Abelards blissful castration
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2003 8:58 pm
ABELARD'S BLISSFUL CASTRATION
Yves Ferroul
Where is the wise and learned Heloise,
On whose account once Peter Abelard
Was castrated, then monk at Saint-Denis?
Because of love he knew pain.
Francois Villon
Ballade des dames du temps jadis
In this essay I view the story of Abelard as a rarity: a medieval example of how a man experienced and expressed his understanding of his gender through sexuality, marriage, and sexual mutilation. In addition, I propose that the reception of this story from Abelard's time to our own has tended to misrepresent the nature both of Abelard's castration and of his claustration. [claustration is from the same root as cloister]
To defuse the scandal of his affair with Heloise and her pregnancy, Abelard insisted upon marrying her but did so secretly. Heloise's uncle Fulbert attended the ceremony. When Fulbert divulged this secret to others, Heloise, who then lived in his house, denied the fact of the marriage. The infuriated uncle then mistreated his niece so terribly that Abelard removed his wife to the convent of Argenteuil, where she was "disguised" in a nun's habit. Since Fulbert and his family though Abelard was trying to reject his marital relation to Heloise, Fulbert decided to punish the seducer by mutilating him. Abelard presented the circumstances leading to his castration later in his Historia clamitatum. He concluded: "overwhelmed with such woes, shame (confusio pudoris), I must confess - rather than a true vocation - pushed me into the shade of a cloister." Abelard thus established a causal connection: his castration caused him to forego his marital relationship with Heloise in order to become a monk.
Commentators - chroniclers, theologians, historians, encyclopedists, and even poets like Villon, quoted above - have persistently regarded this connection as self-evidently natural. One of Ablard's contemporaries, Otto Freising, gave an account of the phioloper's adventures in his Gesta Friderici imperatoria: "Ill-treated in a well-known circumstance, Abelard became a monk in the monatery of Saint-Denis." Garbiel Peignot observed in his Dictionnaire biographique in 1813 that "they mutilated him in an inhumane way. This unfortunate husband concealed his shame and sorrow in the Abbey of Saint-Denis, where he entered into religion." "There was no alternative," concludes Charles de Rémusat in his drama Abelard. Joseph McCabe, in Peter Abelard, was certain that Abelard only indirectly connects his conversion to his mutilation because of modesty:
It is a pious theory of the autobiographer himself that this mutilation led indirectly to his 'conversion.' There is undoubtedly much truth in this notion of an indirect influence being cast on his mind of life. Yet we of a later age, holding truer view of the unity of human nature and of the place that sex influence occupies in its life, can see that the 'conversion' was largely a direct physical process.
Charlotte Charrier, in her thesis on Heloise, was equally clear: "If we approve of Abelard's decsion to embrace a monastic life - and was it not the only acceptable decsion? Wasn't he bound to do so?" Etienne Gilson shared her opinion, the received and common opinion: "The reason he entered into religion is quite clear. Nothing allows anyone to suppose he would have become a monk had he not been covered with shame by his ordeal." Gilson goes so far as to assert that Abelard immediately and totally accepted this expiation as a divine command. He therefore also connects castration to monastic life. Recent interpretations of this episode are similar. According to Régine Pernoud,
It is therefore Abelard himself who imagined and imposed this solution. He may have thought there was no other way out: Heloise was his wife before God and Man, but he could no longer be her husband after the flesh. The bond that subsisted could be dissolved in no other way than by their joint entry to the monastery
In the Regard sur les Françaises, Michèle Sarde validates Abelard's behavior:
Love cannot ignore the sanctions of marriage with impunity; or otherwise it would be doomed to impotence. Nevertheless, the Word is a possible substitute. Halted in full swing by castration, Abelard froze. He turned away from Heloise and fixed his eyes upon heaven.
The unanimous view is that Abelard's entry into monastic life was justified, but this traditional notion assumes that the couple had to dissolve. At least one other option is ignored: Abelard could have shared his misfortune with the woman he had wedded before God. What motivated Abelard's separation from his wife? Might not the couple's marriage have been maintained?
THE FOUNDATIONS OF MARITAL LIFE
It is usually thought that once Abelard could no longer be Heloise's sexually whole husband, he inevitably sought shelter in a monastery, which affirms Abelard's right to dissolve his marriage since he had been castrated. Ecclesiastical law cites castration as one form of impotence, defined as the inability to implant semen. In the twelfth century, impotence conferred the right to nullify a marriage if it occurs after the ceremony. It was an undeniable impediment if known before. However, this definition did not apply to Abelard because his marriage was consummated: after that point, impotence did not consitute legal nullity.
