Hello there

[smalldick84 (imported)]

My name is Karl. I’m 37 years old male from Finland. My interest in castration started as a sexual fantasy when I was a late teenager. During these twenty or so years I’ve struggled with my libido and fetishes. When I was younger I developed a porn addiction for which I got help and got it under control. Sometimes when it’s been few days without sexual release and my, for the lack of a better word, horniness gets out of hand, I can notice my behavior changes to old bad habits.

I’ve been married for over ten years now and have a child. My libido is putting a lot of pressure on my wife and myself and our day-to-day life. When we were younger and more care free it was easy for us to insulge in different type of sex to ease my needs but work life and especially combned with family life leaves us both exhausted. While not having a chance for sexual interaction and release I find myself wandering back to my addictive mindset and porn whenever I get a chance. I’ve gotten some counceling for it but it hasn’t proven helpful or has helped for a short period of time during busy and stressful times. In addition my wife is starting to feel frustrated and sometimes even guilt about not wanting enough sex. I try to assure her it’s my problem and support her as well as I can.

In these last few years we’ve come back to the topic of castration but this time by my wife and on a serious note. Well it was a half hearted joke which lead to a series of serious discussions during these last two years. The fetish has grown old and I do not feel any arousal thinking about it. My main concerns have been health and emotional related and also some dents on my ”male pride”. We had trouble conceiving our child due to my bad sperm so our second child will be from a sperm donator anyway.

So we are continuing our discussions and will be seeking medical consultations from a doctor. Our hopes are not too high and we might need to think of a chance to go abroad for the procedure if it’s not possible where we live. We will still go through every possible alternative professionals suggest us.

I’m here to meet new people, new friends, information and support. Thank you for anyone reading this.

[Cseriess (imported)]

Hi , welcome. Your story is not unusual here. i would suggest trying chemical castration. It is getting way easier to achieve. I think genderGP might be worth researching in Europe.

[Littledick (imported)]

Welcome

You will find lots of information on this site, and get to know some great people that will be able to help you with what you are looking for.

Again welcome

[smalldick84 (imported)]

Thank you for your reply and suggestions. Chemical castration sounds like a good option to try first.

[smalldick84 (imported)]

Welcome

You will find lots of information on this site, and get to know some great people that will be able to help you with what you are looking for.

Again welcome

Thank you, that sounds encouraging. I hope I can make new friends.