I just read a post where someone said he loves the "idea of being castrated". My question is how can you ever know what it is like enough to want to do it, especially if you are not transgender?? Or is it more that you don't like what you are at the moment and want to change? Is it a kind of sexual fetish/fantasy thing where the idea of having no balls turns you on? Men lose their balls but take T to keep their erections, is this more a body dysphoria dysmorphic thing like in the trans community where you don't like the way your body looks, but you still want to function sexually? How many after doing it because they love the idea regret it? (Does any of what I wrote make sense?!)

Men have lots of different reasons to enjoy sexual fantasies about getting castrated and different reasons to want to lose their balls for real. Lots of men unwillingly get castrated every year by illnesses and injuries or their balls just quit working in their sacks from age or who knows why ?

For the fantasy wankers, I think its just a sexual turn on to it, it is like facing most men s worst fears. Wanting to ride the scariest roller coaster, or speed in a car, or climb a cliff. Its a sexual turn on to risk or lose their manhood and sexual abilities and still come out as a man on T and able to have sex even after they give up their balls.

The men who gets unwillingly castrated by medical problems and injuries obviously want to take T to replace their lost T and gain as much masculinity and sexual ability and pleasure back as they can.

Many of the past posts on here do spend a lot of time discussing why some men are so turned on and attracted to castration. Those make interesting reading.

But its sure understandable for you and most people to be confused about why some men who love sex and love being super masculine would have fantasies about getting castrated and then taking super high or normal doses of T after they are nutless.

Some men are into the castration itself. Others get off on the idea of being neutered and balless. Some men seriously desire to get emasculated and not have any testosterone for real and want that different life.

I m betting most fantasy wankers don t desire a no T life at all.

Some "experts" feel the castration desire outside the fetish arena is a form of BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) much the same as men and women who desire to be amputees. Yes, there is a sizable number of people worldwide who want a perfectly healthy and functional limb removed. Some relate this particular desire to sex, while others claim their is no sexual component to their wishing to loose a limb. One well publicized story was of a woman who had an overwhelming obsession to be blind, despite perfectly normal eyesight. With the help of her therapist she intentionally blinded herself with drain cleaner and now lives quite happily with the results.

I was castrated by choice, but to relieve a medical condition and only after my testicles had suffered from lack of blood flow and were non productive. However, I am quite happy with the results and have a satisfying sex life regardless of if I take testosterone or not (currently not).

There are a lot of strange motivations emanating from the human mind and I doubt anyone will ever understand even a fraction of them. And while most relegate the fantasy of being castrated to make belief, men who actually have their testicles removed for reasons other than medical necessity seem to be satisfied to have achieved their goal.

And as an aside, psychologist who have studied patients with BIID (mostly with the amputee desires) have found the overwhelming majority to be otherwise emotionally and mentally stable, as well as highly intelligent.

gay2girl (imported) wrote: Thu May 24, 2018 5:30 am I just read a post where someone said he loves the "idea of being castrated". My question is how can you ever know what it is like enough to want to do it, especially if you are not transgender?? ............ How many after doing it because they love the idea regret it? (Does any of what I wrote make sense?

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Yes, I think it makes sense, at least most of it.

While I can't imagine that the procedure of castration could be anything other than extremely uncomfortable, I'll accept that there are some who want the result. Yes, we have a few BIID folks here, and who seem to be happy with the result. -And yes, we have trans folks on their journey, and good luck to them.

I'm not transgender, but very much enjoy being nutless. (Getting there wasn't much fun.) It is possible to be sexually active, with or without T. We are. Without the T, sexual interests seem to be less interesting, but still there.Penetrative sex on no T? Some are said to be able, but I can't think how. A little imagination, and life is fun....

Do any regret? I am sure, but my own uncontrolled read of the folks here is that they a small minority, and mostly appear to have chosen young, without a chemical trial, and without cool assessment of what it will be like to be the eunuch version of themselves.

Most others seem happy as eunuch? I think so.

A lot of us are very happy contented eunuchs here I love it whether on T or not currently on T but 2.5 years no T.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Thu May 24, 2018 9:00 am But its sure understandable for you and most people to be confused about why some men who love sex and love being super masculine would have fantasies about getting castrated and then taking super high or normal doses of T after they are nutless.

Yes, it's like wanting to cut off your hand and have a prosthetic instead. I have heard there are cases of body dismorphia (is that the term), where people have such an antipathy to a body part like a leg or arm, that doctors have surgically removed it because the person is at such a risk of injury from attempts to try it themselves. OK it's an extreme example and maybe not the most appropriate comparison, but I wondered if there was some similarity.

Those who want castration, but to keep on T to maintain erections, I guess because they don't like the look of their balls and don't want to lose the function?

gay2girl (imported) wrote: Fri May 25, 2018 2:13 am Yes, it's like wanting to cut off your hand and have a prosthetic instead....... OK it's an extreme example and maybe not the most appropriate comparison, but I wondered if there was some similarity.

