New guy looking for help, advice, and support

[Gimp1975 (imported)]

I've been looking over eunuch organization and considering making some alterations. I have a lot of questions about nullification, penectomy, and possibly castration. I'm 40 ish, bisexual, and married. Surprisingly I do have some support from my wife though my intents aren't for her benefit or entertainment.

[TopManFL (imported)]

Hey @Gimp1975,

Welcome. This is the place for questions. Many of them have already been answered in the various forums. So, read what you can find. Remember, almost none of the forum is written by doctors.

I like the phrase "some support" about your wife. Sounds as if she doesn't hate the idea. It also might be she doesn't really understand the urge either.

At 40 years old I assume you don't want more (or any) children.

[Losethem (imported)]

As a nullo myself, I'd like to give you insights, but I'm not sure how to as you've not explained the reasoning behind why you feel driven to go forward with the amputation of your genitals.

What I can offer is this, it's the best gift I ever gave myself. I am SOOOOOO much more comfortable in my body now.

[Begoneboy (imported)]

Hey Gimp1975: nullo here as well and went this way as a 30 something single person. Nobody else to worry about through the process. I suspect with a partner (spouse) your situation is not the same as mine was. But I also understand that when we have a relationship with another as in marriage things should be open and shared with each other. You would not want her to have breast implants without your knowledge so show the same courtesy towards her.

[Philthelast (imported)]

I think your wife will enjoy the result of a castration . If you desire it and realise its a oneway street go for it, I did and have no regrets .

[sparkey49 (imported)]

I am married,castrated and it is great!

[Gimp1975 (imported)]

Sorry for the delayed response, I had log on issues. So years ago my wife needed a full hysterectomy at age 35. So children aren't an issue on her end and I no longer wish any. So in her own sense she is somewhat eunuch-like. We're both still sexually active I much more than her with other partners. She seems comforted knowing we would be on level play field in some aspects. There is a lot to it obviously but she's open to permanent alterations.

[Asyumanuloth (imported)]

That is amazing, to have someone who is into it like you are. I wish the best to you two.

[Losethem (imported)]

I'd say his wife isn't so much into it as she is accepting. As Gimp1975 states, she's had a hysterectomy, which is essentially female reproductive nullification. I can envision a scenario where Gimp1975 gets castrated or even nullified, and he and his wife enjoy life without need for sex, as equals, both with smooth crotches. This is one of the scenarios being investigated as standards of care are being developed - the male who has a wife who has low/no sex drive for whatever reason, and he wishes to reduce his sex drive to be more evenly matched with her in effort to keep harmony in their marriage.

I actually admire him for considering this step. It's an amazing thing to have a relationship like his and love someone enough to acknowledge the drive could be impeding what could be an otherwise harmonious pairing.

[Gimp1975 (imported)]

We're actually both still sexually active though not in a typical sense. While she gets hrt she no longer desires vaginal penetration very often and many of her tastes have changed as have mine. Im/were looking for a happy medium that would be pleasing for us both. She has stated that she would like to know I was permanently impotent (limp) and I feel the same as I have no need or use for an erection. We have gone back and forth a bit about my balls. I would like them gone but not my libido. Imagine she would like to see me nutless with a permanently limp cock and I too would enjoy that. Battery dying