Seeking some advice here. Intact, straight male. 31 years old. I'm in a happily committed relationship of 4 years. No relationship issues or health issues.My arousal has been really high lately. Getting more erections than usual and finding it really easy to get turned on by sexual thoughts, when normally it's just during certain times of the day.
But I'm not horny for sex or masturbation. I'm literally just horny to be horny, and I don't understand. I haven't had an orgasm in nearly two weeks and I'm not bothered by that at all, but yet I experience horny thoughts and get erections quite easily, which is something I honestly struggled with for a few years.
I've always said I plan to be castrated around 40 years old. Don't really wanna have kids any older than that and it's kinda like a halfway point in life. Lately, due to some soul searching and general thoughts on the world, I've been getting the urge to be castrated sooner.
Anybody think one could be affecting the other? Anyone have experience with someone like this? Very new and strange feeling.
Horny, but not for sex or masturbation
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Re: Horny, but not for sex or masturbation
Not sure what to suggest about the horny aspect, I lost a lot of the ability for that when I got hurt...
I would ask if you have had any discussions on the topic with your significant other about the topic? I believe that it is a really important thing in a relationship that everyone in it have a role in making major decisions, and there aren't all that may which are more major...
When I first made the decision to start down this path, the first person I told was my GF of 30+ years... She still says that she doesn't really understand why I want the surgery, but that it's my body. She has just insisted that I do things with proper medical support, which is what I wanted to do anyway.... I'm not sure what I would have done if she'd had serious objections, but I don't think I would have done anything until she was at least OK with it, or possibly (very unlikely) we had gone our separate ways...
There is at least one other member here that says he never told his wife that he wanted to be fixed, but instead arranged some 'accidents' that made it medically necessary. It might be just me, but seems like not the healthiest way to have such a deception in the relationship.... (Of course it's possible that she is quite aware, and is just pretending to accept his story, who knows??)
It might be worth talking with a TG center or other similar professionals about the idea of doing a chemical castration trial. At least for me and a lot of others here, it seems to make the sexual thoughts either go away, or at least not matter, in addition to getting rid of the erections...
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I would ask if you have had any discussions on the topic with your significant other about the topic? I believe that it is a really important thing in a relationship that everyone in it have a role in making major decisions, and there aren't all that may which are more major...
When I first made the decision to start down this path, the first person I told was my GF of 30+ years... She still says that she doesn't really understand why I want the surgery, but that it's my body. She has just insisted that I do things with proper medical support, which is what I wanted to do anyway.... I'm not sure what I would have done if she'd had serious objections, but I don't think I would have done anything until she was at least OK with it, or possibly (very unlikely) we had gone our separate ways...
There is at least one other member here that says he never told his wife that he wanted to be fixed, but instead arranged some 'accidents' that made it medically necessary. It might be just me, but seems like not the healthiest way to have such a deception in the relationship.... (Of course it's possible that she is quite aware, and is just pretending to accept his story, who knows??)
It might be worth talking with a TG center or other similar professionals about the idea of doing a chemical castration trial. At least for me and a lot of others here, it seems to make the sexual thoughts either go away, or at least not matter, in addition to getting rid of the erections...
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Re: Horny, but not for sex or masturbation
Castration will take care of the horniness. My relationship is actually more romantic without testosterone. More handholding, cuddling, kissing, etc. No penetrative sex, of course, but she doesn't want it anyway at our age. The thought of masturbation isn't too appealing either at this point. Feels like too much work qnd messiness to bother with.
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Re: Horny, but not for sex or masturbation
I am only post two months since my surgery and I have to agree with FLeunuch. My male hornyness is gone but I still have elevated emotional feeling. I see it more like a female Aerosol. It gets satisfied by hand holding and kissing. My porn surfing days are mostly gone. I have been looking at trannys with small penis pictures…and which I had gone down that road real young. Basically a puberty blocker until I was sure (keeping my penis small) then orchiectomy with estrogen to feminize me. There are some real pretty pictures I wish were me.