Will maybe let Message Board know if Posts are working, and might be a new/interesting topic even for EA. I hardly ever post anything here, and very seldom read much of the Story Submissions. If this Thread is at the right "new" place, it's supposed to be a place where women, and I guess men, with Eunuch partners can comment. I'm 52 yrs old now, and hubby was done 11 yrs ago for med reasons. It's OK for us (it's a "we" thing), and at our stage of life, probably better. If a couple, I think it has to be a "we" thing, or it would be only bad. Kind of like a couple having a kid -- if not an equally compatible thing, it more a negative than a positive.

If this Post works (per EA suggestion), would be interested in other's who have "real" experiences from either the female or male side.

--- Sugar ---:)

Your husband is fortunate that you stayed with him. What I miss is the intimacy shared with my former wife or anyone else. Being a medical eunuch or a eunuch from changes in life has not been rewarding, even though the first few years of my eunuch status were liberating.

Testosterone shots have given me back sexual desire and almost constant fantasies during the time I'm not working or with friends, but I still long for orgasms and for making love.

I'm glad that my former wife remarried. I hope that her sexual life fulfils her. I suspect that she enjoys her sexuality again. That is important to me.

But going to bed alone frustrates me. I long for embraces and for bringing a woman bliss.

Its funny, I have not been a eunuch that long but I am really enjoying the new me. What is interesting is that my ex wife who remarried and then divorced again, is my closest friend. I live in St Louis, my family lives in California. Sense I was castrated one son has already moved here, my ex is here right now and will be moving here next month, my daughter is moving at the same time. So I will have 2 of my 5 kids and all 6 of my grandkids two streets over.

I am not sure I want to live with my ex again but we sure are spending a lot of time together. What is also strange is in that we have been separated for 12 years or so and we find ourselves saying or thinking the same things at the same time. I am not sure where this will lead but I know I glad there here. We have taken long drives around the local country, gone to breakfast and lunch and in general just had fun being together.

OH MY>

River

I cannot imagine that my former wife would have stayed with me even if things other than my lack of libido had been okay. My doctor said that my former wife did not leave just because of my loss of libibo. She indicated that my former wife might have stayed had other aspects of our marriage functioned.

I'm not certain that was the case. My wife used to say that she didn't want me as a friend but as a lover. In an odd sense, we never were friends.

exciting that an attr woman would have an interest in this..

doesn't it?

Is it because I'm gay that I don't know what any of you are talking about?

Being gay may block some meanings. :catclock: :redbounce :redbounce

Thanks...I thought I was losing it. But I guess I never had it! LOL All you guys on this thread seem to jautomatically understand. I like the straight thing in this area more than the gay for some reason though even though I am gay (with a curiosity about some straight stuff). I wonder if I should start a new thread about that? I'll do anything to chat with interesting folks.

yankee masha (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 08, 2003 6:08 am I'll do anything to chat with interesting folks.

The EA does have a chat room. I wish I had more time to visit the chat room on a regular basis.