Procreation, as one of the goals of marriage, must be possible for a true marriage. After its consummation, a marriage becomes indissoluble: "indissolubility is attached to marriage by divine law after consummation." The philosopher and his disciple-wife were fecund, and thus the couple was indissoluble. An accident after that point could not alter their union. Legally, an impotentia coeundi, even if it is anterior and perpetual, cannot compel the spouses to separate. Why then did Abelard use nullity as a cause, since his impotence was posterior to the marriage, consummation, and the birth of a child? Castration alone cannot explain Abelard's behavior, since it did not bind him to separate from his wife. Abelard's rationale is typically explained as a desire to attain the ideal of chastity promulgated by the church, which ranked celibacy above marriage. The church venerated couples who separated to remain chaste. St. Alexis, for example, pled with his young wife on their wedding night to prefer heavenly to mortal life and to regard Jesus as her sole spouse. St. Simon (d. circa 1080) similarly exhorted his new wife to retain her chastity and to take a vow of virginity, and then he sent her to a monastery and donned the habit himself. But these examples are irrelevant to Abelard's situation,, since the most ideally chaste of couples did not consummate their marriages.
In the twelfth century, once their children were independent and inheritance problems were resolved, many couples separated after living together for a long time in order to devote the rest of their lives to God - as did Abelard's parents. Many couples did not wait for old age, and "is is noticeable how easy it was, for those who wanted to lead a monastic life, to annul their marriages, to divorce, or to separate." Monastic life was privileged; recruitment to its ranks was eased. Yet the desire for devoted monastic relusiveness was not the exclusive reason for such couples' separation. The possiblity of an ecclesiastical career constituted another important incentive. Leclercq cites the example of the twelfth-century knight Ansoud de Maule, who asked his wife's permission to become a monk: "The decision after marriage to become a monk or a nun was often grounds for separation, provided it was by mutual consent." Leclercq argues that Abelard and Heloise's behavior was thus not atypical:
The favours bestowed on them by the wealthy, who helped them in founding and sustaining the paraclete, as well as the spiritual support granted by St. Bernard, Peter the Venerable, and Innocent II: all this proves they had not been misunderstood nor banished."
One should not conclude quickly that Abelard and Heloise followed this pattern. First, their move to monastic life did not occur by "mutual assent." Abelard says that "abnegating her own will, Heloise had already, as I ordered her, taken the veil and her vows," while Heloise recounts that "your order made me undergo the rigors of monastic life." Next, no decision to be chaste requires a determination to enter a monastery. By 1200, The Life of St. Cunegunda (d. 1040) reports that she devoted her virginity to the king of heaven with her chaste husband's assent. Before dying, the latter told his parents-in-law: "I give her back to you just as you entrusted me with her. You gave me a virgin, and a virgin I return to you." So, too, the story of the Count of Hainaut, who respected his bride's wish to remain a virgin and, "despite all other women, she became his sole passionate love." Though Abelard chose monastic life for himself, why did he choose it also for Heloise? Mutual consent to separate does not require that both spouses must enter religious life. Gabriel Le Bras refers to the Decretals of Gregory IX that queries separations "unless one of the spouses enters religious life." Abelard could have permitted his wife to remain a laywoman without asking her to enter a convent.
Despite the virulent anti-matrimonialism of Jerome's Adversus Jovinianum, intensified by Gregory the Great, the church professed that it regarded marriage as one way to attain sainthood. Abelard frequently cites biblical quotations to voice his awareness that marriage is no impediment to salvation. Heloise is equally sure that the quest for salvation is not shackled by marriage. God has not destined only monks for beatitute: "Et quomodo honorabiles sunt nuptiae, quae nobis tantu impediunt?" (And how can marriage be regarded as honorable if it is seen as mere shackles?) Heloise is futhermore sure of the strength of her relationship with Abelard: "You know what bond binds us and obliges you, and that the nuptual sacrament unites you to me all the more tightly as my love has always been overt and boundless." The couple could have lived together and benefitted from "all these marital tokens of affection" that Heloise misses. In light of Heloise's desire, Abelard's insistence upon her claustration cannot be justified, since their conjugal status was not affected by castration after conummation. Hugh of Saint Victor writes that the union of two bodies legitimates and sanctifies marriage and that the union of souls provides "the sign and symbol of the great mystery of the union of Christ and Church."
