Did the guy who said he was backed into a corner by his therapist to be castrated this week, the 25th I think, disappear? I can't find any of the threads he started? Was just wondering if he posted how it went?

Cseriess (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 28, 2019 4:36 am Did the guy who said he was backed into a corner by his therapist to be castrated this week, the 25th I think, disappear? I can't find any of the threads he started? Was just wondering if he posted how it went?

He was a fraud. Based on some emails, 13 years treating sex offenders in prisons, and knowing that the APA does not condone castration as a treatment for sex offenders. I clearly came to the conclusion that he was jerking everyone's chain. I removed him and his posts.

Thanks, I kind of got that feeling. However, having worked with suicidal people, their story isn't always easy to follow. Glad you caught it.

kristoff wrote: Mon Jan 28, 2019 9:55 am He was a fraud. Based on some emails, 13 years treating sex offenders in prisons, and knowing that the APA does not condone castration as a treatment for sex offenders. I clearly came to the conclusion that he was jerking everyone's chain. I removed him and his posts.

Thanks for that Kristoff! He certainly had me going. I'm new to any sort of online media and being in NZ, dont have alot of experience with USA law and process. There was quite alot of him that didnt add up, even to me? He brought up some old anxieties of mine that I had to reprocess, in a good way, and let go of other people's shit. It also makes me wonder why people take all that effort to screw with other peoples heads. A sharp learning curve for me and I see the world abit differently now. Thanks again.

His user name had me wondering. Justin Long was the name of the actor from those old PC (Jon Hodgman) vs Mac commercials. Also in a few lame movies. Not to say two people can't have the same name of course.

Kristoff wasn't the only one who was ready to pull the plug.

That guy fit the pattern of someone who was in here about a year ago with the same type of BS. He kept coming back until he figured out the moderators would be on to him no matter what name he used. It wouldn't surprise me if it was that guy coming back again, thinking everyone had forgotten about it.

Yes, its frustrating to spend my time and effort to look up suicide prevention phone numbers and post them online if the person turns out to be a hoax. But its tough for us readers to know who is a hoax and who is genuinely in need of immediate help.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 29, 2019 12:19 am Yes, its frustrating to spend my time and effort to look up suicide prevention phone numbers and post them online if the person turns out to be a hoax. But its tough for us readers to know who is a hoax and who is genuinely in need of immediate help.

I can imagine how it was frustrating for you, after the fact. I think anyone would be hard pressed to find someone who enjoys having this kind of ruse put over on them. What it did do was show everyone you have a good heart. Thank you!

I have a reputation for being difficult with people on these sites, but the past couple of years I've been working to improve my temperament on these things and improve my repuation. I have no desire to be difficult, but I find what happened in this instance inappropriate. If I get difficult because of this kind of situation it's because I'm very protective of my post-op eunuch and nullo brothers. While it's nice to be admired, being objectified is over the top, and that's what Justinlong was doing. I'm doing my best to be a fair moderator, but at the end of the day we're all human.

What Justinlong did was disrespectful to the modified folks, and potentially dangerous to those who are just starting their journey and are looking for legitimate information about the concerns and desire for castration.

If Kristoff hadn't have pulled the plug, I would have the next time I was in. It had gone on long enough.

At that, I would welcome anyone back, so long as they are honest with us at the start. I like a good fantasy scenario myself, but I only ask folks be honest about it at the start.

Losethem (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 28, 2019 6:34 pm Kristoff wasn't the only one who was ready to pull the plug.

That guy fit the pattern of someone who was in here about a year ago with the same type of BS. He kept coming back until he figured out the moderators would be on to him no matter what name he used. It wouldn't surprise me if it was that guy coming back again, thinking everyone had forgotten about it.

The moderators, do a great job. I thankyou! Sad that sack of shit wasted our time and emotions that could have been better spent on some one genuine. I guess that is the way of the world. Thats why we're here. One positive thing for me was I learnt more about myself. Abit like a mystery shopper. Keep up the good work. B

Can you guys ban ip addresses? Although I suppose with VPNs it is a lot harder than it used to be.