Im Upset and Angry

[Scottie (imported)]

I was just reading a post that says something like if your castrated... what the hell do you want an erection for???? "It's like pising in the wind" I suggest he goes and pisses in the wind! I thought that there wasen't much judgement here about what we all choose. I really thought that. Now lookie here... Im a Euncuh dead balls and all soon to be remooved as you all kknow. Living for real as a slave (no fantasy) my wife/Mistress requires service not only orally but she requires it from penetration of my Penis. She likes the feeling and likes th aspect of joining together. Now being a Eunuch has tapered my libido and my need for such things isint as intense as it once was. I imagine it will even lessen in time. I do feel it important to satisfy her. So big deal. I take a viagra, or a Muse or a Uprima and low and behold an erection appears. I then satisfy her and return back to my altered state as a Eunuch who is becomming happy with his new way of life. SO DONT BE SO QUICK TO JUDGE UNLESS YOU KNOW THE WHOLE WHOLE STORY!!!!!!!!! Scottie

[luvpain (imported)]

Scottie,

You do have a great point there. I know for a fact that I still expect to get hard afterwards, but only ocassionally and know it will be more special when I do. The whole point for wanting the castration is to reduce or rid myself of the constant need to get off.

This place is a good resource for everyone, it just seems like people get too uptight sometimes. There are ccertain things that I know I wouldn't do, but am OK with others doing.

As long as the person is not harming anyone who should we be to judge what others want done to their bodies.

[Scottie (imported)]

We all make life decissions. Being in an alternative lifestyle is the only way I have been happy. I was a prisoner for a long time caught between a vanilla relationship and a bunch of hopes and dreams. Now I am realizing my hopes and Dreams and have even discoverd more about myself than I ever could have. Being different isint always easy. In fact I know it isint easy. Heck 20 yrs from now there might be 1000snds of us but for now...WE NEED EACH OTHER!!!!! THERE IS NO PLACE FOR JUDGING ONE ANOTHER. Debate, disagreement no problem... it's healthy. Remember, however that until we wlak in another persons shoes we don't have a right to judge him or her. Think about it. Debate, arguments, disagreements, opinions NO PROBLEM!!!!! JUDGEMNTALISIM SUCKS!!!!!! scottie

[Mac (imported)]

Scottie,

I have been thinking about you. Your castration date must be getting close. Are you still looking forward to getting it done?

[Scottie (imported)]

Hi Mac! Funny you should ask. Yes I am looking forward to having my orciectomy, castration and becomming a eunuch. I am afraid, and I am afraid of the unknown and all the changes that lay ahead. I think thats kinda normal. It is scarey however. I haven't had much t levels for a while so Im getting used to being a eunuch sometimes it feels good and sometimes it's confussing. All in all I CAN'T WAIT TIL IT'S OVER!!!!

After all these guys got knifes and needles and all kinds of sharp things hanging around. They even got the chemicals and all the drugs and worst of it they are'nt any older than me. YIKES!!!! But all in all ....YES I AM scottie Happy New Year!!!!

[Paolo]

Alright, somehow I missed this one.

Who lipped off at the eunuch-soon-to-be? Bring me his head on a silver platter. And his balls, too, in a sidedish.

Just a reminder, folks, lack of balls or functioning ones in relation to sexual activities (or lack thereof) and / or fantasy is STILL a part of the whole Board here.

If Scottie thinks he wants to have an erection or experience sex with no balls, dead balls, whatever, he's perfectly entitled to do that and talk about it here.

Bring me the balls of the Infidel.

:tongueout

[Tomas (imported)]

Bring me his head on a silver platter. And his balls, too, in a sidedish.

Uh, just a point of order, or rather a question of taste, I suppose: Does one serve red or white wine with testis? (Or should they properly be accompanied by an after-dinner drink of some sort?)

Take care,

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[JesusA (imported)]

I can only suggest that calf fry go well with a nice, medium-bodied Pinot noir, though a fairly heavy Chardonnay might do well too. Turkey testicles require a medium body white, such as a Sauvignon blanc.

Jesus

Your galloping Buddhist gourmet

[Andrew (imported)]

I was just reading a post that says something like if your castrated... what the hell do you want an erection for???? "It's like pising in the wind" I suggest he goes and pisses in the wind!

I wouldn't worry too much about that person, Scottie. Obviously, he does not realize that many eunuchs can still function after castration, to include erections, penetrations, and orgasms. Just not as a frequently. The main thing is that after castration you will be IN CONTROL of your sexuality, and if you wish to ignore sex altogether, you will be able to do so comfortably. But depending on age, what your adrenal glands will be pumping out, and other factors poorly known, you can still have some years with an active sex life. Sooner or later total impotence may set in, but that is a HUGE "YMWV" thingie.

Remember that most of us in the EA will support you, no matter what your INFORMED decision is, and help you to accept the consequences, whatever they may be. Hang in there!

[Christina (imported)]

Don't let whomever it was get to you. I know there has been some heated topics in the past and the people it was aimed at got upset. This message board should be and is a place where one can freely express their opinions. Sometimes the replys to a thread are too judgemental and I see it as if they are trying to force their beliefs rather than give an opinion or advice. I know, from my own experiences, some of the changes you must be going through with your emotions. It's the little things that can be upseting at times. Don't worry yourself about it, you have many friends here that really DO care about one another.

I want to say something to you about being afraid of your upcoming castration. Being afraid is normal. Fear of the unknown is normal. It's nothing you should be ashamed about. Everyone has fears, yes me too, and we have to deal with them in our own way. Imagine, if you can, about some of the things I am having to deal with facing the world as a new and different person that I once was. It takes a lot of courage to overcome your fears. I think that you have the determination, like I do, to see things through. Yes it's scary at times, but it drives us to our goals. Without it, we wouldn't have gotten as far as we have. Don't let your imagination get the best of you, when it's all over, I think you will find it wasn't as bad as you thought it would be.

Be strong! Best wishes to you for a speedy recovery and may the new year be filled with happiness.

Love and Hugs,

Christina Marie