Wondering how others came to find displeasure with (in my case) testicles and bulge?

Early age I would wear sisters panties and my little bulge looked stupid to me, as I got older I found panties would not keep the testicles in and want back to briefs. This was disappointing because I liked the feel and look of panties better. Then when I tried tucking I found the look very desirable for many pants and shorts. Now I have become very turned off if I see another mans bulge especialy the larger ones.

Some males dream of a big package and most of the underwear sold now for men is made to enhance the bulge or at least not hide it. Why am I not on board with society?

I dont hate being a guy, just dont like some of the features that I was given.

1969 was the year the earth stood still. The American sexual revolution was in full swing. Women stopped wearing bras and men wore jeans that made their junk look as big as possible. In fact, men would sandpaper their jeans to fade the side they pushed their cock and balls to.

By 1980, the "moral majority" started fighting back against the sexual revolution, free love and just about anything to do with sex.

One thing, in particular, was men's fashion changed. Pleated pants, loose jeans (relaxed fit) just about anything to hide the fact that men hand anything between their legs - the Ken Doll look was in.

Even men's bathing suits went from bulge showing Speedos to baggy boardshorts.

About the only place left where a big dick and thus a big bulge is desirable is in a porn video. Otherwise, society really doesn't can much for guys showing off a bulge.

It's not you. Most likely you were brought up to hide "that thing". I'd bet that as you matured in your teen years your parents mentioned more than once that your pants were too tight or maybe your parents just kept up with keeping your pants looser.

Most likely you had the biggest dick in the showers in gym class. That experience has stuck with you.

The reason I mention all of this is that you didn't mention being unhappy with the sexual satisfaction you receive from your cock.

There is one thing, you aren't happy with your cock and balls making it difficult to wear women's panties. So, there are two possibilities:

1. That you like wearing women's panties and are unhappy with the bulge could be solved by buying panties made for men. There are multiple web stores that sell panties cut for men.

2. That you are a male to female transexual and would be happier with surgery.

Only you can figure out which is the case.

I'm totally on-board with what you are thinking. In the Summer, whenever I go swimming and wear speedos, I would tuck and tape my genitals to appear as a nullo. I love the look and feel, and most of all how people look at me. I'm totally turned off by my bulge and would prefer to see it go away for real.

I've resolved the underwear problem by going commando. However, I'm fully sympathetic with what you mean about disliking the look of large bulges. I'm personally pleased that a lot o' contemporary men's pants and shorts don't accentuate the bulge. It certainly aligns with my preference for not showing a bulge. Of course, I can't show much anyway without testicles and a dick that's thin and of modest length.

MikePalmer (imported) wrote: Mon Aug 05, 2019 7:25 pm Wondering how others came to find displeasure with (in my case) testicles and bulge?

Early age I would wear sisters panties and my little bulge looked stupid to me, as I got older I found panties would not keep the testicles in and want back to briefs. This was disappointing because I liked the feel and look of panties better. Then when I tried tucking I found the look very desirable for many pants and shorts. Now I have become very turned off if I see another mans bulge especialy the larger ones.

Some males dream of a big package and most of the underwear sold now for men is made to enhance the bulge or at least not hide it. Why am I not on board with society?

I dont hate being a guy, just dont like some of the features that I was given.

I was never comfortable showing a bulge, but when younger didn't know enough to do anything about it. About ten years ago (or so) I discovered tight thong underwear and enjoyed wearing those. Then I started wearing womens thong underwear because there weren't much of "men's" to buy. Now all I own is womens panties and most of those are thong style. I started tucking also, but now without any balls and sack, I find that I don't have to tuck much, as there isn't much there to produce a bulge. If wearing tighter pants I tuck.