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Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2018 1:53 pm
by shydudexx (imported)
I have been physically castrated for 7mo (to the day) now.
It's brain-bending how much this changes your outlook on life.
Sex hormones are mental hormones - they affect your brain. Whether one chooses to replace them or go on another path is one's decision. (I am no-T).
I was eating lunch today (at home) - and I looked around at what is present in my space (all G-rated) in the family room, and I had this random thought about the EA and felt compelled to put this post out to the EA community.
The very weird part was that sex and sexuality didn't matter. I know that's mind-bending for those that are post-puberty, but, it's like "nope" - it doesn't matter. Truly, I don't care.
Shy.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2018 4:54 pm
by GordonGG (imported)
This is where I want to be also. Sex has driven my life since puberty and I'm tired of it. I'm 65 now.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2018 9:04 pm
by seanthomas (imported)
now for over two years and only used testosterone replacement for about eight months at increasingly smaller doses. Currently I’m testosterone free for five months due to increased red blood cell count (stroke and heart attack risks). Although my sex drive is not like it was at age 18, it’s still definitely present. Erections may be erratic but I enjoy sex today as much as ever. My wife even claims I am a better lover since loosing my testicles. So don’t believe everything you read about the effects of castration, for as stated often here ....... your mileage may vary.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:29 am
by TopManFL (imported)
Hey Shy,
Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Sex drive and Sexuality are two different things. Lack of T can eliminate both.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:13 am
by sparkey49 (imported)
Even with no T for 2.5 years my sexuality never changed my sex drive did lessen but not disappear. My wife also said I am a better lover like being newlyweds again in her own words.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:29 am
by unencumbered (imported)
sparkey49 (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:13 am
Even with no T for 2.5 years my sexuality never changed my sex drive did lessen but not disappear. My wife also said I am a better lover like being newlyweds again in her own words.
I had a similar thought not that long ago. Ive been with the same woman for three years now and our sex today is just like when we first met. The honeymoon still is going on with us.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:03 pm
by sparkey49 (imported)
It is great and we have been married 37 years.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 7:24 pm
by shydudexx (imported)
Looking at the positive comments here - I do not in any way want to disrespect those that have travelled the path and with-or-without T been joyful with their partners. {sidebar - I do not have a partner, so that may colour my experiences}
I was just wanting to state how my experience has been - physical castration for me has granted me a complete elimination of sexuality and sexual desire. For me, it was desired and is a good thing.
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 11:37 am
by wallyoddballs123 (imported)
It may have been on a different thread but I did see where a wife had assisted in the removal of a second testicle, the first having been removed a year earlier. This was my experience as well. One testicle was undescended at birth, brought down when I was 15 but never grew properly and two years ago I was advised to have it removed which I did. At the time the surgeon said he would remove the second as well if I ever showed signs of change which he thought likely.
Then about a year ago it was my wife who suggested I got it done anyway, I saw the surgeon privately and he agreed. My wife was present and fully scrubbed up and was actually allowed to make the final snip and my remaining ball dropped into her hand which she proudly showed me and kissed me as her new eunuch.
No regrets our love is strong and I can look forward to a long eunuch life
Re: Elimination of Sexuality and it's view on our outlook on life
Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 11:46 am
by cutnbulls2ox (imported)
wallyoddballs123 (imported) wrote: Sat Jul 28, 2018 11:37 am
It may have been on a different thread but I did see where a wife had assisted in the removal of a second testicle, the first having been removed a year earlier. This was my experience as well. One testicle was undescended at birth, brought down when I was 15 but never grew properly and two years ago I was advised to have it removed which I did. At the time the surgeon said he would remove the second as well if I ever showed signs of change which he thought likely.
Then about a year ago it was my wife who suggested I got it done anyway, I saw the surgeon privately and he agreed. My wife was present and fully scrubbed up and was actually allowed to make the final snip and my remaining ball dropped into her hand which she proudly showed me and kissed me as her new eunuch.
No regrets our love is strong and I can look forward to a long eunuch life
Now that s the way it should be done ideally with a partner doing that final cut of emasculation and receiving your last ball like that ! If only more drs would cooperate in letting this happen. Better to have a partner or friend do that last nut cut than a dr you hardly know and to whom it means nothing after years of castrating other men. That first kiss as her new eunuch was a great first reaction to taking your last ball too ! Not something your dr could do for you in the surgery lol ! Another very lucky man with an understanding, hot, and appreciative wife who appreciates men s balls as the family jewels that they are !