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Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2018 3:11 pm
by samuecoral (imported)
Hi all and thanks for taking the time to view my post.
I am new here, a little about me, I am 31 transgender MtF and a owned sissy baby.
My owner/daddy wants to have me castrated, but I am scared. He says he will only pay for my breast implants if I agree to also get castrated.
So I have some questions about castration, I hope that someone here is able to answer my questions in detail.
1. How long does it take to recover from surgical castration?
2. How bad does surgical castration hurt?
3. Do they put me to sleep to do the surgery or just give local anesthesia?
4. Can I still get erections after being castrated?
5. Will I still be able to have orgasms once castrated? (I know I will not shoot anything)
Any help you guys can give me is much appreciated.
Thanks for your time.
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2018 5:56 pm
by Losethem (imported)
I'll be blunt, if YOU don't want to get castrated, don't do it. You do not get castrated because someone else asks you to, even in the context of "slavery" and "ownership" situations. YOU own your body, he doesn't. He might be getting you to do this because he has a fantasy of having someone cut their balls off for him. Here's the problem with that... If that is what it is, he's fulfilled his fantasy, and will probably move onto to his next fantasy or thrill, parting ways with you. That happens, you're still castrated, and will live without testicles for the rest of your life. You'll have been permanently changed, and he'll have gotten his thrill.
is it worth that risk?
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 1:50 am
by kastranja (imported)
I am going to give you some answers (from my first hand experience).
But first: I share the doubts with the previous speaker. I advise you strongly: ask yourself, do you want getting castrated for yourself? You have to live with and cope with the effects for the rest of your life, not anybody else. Relationships may change and end. While I would have loved to be involved in a similar setting about my own castration, I had a strong (growing) desire to be without my texticles for about thirty years before going through with it, and I did it with the support of a dominant female who plays a big role in my life, but NOT because she wanted it.
My procedure was done in a hospital, outpatient, with spinal anesthaesia and ingunally, through two small cuts above the penis. I cannot say anything about the healing after a transscrotal procedure, but I have heard it might take longer and have some problems with bleeding. I had inserted two relatively big implants at the same time, and suspect that some of the pain I experienced after the procedure originated from that and not the testectomy.
I recovered in a hotel room for one week before taking a transatlantic flight home. I took potent painkillers for about ten days. There was no real pain, some dull ache and some pulling from the cuts/stitches, bot nothing really bad. There was almost no bleeding, training shorts took care of a few drops during the first two days. You should rest, no heavy lifting and no work, and wear no tight underpants, though. When you move too much, pain raises.
The long trip home was a bit strenuous, after 12 hours it really started to get annoying and hurt, so I would advise against lengthy periods sitting in a strenuos position. I started office work about 12 days after surgery (with no more pain medication), and it took me about three more weeks until there were no more inconveniences.
The worst pain I had was well bearable, mostly it was just unpleasant, it would absolutely not prevent me from going through with it again.
As far as I know and a wide range of people in this forum have commented on, erectile function partly depends on testosterone levels and maybe also training. If you do not take testosterone replacement, or even take female hormones (like I do), erections get less strong, and for me much less frequent for sexual reasons (probably mainly due to reduced libido and other psychoactive effects of the hormones). I do get nocturnal erections from time to time, less frequent and slightly less strong. I start to get problems with shrinking foreskin (reduced circumference and flexibility).
Orgasmic function may also be related to hormones, although I cannot comment on that - I did not experience one single orgasm in my whole life, neither before testectomy nor after. By the way: If you stay orgasmic, you will definitely shoot. The amount of liqiuid is almost as high, since prostate and other secreting glands are still there, but it will be clear instead of opaque, because there is no more sperms in it. You will continue to experience nocturnal emissions after castration, for me about every second month, but can also be two night in a row.
By the way: Be careful with the gendering of your language, there are people here who don't consider themselves "guys" (me included - you know about yourself).
I hope this could satisfy part of your information demand.
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 3:53 am
by T van Keel (imported)
I am 31 transgender MtF
I'm just a little bit puzzled if you're really transgender. During mtf gender reassignment surgery it is quite common to remove the testicles, so I just wonder why you ask about castration. And keeping the penis is mostly not desired among mtf transgender.
