishment/treatment every 8 p.m.) with slighlty swollen testicles and a great decrease (but not elimination) of libido. I too am not sold on Depro Povera since it must be administered by injection and I don't want to get into that at this time. I am interested in the pills approach and will try a regiment of Androcor next month after I get a little more information on how soon I can expect the testesterone diminishing results and hopefully the resulting libido reduction, impotence and hopefully genital shrinking.