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Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 8:23 am
by seanthomas (imported)
A lot of folks desire castration to reduce their sex drive and for most that is the end result. Some of us may suffer a decrease in our libido, but sex is still very much a part of our lives either on or off hormone replacement. Just because I no longer have balls and cannot endure TRT doesn't mean I want to give up sex.

Further, some would like to have their penis shrink to the size of a bean while others want it removed along with their balls. To each their own, but I (a).like sex and (b). like what little my maker gave me in the penis department.

Alas, even with a moderately healthy libido I've once again incurred the dreaded lazy soldier who refuses to stand at attention regardless of my efforts. This go-around even my trusty penis pump and constriction band couldn't get the little fellow to rise to the occasion.

Oh well..... plan B is always an option and I've posted a short video of a valiant effort on my blog.

eunuchlife.blogspot.com

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 9:38 am
by Cseriess (imported)
I always enjoy your blog, thanks. Were you always able to have anal orgasms, or was that something you started to achieve after castration and ED? I have my first prostate biopsy next week after some high PSA tests.b just eondering what the future holds.

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:10 pm
by seanthomas (imported)
Cseriess (imported) wrote: Wed Mar 27, 2019 9:38 am I always enjoy your blog, thanks. Were you always able to have anal orgasms, or was that something you started to achieve after castration and ED? I have my first prostate biopsy next week after some high PSA tests.b just eondering what the future holds.

It took some time, patience and practice to achieve an anal orgasm without penile stimulation. Also the right toy makes a lot of difference. I had already developed the technique before castration and have long since enjoyed the far more intense orgasms you can achieve through anal. Just know it's not suited for a "quicky" and you have to be relaxed and in the mood. One thing I found is that you have to focus on one or the other, penile stimulation or anal. Trying both at the same time is really more of a distraction, so with ED you don't have to decide. Now the future is what you choose to make it so I say find what works and go with it. Sex should be an adventure!

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:16 pm
by Philthelast (imported)
Hi

Love the work done on you , very good. With regards to sex personally I would not bother, thats part the reason of removing balls.

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:18 pm
by Brycenosak (imported)
Although I am on TRT, my ability to get an erection 'on demand' slowly faded after my castration. I think that my balls played a big part in my erotic stimulation from an early age. I still get a full morning woody, around 4-5am. It will last up to 20 minutes. I'm only guessing the piturity gland stimulates the adrenals to produce a boost of testostorone? Or is it some thing else? Any thoughts?

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:35 pm
by seanthomas (imported)
Brycenosak (imported) wrote: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:18 pm Although I am on TRT, my ability to get an erection 'on demand' slowly faded after my castration. I think that my balls played a big part in my erotic stimulation from an early age. I still get a full morning woody, around 4-5am. It will last up to 20 minutes. I'm only guessing the piturity gland stimulates the adrenals to produce a boost of testostorone? Or is it some thing else? Any thoughts?

I believe there is a lot of misinformation out there about loss of libido and ability to get an erection post castration. Even without TRT for almost a year now I was often able to easily get hard enough to masturbate but rarely could I get firm enough for penetration unless I used a constricting band. Actually, TRT didn't make much difference when I was on it. That said, I had suffered transient ED for years prior to my orchi. However, after castration I did occasionally get a very nice and relative firm morning erection, but haven't enjoyed that in a while.

Physically and technically, castration should not affect the ability to achieve erections at all as it's an entirely different bodily process. Mental/emotional and desire aspects are another story. I am a proponent of "use it or loose it" although having just endured a miserable winter (holidays, my flu, wife's flu, etc.) that was busy at work to boot, I seemed to have overlooked the "use" part for several months and now the little guy just wants to play limp washcloth.

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:58 pm
by erikboy (imported)
There are many hormone precursors in a normal body. I have read once, how Testosterone and dihydroTestosterone is formed, it is quite complicated process. Some of these byproducts affect erection. Androstenedione etc.

http://www.labpedia.net/test/147

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 1:59 pm
by erikboy (imported)
More about various steroids that are precursors of Testosterone or are pruduced also in testicles along adrenal gland etc.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurosteroid

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_neurosteroids

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dehydroepiandrosterone

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2019 2:59 pm
by Cseriess (imported)
It's all very strange. I loved being chemically castrated. Before, i was driven by sexual desire. Addicted to porn, i would want and search out casual sex with females or males. Had several std's, was on PrEP. Chemical castration stopped all that. But i still want to enjoy sex, i don't want to lose all enjoyment. Once castrated i think i will be happy. There is just a huge gulf between the two states for me.

Re: Sex Without Balls and TRT

Posted: Thu Mar 28, 2019 3:10 am
by Hash (imported)
Something every castrated man must understand.

#1 - Without adding back some testosterone to your system, you'll eventually lose the ability to have erections over time and your penis will shrink. Everyone is different and some castrated men, a few, may be able to get erections without adding back some "T" for a long time after castration, but the frequency will be less and the ability to maintain the erection will become more challenging. For the majority of castrated men, without adding back some "T", even a little, erections wane, fade, and eventually disappear. How do I know this? I've been a eunuch for a long time and a nullo since 2015. I've read, talked, studied, and experienced castration, I don't know everything, but I know what castration does. So if you want to have a sex life after castration, you'll need to add back a little testosterone to your system.

#2 - You must be mindful that castration will cause osteoporosis without testosterone. Testosterone does not just make you sexual, it makes your bones strong. If you're castrated, your bones will start to become brittle and osteoporosis will begin to develop. You don't want this to happen, so talk to your doctor about what you can do if you don't want to add back testosterone. https://www.webmd.com/osteoporosis/features/male-men#1

#3 - Castration can cause serious depression such as you've never experienced. After I was castrated, I nose dived into the darkest depression I had ever experience. It was the reaction of losing a huge amount of testosterone in such a short period of time. As with everything, some people are effected differently, but for the majority of castrated men, depression is a real concern. Talk to your doctor about what you can do if you begin to experience depression and you don't want to add back any testosterone. LISTEN - I'm not talking about feeling blue, I'm talking nightmarish depression that's black and suicidal. Please be careful. https://www.bodylogicmd.com/for-men/depression

I started using a small dose of bioidentical testosterone cream initially, to ward off osteoporosis and depression. It worked wonders. I did begin to have erections again (before I removed my penis) and some sexuality or sexual thoughts returned, but my depression disappeared and my bones have been relatively healthy over the last 12/12 1/2 years since being castrated in 2006. I continue to use a low dose of testosterone that keeps my testosterone level around 125/135 ng/dl, which is perfect for me. Castration levels are usually considered 50 ng/dL, but most intact men have testosterone levels north of 500/800 ng/dl. Everyone is different, but if after being castrated you begin to experience severe depression, please consider getting help. Testosterone, just a little bit, helped me recover my mind. https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=bi ... +for+men+a pothecary&view=detail&mid=14A9D9C011088F9D316414A9D9C011088F9D3164&FORM=VIRE