Yves Ferroul
Where is the wise and learned Heloise,
On whose account once Peter Abelard
Was castrated, then monk at Saint-Denis?
Because of love he knew pain.
Francois Villon
Ballade des dames du temps jadis
In this essay I view the story of Abelard as a rarity: a medieval example of how a man experienced and expressed his understanding of his gender through sexuality, marriage, and sexual mutilation. In addition, I propose that the reception of this story from Abelard's time to our own has tended to misrepresent the nature both of Abelard's castration and of his claustration. [claustration is from the same root as cloister]
To defuse the scandal of his affair with Heloise and her pregnancy, Abelard insisted upon marrying her but did so secretly. Heloise's uncle Fulbert attended the ceremony. When Fulbert divulged this secret to others, Heloise, who then lived in his house, denied the fact of the marriage. The infuriated uncle then mistreated his niece so terribly that Abelard removed his wife to the convent of Argenteuil, where she was "disguised" in a nun's habit. Since Fulbert and his family though Abelard was trying to reject his marital relation to Heloise, Fulbert decided to punish the seducer by mutilating him. Abelard presented the circumstances leading to his castration later in his Historia clamitatum. He concluded: "overwhelmed with such woes, shame (confusio pudoris), I must confess - rather than a true vocation - pushed me into the shade of a cloister." Abelard thus established a causal connection: his castration caused him to forego his marital relationship with Heloise in order to become a monk.
Commentators - chroniclers, theologians, historians, encyclopedists, and even poets like Villon, quoted above - have persistently regarded this connection as self-evidently natural. One of Ablard's contemporaries, Otto Freising, gave an account of the phioloper's adventures in his Gesta Friderici imperatoria: "Ill-treated in a well-known circumstance, Abelard became a monk in the monatery of Saint-Denis." Garbiel Peignot observed in his Dictionnaire biographique in 1813 that "they mutilated him in an inhumane way. This unfortunate husband concealed his shame and sorrow in the Abbey of Saint-Denis, where he entered into religion." "There was no alternative," concludes Charles de Rémusat in his drama Abelard. Joseph McCabe, in Peter Abelard, was certain that Abelard only indirectly connects his conversion to his mutilation because of modesty:
It is a pious theory of the autobiographer himself that this mutilation led indirectly to his 'conversion.' There is undoubtedly much truth in this notion of an indirect influence being cast on his mind of life. Yet we of a later age, holding truer view of the unity of human nature and of the place that sex influence occupies in its life, can see that the 'conversion' was largely a direct physical process.
Charlotte Charrier, in her thesis on Heloise, was equally clear: "If we approve of Abelard's decsion to embrace a monastic life - and was it not the only acceptable decsion? Wasn't he bound to do so?" Etienne Gilson shared her opinion, the received and common opinion: "The reason he entered into religion is quite clear. Nothing allows anyone to suppose he would have become a monk had he not been covered with shame by his ordeal." Gilson goes so far as to assert that Abelard immediately and totally accepted this expiation as a divine command. He therefore also connects castration to monastic life. Recent interpretations of this episode are similar. According to Régine Pernoud,
It is therefore Abelard himself who imagined and imposed this solution. He may have thought there was no other way out: Heloise was his wife before God and Man, but he could no longer be her husband after the flesh. The bond that subsisted could be dissolved in no other way than by their joint entry to the monastery
In the Regard sur les Françaises, Michèle Sarde validates Abelard's behavior:
Love cannot ignore the sanctions of marriage with impunity; or otherwise it would be doomed to impotence. Nevertheless, the Word is a possible substitute. Halted in full swing by castration, Abelard froze. He turned away from Heloise and fixed his eyes upon heaven.
The unanimous view is that Abelard's entry into monastic life was justified, but this traditional notion assumes that the couple had to dissolve. At least one other option is ignored: Abelard could have shared his misfortune with the woman he had wedded before God. What motivated Abelard's separation from his wife? Might not the couple's marriage have been maintained?
THE FOUNDATIONS OF MARITAL LIFE
It is usually thought that once Abelard could no longer be Heloise's sexually whole husband, he inevitably sought shelter in a monastery, which affirms Abelard's right to dissolve his marriage since he had been castrated. Ecclesiastical law cites castration as one form of impotence, defined as the inability to implant semen. In the twelfth century, impotence conferred the right to nullify a marriage if it occurs after the ceremony. It was an undeniable impediment if known before. However, this definition did not apply to Abelard because his marriage was consummated: after that point, impotence did not consitute legal nullity.
