We went off to the beach over the weekend but my wife stayed to meet up with some girl friends while I had to get back for work. She just came home and sheepishly informed me she had kissed one of her girl friends. All she would admit to was "making out" but I hope to elicit more details later.

I just need to be careful and not treat it like a big deal. And I damn sure better not try and make a joke about going out and buying her some Birkenstocks, a plaid shirt, biker wallet with chain and some golf clubs. This is no time for my perverse sense of humor.

Lately I think she has been having some vague issues with her sexuality and this was a big step. I must say I am proud of her for having the courage to explore and step out of her comfort zone.

I can remember the first time my wife mentioned she had gotten drunk with a couple of her female friends in the hot tub, and they ended up fooling around.I found it rather titillating. She enjoyed it, and as I said just make sure the children didn't catch them, she had several female flings. She told me it was a different orgasm from her friend, not better, just different.

Cseriess (imported) wrote: Sat Sep 12, 2020 5:14 pm I can remember the first time my wife mentioned she had gotten drunk with a couple of her female friends in the hot tub, and they ended up fooling around.I found it rather titillating. She enjoyed it, and as I said just make sure the children didn't catch them, she had several female flings. She told me it was a different orgasm from her friend, not better, just different.

This is an area I need to tread carefully in and not make her feel it's a big deal. But honestly if she is going to have affairs I'd rather it be with other women.

It sounds like some whole new opportunities for sexuality are now opening up for you. Being guaranteed seedless is helping women leave behind their fears of impregnation. Your wife is sowing some wild oats of her own andd trying out her new freedoms with you tamed and not able to fertilize any of her female friends.

Do you think pure honesty with her about what you think and feel might work the best ? She might welcome your excitement and enjoy showing you off to her friends as a very rare, voluntary gelding still standing at stud ?

i would let her tell you, dont go asking a bunch of questions . she maybe still sorting things out in her head