I have a really good one for you guys and gals. If a person no's that his sex drive is way to high, as far as out of control.Why aren't there any doctors in everyone's home town to help out with the probblem?Think about it, if a man no's that he will act out on somthing bad and wants a cure wouldn't a cure be better than prison???maybe im just blabbing but just somthing I thought of today.

Uh-huh.

Just like in some states if you are a "sexual predator" and break the law badly enough they will OK your castration - but there is no way to get that approval until AFTER you are a convicted criminal.

Wouildn't it be nice if one could have the state OK it without having to do something criminal first?

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You know, life is odd.

Risk taking is a learned behavior, as women do it to. It has to do more with the secretions of the adrenal glands than the sex glands. Chances are that if you are a risk taker, you are an adrenalin junkie.

Next subject...

Call this A-1's rules of fickle relationships, but I find that the less considerate that you are to women in general, the more considerate that they are to you. This is probable true of Gay relationships, too, but I defer to the experienced to offer input regarding that matter. It seems to be a human characteristic and not dependent upon sex.

Of course, you can go overboard, but generally speaking, the dating treatment sets the course for the entire relationship.

If you are strong and have well defined boundaries, the girl (woman) will respond in kind. If you tolerate no mistreatment then you won't be getting any. One way or the other, if you get my drift.

Salami, do not get desponant and give up. She is out there and she will treat you right and respect you. The best relationships are always with those women that you are not hot for.

This is perhaps humanity's best kept secret.

A-1

A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun May 18, 2003 3:08 pm Risk taking is a learned behavior, as women do it to. It has to do more with the secretions of the adrenal glands than the sex glands. Chances are that if you are a risk taker, you are an adrenalin junkie.

A-1

Just a personal anecdote: my wife made the first skydive between the two of us.

Junkie? Hell no, just when I don't get my fix after a week or two I start getting crazy and talking about doing insane things like...like...like.......

Jumping out of airplanes! Cool!!! I'm game!

Rich

Thats what I was trying to say tomas thanks,why would anyone have to go threw with life noing there is a problem when theres a cure,lol I can't say that much more strongly than that. Anyways If anyone wants to be castrated why not, better than getting your self behind bars the rest of you life I wouldnt want that.just over Sex hmm.

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midnight (imported) wrote: Sat May 17, 2003 11:56 am a person no's that his sex drive is way to high, as far as out of control.Why aren't there any doctors in everyone's home town to help out with the probblem?

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This Question can be answer'd very eloquently. It is the simple rule of Supply and Demand. If Plastic Surgeons everywhere were hit up by men asking for Bi-Laterals every week, they would enter practice for the money. I belive that urologists and E.R. surgeons are getting the majority of the customers.

Salami, kind of funny you mentioned Michael Jackson in this context, isn't it LOL? I mean if he wasn't who he is he'd be just another child molester. But he does it as art, so he gets away with it. This world does differentiate and allow privileges to some that are condemned in others.

But you are right. What you want to do with your cock'n'balls is a form of art. So lop them off, pal. Lop them off. they are too handsome to be allowed to wither and die.

A-1's thing about tratment of women is true. I think it's because iof you treat a woman that way she needs to find ways to bring you arond to accepting her. Bad treatment is a form of rejeciton. So then she is locked inoto trying every which way to get you to accept her. Women who treat men like that also have them by the nuts. Lierally... Good point there, A-1. Deserves more than passing discussion.

I remember that they foudn denial of sex is a real biological subconscious incentive to getting someone interested. Has to do with the best specimens reproducing. This is why women 9and females of any species) play ahrd to get. If the man sticks with it and beats out the competition, he is considered teh superior one and gets to reproduce.

They found when trying to get bears to mate in the zoos, the males ignored the females totally when placed with her in the cage. When they fenced her off the male suddenly went ballsitic tring to tear down the fenc e to get to her and fuck her.

I think this is why [people in mrriages lose interest in their spouses and will go after other people who are not readily available. this is why I feel marriage as we define it, where fidelity is enforced, is against nature. Sex is always better if you have to make an effort to get it. Your desire mounts and mounts till you finally HAVVE to get laid.

In prisons, convicts ahve been known to castrate themselves ion teh frenzy to stop the need that can't be satisfied.

Guys in marriages who have posted on this site should consider this factor before cutting off thei balls.

Salami wants to do it for a different, totally creative reason. he has made (it seems) sex a special and creative part of his life and wants to make a final tribute to his penis by preserving it for all time. Making a sacrifice of his own pleasure to do it as well. His situation is unique, but then he is a unique and interesting dude.

To ad a footnote, if you rwife seems unhappy all the time, she is that way becasue of some deep seated reason from her past that probabvly has been buried. Maybe being raised to have expectations that are not realisticallyh obrainable becasue they don't exist. Many women are raised to think having a husband is the ultimate and there are standards the husband shoujld live by which means sacrificing his natural needs and wishes to the marriage. i don't know if htis applies, just throwing out a a generalization.

I have never been married or in any relationship straight or male, and I am happy about it. Life should be an open banquet. if marriage fulfills both parties it is great.

But I think we minimze the value and importance of sex. the whole reason for marriage originallyu was to reproduce and keep the parents together to get the kids raised. it has become something else now. Now men are made to feel their natural sexual desires should be dismissed for the relationship that is become more one sided in favor of women being served. No thanks. If a woman wants exclusive rights to a man then she should provide for his sexual needs. Otehrwise he shoujld be free to have other partners as well.

Man I am rambling! Sorry.

Thank you Yankee Masha, Do not worry about rambling...happens to the best of us...

I have been monogamous for about 33 years now, except for old laydy thumb and her four daughters...

Just kidding.

But seriously, folks,

You know there is something to that rejection stuff. It is a fine dance that we play with our potential mates.

The sex is just the thing that gets things going. It cannot keep it going. The only way that happens is if you get to be friends.

If your mate is your friend you may be attracted to others, but you do not betray your friends. Of course, if the sexual infatuation lasts for a number of years, all of the time the sparks are flying the friendship should be building.

All of a sudden you wake usp one day and you think to yourself, man, this one ain't so hot any more. But, by that time they are your buddy and you may look another way, and maybe you might even stray, but it is hard to hurt that friend.

And, if you do you feel like shit for a long, long time. Then, there is the sexy little number that is either going to dump you or who is going to go apeshit when you dump them. Usually, you will find out that the best sex is always with your lover.

Man, affairs are just not worth the grief.

But I still LOVE to look...

Salami, I did not say to get an UGLy woman, just get one who you are not that attracted to. If you are attracted to all of them then you are sooo fucked...

The song, it is a Calypso, I believe that perhaps it was a Harry Belafonte song.

"If you want to be happy the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife..."

You know, a wise man once told me, he sez...A-1 (not my real name), You know when you are getting wise when you see a woman and her 18-year-old daughter and you are more sexually attracted to the woman than you are to the daughter.

He is right! Believe me, it happens, especially with the McDonalds diets that kids are so fond of...

Not for all of the oil in Saudi Arabia would I want to have to start over with a 15-year-old girlfriend. Even if I was 15 I could not do it knowing what I know now. Of course, the hormone thing is not nearly so powerful now, but hot damn, some of those younger girls sure can get my juices flowing, as long as they do not open up their clap-traps and say something adolescent, which they all do sooner or later.

That is why I look but I know better.

A-1