Page 1 of 1

Hello :)

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2019 2:11 am
by CuriousButAware (imported)
*politely waves*

I have recently signed up here to perhaps pass on any wisdom I may have accrued over the years and understand others' perspectives. Now to the particulars!

I'm a 30 year old post-operative transgender woman who also had the experience of severe testicular pain for some years before and during the first years of her transition. By the grace of a lovely urologist who picked up my case after unsuccessful pharmaceutical interventions by other urologists/my own physician and a spermatic cord denervation (done by one of his proteges, who did great work but my body was un-coopoerative 🔨), it was finally pin-pointed by him that it was a result of dilated blood supply entrapping nerve endings in the absense of any other reason (a head-scratcher for him as well).

In Sept. 2013 (right side, left was largely asymptomatic at that point but also had variocele in it) and Jan. 2015 (left side, after it had become symptomatic with a vengence in late 2014) I had unilateral orchiectomies that conclusively solved the pain where nothing else had long term. I had already come out the year of my first orchiectomy on the right side, so my urologist had hoped that maybe the left testicle would keep my scrotum stretched until I could have GRS (which I had hoped would be the case as well, but it's always the best laid plans of mice and men that oft go awry 😄). The minor change of plans required a little more work keeping things stretched, but things worked out surgically a couple years later very well in 2017 when that finally happened.

I figured I could lend a hand around these parts with my knowledge base on topics I may have tidbits of knowledge about (medical topics, TG stuff, psychology), learn new perspectives (something I'm always keen to do as I ponder going back to school for psychology), and perhaps find some camaraderie here.

🙏

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2019 10:16 am
by JesusA (imported)
Welcome to the zoo. We are quite a varied group, but we always try to be friendly and helpful. We look forward to your contributions and stand ready to try to answer any questions that you might have as you read about the experiences of others.

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:35 pm
by The Maintaner (imported)
:) I am disappointed that Jesus is the only one who has greeted you.So welcome to the zoo. :)Ernie of Maine

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Mon Jun 24, 2019 5:26 am
by Begoneboy (imported)
So often we get busy in life and find ourselves no place near an internet device. Then when we get to one it's time to do the catch up game. Lack of comments does not equal lack of interest. You've an interesting story and I look forward to hearing how it came to unfold over time. So welcome and don't be shy

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Mon Jun 24, 2019 9:02 am
by GordonGG (imported)
I'll add my belated welcome as well. This is a good bunch of people willing to share.

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2019 6:19 pm
by CuriousButAware (imported)
JesusA (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 21, 2019 10:16 am Welcome to the zoo. We are quite a varied group, but we always try to be friendly and helpful. We look forward to your contributions and stand ready to try to answer any questions that you might have as you read about the experiences of others.

Well Thank you! I will endeavour to comport myself with respect amd tolerance :). If I have something to contribute, I will definitely speak up when I have the opportunity! I will certainly ask
The Maintaner (imported) wrote: Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:35 pm questions when I'm curious about something as well.

:) I am disappointed that Jesus is the only one who has
greeted you.So welcome to the zoo. :)Ernie of Maine

Than
Begoneboy (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 24, 2019 5:26 am k you the warm welcome, I just figured it was a busy time of the year with people taking holidays and all that! 😄

So often we get busy in life and find ourselves no place near an internet device. Then when we get to one it's time to do the catch up game. Lack of comments does not equal lack of interest. You
've an interesting story and I look forward to hearing how it came to unfold over time. So welcome and don't be shy

Thanks! Things do have the awful habit of getting busy don't they? As for my story, that's a tale and a half (c
GordonGG (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 24, 2019 9:02 am omplete with some amount of wailing and a lot of gnashing of teeth 😄) that will defin
itely get told as time goes on. I am definitely not shy, I can definitely say that 😄.

I'll add my belated welcome as well. This is a good bunch of people willing to share.

Thanks! Other perspectives on things are always helpful! Love the avatar btw!

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Tue Oct 01, 2019 10:45 am
by BrianSanDiego (imported)
Hello!

New here myslef. Im sure I'll have so.e questions for you when I'm closer to surgery!Brian

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Mon Oct 21, 2019 7:18 am
by BrianSanDiego (imported)
What were the things you had to do to keep your scrotum stretched? I ask because i also want to have srs after becoming a eunuch.

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Mon Oct 21, 2019 1:55 pm
by sparkey49 (imported)
Welcome here very glad you are here and we each are different. I have been a eunuch for 6 years with scrotum reduction and maybe someday will make it to being able to be smooth but will have to be a while.

Re: Hello :)

Posted: Wed Oct 23, 2019 1:31 am
by CuriousButAware (imported)
BrianSanDiego (imported) wrote: Mon Oct 21, 2019 7:18 am What were the things you had to do to keep your scrotum stretched? I ask because i also want to have srs after becoming a eunuch.

I stretched the empty scrotum daily with a couple of tugs for just over 2.5 years. Having had an orchi previously (and not wanting the possibility of skin grafts and all the trouble that can result there), I was fastidious in keeping everything stretched to provide the maximum amount of skin possible. It paid off, I have no grafts in my vaginal cavity. :D