Whatever your motivation is, do only what you need and desire! If you just do it to please someone else's needs, you will regret it some day in the future.
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 5:49 am
by Begoneboy (imported)
Samuecora;: Since not transgender myself I don't quite follow the desire to have breast implants and still want to keep male genitals below. But each to their own. I've never had breast implants but taking "E" for many years together with having testes, scrotum and penis removed created breasts. To the point that society makes me clothe myself accordingly. You seem to have many concerns about having future erections and ejaculation from your post which brings up the question of your actual motive. If your motive is to please another person you should seriously reconsider those motives. While we all do things in life to please other folks becoming castrated should NEVER fall into that category. Castration is a very personal choice and should only be considered if it is solely your desire. The other person in your life may not be there in the future and you'll be left in a condition that you may or may not like. Re-evaluate your motives!
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 9:56 am
by sparkey49 (imported)
DO NOT do any body modifications because someone else wants you to I am absolutely pleased with being castrated but I wanted it for years no one else! As for the surgery it is simple and recovery was quickI was doing my labor intensive job less than a week afterwards.
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 10:51 am
by _g (imported)
Castrated: No morning wood, no erections, and no orgasms.
With HRT its a maybe for morning wood, erections, and orgasms
If you take Estrogens you should be able to have orgasms and develop breasts.
In all cases: "your mileage may very"
And I fully agree with "
sparkey49 (imported) wrote: Sat Jul 28, 2018 9:56 am
DO NOT do any body modifications because someone else wants you to
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Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2018 1:18 pm
by samuecoral (imported)
Anyone else have any helpful information?
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2018 1:52 pm
by Dekeldoh (imported)
If you get it done in the USA, you will likely have a choice between local anesthesia and being put to sleep. Dr. Arnkoff usually does them under local, but he mentioned that he has a hospital he can do general at if necessary. Some places are rather attached to putting you to sleep, but they can't force it on you. You just have to be firm with them.
I had my surgery done with local only, and it was less uncomfortable than getting my wisdom teeth removed, which was also a 15 minute procedure. My scrotum swelled only to the same size it was it before surgery, with lots of blue and black bruising, and deflated into an empty sack after about 60 hours. I had specifically asked my surgeon to cut the cords as short as possible, and they retracted halfway to my belly button the day of surgery. I knew, because I really felt the stumps the first day post-op. Around 6 hours after surgery, the pain in the cords was so bad that it felt like I was stepping on nonexistent testicles and squishing them to the floor whenever I walked. But I had specifically refused the extra local injection they usually do for post-op analgesia, along with any pain meds. Ice and rest really helped with that pain (as opposed to getting up and walking around!) and it subsided completely in 24 hours or so. After that, it was just mild bruise pain, no worse than healing a stubbed toe.
After 8 or 9 days, my cord stumps actually came back down into the upper area of my scrotum, around the base of my penis. They were swollen and tender, and felt a little like smaller testicles. After a couple weeks, the stumps became small, soft, springy, and relatively painless to fondle, but they still haven't retracted completely even 7 weeks post-op. It took about 5 weeks for all the glue and scabbing to flake off from the incision, leaving regular skin that seemed to have completely closed at first glance.
As for questions #4 and #5, "Your mileage may vary" is extremely accurate. Some people can't get erections again even with replacement T, while some are still troubled by too much potency with no T. If you are attached to maintaining sexual function, I wouldn't risk castration.
Re: Castration questions, new here.
Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2018 7:00 am
by seanthomas (imported)
I'm going to wholeheartedly side with those who admonish you to NOT get castrated to satisfy someone else. However, it's a simple surgery often done under a local or "twilight" anesthesia that takes about half an hour. Recovery is quick and only mildly uncomfortable unless there are complications such as infection. Even without testosterone you can get an erection and orgasm with ejaculate, but many (but not all) eunuchs are simply no longer interested in sex without HRT.
Some things are best left in the realm of sexual fantasy and what you describe probably tops the list.