Those who want castration, but to keep on T to maintain erections, I guess because they don't like the look of their balls and don't want to lose the function?

You'd need to ask the experts here, but I suspect that those who are offended by the physical presence of parts that the feel don't rightly belong, are the BIID folks. And yes, it seems that surgery can be helpful. Whether they want to retain T function or not, I guess is a separate question.

Like many here, I am happy without the nuts, and happiest without the T. I sometimes think that some who start T after castration, do it because they don't like how the transition feels to no-T.

While the effects are usually only temporary, it is easy to understand why folks don't take kindly to lethargy, (even for some to depression), flashes, possible weight gain with redistribution of fat to hips, face, less male hair quality and distribution, and loss of skin oil.

We don't often discuss the skin oil thing here, but it signals for me that the transition to no-T has arrived. No oil takes me about 5 months or so, and results in a skin that is smoother to the touch, and takes on a new non-male odor. I'm told that bugs live in our skin (ew!) and the lack of oil changes which contribute to our odor. The first time this happened after castration, I thought that I smell like a girl, and I wanted to be a neither! Just losing the nuts doesn't make one a girl, but eunuch.

It may be my imagination, but I think that the change in skin is when others alter how they relate to me. The men find me less of a competition, and the women seem to pick up on the change fast; I'm not a sexual entity to them as before. Care and effort needs to be taken to maintain previous relationships, professionally and socially.

Eunuch life brings changes, and this is a good thing. -Or we wouldn't enjoy being eunuchs would we?

gay2girl (imported) wrote: Fri May 25, 2018 2:13 am Yes, it's like wanting to cut off your hand and have a prosthetic instead. I have heard there are cases of body dismorphia (is that the term), where people have such an antipathy to a body part like a leg or arm, that doctors have surgically removed it because the person is at such a risk of injury from attempts to try it themselves. OK it's an extreme example and maybe not the most appropriate comparison, but I wondered if there was some similarity.

Those who want castration, but to keep on T to maintain erections, I guess because they don't like the look of their balls and don't want to lose the function?

I don t think its a dislike of their balls or not feeling they belong on their body. I think most fantasy wankers love and treasure their balls. Its more like an ultimate sacrifice or the ultimate manly loss to lose a dick or your balls. More like risk takers in an extreme form who don t want to die doing cliff climbing or racing cars. They want to triumph over the dangers and risks and still come out whole and fully functioning in spite of risks or having lost their highly valued balls.

If they hated or disliked their balls, it would be no loss to lose them. But the great degree of loss is what turns many wankers on ! That huge loss is the basis of their excitement and fetish. The finality and emasculation is the big risk and turn on for men who love their balls and love sex and having extra high sex drives. Losing all that is the fear, the challenge, the risk, the ultimate price that a sexual male can be forced to pay, short of death !

One perspective from fantasy wankers that is not hating their own balls, but just the opposite extreme of seeing their balls as the engine driving and powering their entire manhood, maleness, sexuality and abilities, all in 2 vulnerable balls !

Hi Gay2Girl,

I'd love to hear some other No T eunuchs chime in with personal experience, but you seem to believe that eunuchs cannot achieve an erection without testosterone, which is generally untrue. As for me, though my libido is reduced without testosterone it doesn't mean I cannot get an erection. Now it's never rock hard but with modest stimulation a functional erection is eventually achieved. I might add that even when I was on T my erections did not improve (yeah.... middle age and years of smoking take their toll)

I think eunuch erection dysfunction is a common misconception and yet some eunuchs report virtually no drop in libido or sexual prowess after castration despite a lack of +-95% of their testosterone (about +-5% is made elsewhere in the body of both men and women).

From what I have read much of our sex drive is programmed since puberty and as they say, the biggest sex organ is the brain. Impotence in both castrated or intact men is often influenced by age, general health, relationship status and of course attitude. Further there are millions of intact men with normal testosterone levels who suffer erectile dysfunction.

Finally, ask a Lesbian if a penis is essential for mind blowing sex. I have found it just as enjoyable when the little guy is as limp as a noodle.

Hi, I went almost 18 months without TRT after I was castrated. The effects of no T in the system came on quickly for me. They were; 1. loss of muscle tone and a feeling of weakness, this happened within days but it may have been psychological as I hadn't been neutered by choice. 2. Loss of hard erections after a few weeks, I wasn't able to get stiff enough again for penetration until I started TRT. 3. Gradual loss of body hair starting after about 2 months and reaching about 95 pc gone after 6 months. 4. No ejaculation during orgasm, I think after about a year. What I didn't get which other eunuchs have reported were any appreciable reduction in penis size or any particularly noticeable hot flushes. After TRT I saw an improvement in muscle tone or perhaps more accurately I didn't have to work do hard to maintain it and I was soon able to get strong erections. What didn't return even after a year on TRT was body hair and ejaculation, except occasionally 1 or 2 clear drops. Justine x