Procreation, as one of the goals of marriage, must be possible for a true marriage. After its consummation, a marriage becomes indissoluble: "indissolubility is attached to marriage by divine law after consummation." The philosopher and his disciple-wife were fecund, and thus the couple was indissoluble. An accident after that point could not alter their union. Legally, an impotentia coeundi, even if it is anterior and perpetual, cannot compel the spouses to separate. Why then did Abelard use nullity as a cause, since his impotence was posterior to the marriage, consummation, and the birth of a child? Castration alone cannot explain Abelard's behavior, since it did not bind him to separate from his wife. Abelard's rationale is typically explained as a desire to attain the ideal of chastity promulgated by the church, which ranked celibacy above marriage. The church venerated couples who separated to remain chaste. St. Alexis, for example, pled with his young wife on their wedding night to prefer heavenly to mortal life and to regard Jesus as her sole spouse. St. Simon (d. circa 1080) similarly exhorted his new wife to retain her chastity and to take a vow of virginity, and then he sent her to a monastery and donned the habit himself. But these examples are irrelevant to Abelard's situation,, since the most ideally chaste of couples did not consummate their marriages.
In the twelfth century, once their children were independent and inheritance problems were resolved, many couples separated after living together for a long time in order to devote the rest of their lives to God - as did Abelard's parents. Many couples did not wait for old age, and "is is noticeable how easy it was, for those who wanted to lead a monastic life, to annul their marriages, to divorce, or to separate." Monastic life was privileged; recruitment to its ranks was eased. Yet the desire for devoted monastic relusiveness was not the exclusive reason for such couples' separation. The possiblity of an ecclesiastical career constituted another important incentive. Leclercq cites the example of the twelfth-century knight Ansoud de Maule, who asked his wife's permission to become a monk: "The decision after marriage to become a monk or a nun was often grounds for separation, provided it was by mutual consent." Leclercq argues that Abelard and Heloise's behavior was thus not atypical:
The favours bestowed on them by the wealthy, who helped them in founding and sustaining the paraclete, as well as the spiritual support granted by St. Bernard, Peter the Venerable, and Innocent II: all this proves they had not been misunderstood nor banished."
One should not conclude quickly that Abelard and Heloise followed this pattern. First, their move to monastic life did not occur by "mutual assent." Abelard says that "abnegating her own will, Heloise had already, as I ordered her, taken the veil and her vows," while Heloise recounts that "your order made me undergo the rigors of monastic life." Next, no decision to be chaste requires a determination to enter a monastery. By 1200, The Life of St. Cunegunda (d. 1040) reports that she devoted her virginity to the king of heaven with her chaste husband's assent. Before dying, the latter told his parents-in-law: "I give her back to you just as you entrusted me with her. You gave me a virgin, and a virgin I return to you." So, too, the story of the Count of Hainaut, who respected his bride's wish to remain a virgin and, "despite all other women, she became his sole passionate love." Though Abelard chose monastic life for himself, why did he choose it also for Heloise? Mutual consent to separate does not require that both spouses must enter religious life. Gabriel Le Bras refers to the Decretals of Gregory IX that queries separations "unless one of the spouses enters religious life." Abelard could have permitted his wife to remain a laywoman without asking her to enter a convent.
Despite the virulent anti-matrimonialism of Jerome's Adversus Jovinianum, intensified by Gregory the Great, the church professed that it regarded marriage as one way to attain sainthood. Abelard frequently cites biblical quotations to voice his awareness that marriage is no impediment to salvation. Heloise is equally sure that the quest for salvation is not shackled by marriage. God has not destined only monks for beatitute: "Et quomodo honorabiles sunt nuptiae, quae nobis tantu impediunt?" (And how can marriage be regarded as honorable if it is seen as mere shackles?) Heloise is futhermore sure of the strength of her relationship with Abelard: "You know what bond binds us and obliges you, and that the nuptual sacrament unites you to me all the more tightly as my love has always been overt and boundless." The couple could have lived together and benefitted from "all these marital tokens of affection" that Heloise misses. In light of Heloise's desire, Abelard's insistence upon her claustration cannot be justified, since their conjugal status was not affected by castration after conummation. Hugh of Saint Victor writes that the union of two bodies legitimates and sanctifies marriage and that the union of souls provides "the sign and symbol of the great mystery of the union of Christ and Church."