When my former wife left me, she also left me a stray cat. I endured that animal for eleven years. Recently, the cat took up with a neighbor. I am thrilled. I had not realized how much I hated that cat. For many years, I did enjoy a cat that I loved, but I really disliked this last cat. Perhaps, she symbolized my loss of sexuality. I don't know.

Blaise (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 11, 2003 4:20 am When my former wife left me, she also left me a stray cat. I endured that animal for eleven years. Recently, the cat took up with a neighbor. I am thrilled. I had not realized how much I hated that cat. For many years, I did enjoy a cat that I loved, but I really disliked this last cat. Perhaps, she symbolized my loss of sexuality. I don't know

Strays can have many problems. In my case, both cats have been owned by others, and both have been socialized. This can make a huge difference in behavior.

She is a lovely Maine Coon. That is a wonderful breed. She adjusted well to the large apartment I had for several years and to the house that I rented for several more years. She has never liked the small apartment I now rent. She came to my former wife and me in good health. However, she did not like for anyone but me to hold her. She was alwaya affectionate.

She has never been able to ride in a vehicle. She has been difficult to take to the vet.

She had a bad time last year when I was extremely ill. She did not get the daily grooming that I had given her for many years. She did not get the attention at night that she once had.

I think that someone in my apartment complex has taken her. I hope that is the case. I like cats. I had one earlier cat for sixteen years and had a close bond with her. I fear that I never quite formed a bond with this later cat. I regret that, but I can't pretend that I really wanted her.