• To choose carefully what you want and when.

Posted: **Mon Apr 23, 2018 7:43 pm**

Life offers many stages and opportunities to enjoy it.

If this post seems to recall a topic of way back, perhaps, but recent discussion seemed to make the area worth a note.

Should you go be a eunuch tomorrow? Maybe a nullo? What about let a clever doc make a pussy? -And not regret it, but enjoy.

I've noted the comments of folks who are delighted with their choices and some who chose unwisely, it seems. So how to make the world a little happier overall?

There are natural stages in life: first you're a kid, and then through youth to hopefully old age, you sample the pleasures of different relationships and roles in life. Many of the choices are made for you by life stages. Enjoy the stage you're at to the full because it will pass all too quickly and there is no going back. Some times one see the tragic comedy of the elderly pretending to youthfulness, or youth pretending beyond their years. Neither seem the stuff of happiness, even if it causes a certain hilarity for bystanders. Regrets for not enjoying life at your stage or past stages do nothing to make your lot better; make the best of the life you have.

Then there are some things you can choose, hopefully appropriately for your stage in life: bachelor / single vs married or partnered, children or no, buy a house or rent, save for later or blow it all now..... Many of these choices are made as one moves from one circumstance to the next, having enjoyed the the last and being ready for the next. So, there are folk who married early and regret not having a bachelor existence, etc. We don't all make wise choices, but it certainly worth a try.

So, my two cents worth: if you are free to choose and are trying to decide if you want to lose your nuts, enjoy them first if you can, and then when you feel that you have no more to gain from the nuts, choose carefully if you want to lose them. Does the idea of being a nullo interest? If it does, make sure you have done all you would like with that dick before getting the right doc to make you into a smoothie. If it is really what you want next -and your partner is on board with the plan- go for it while there is still time to enjoy it. Deliberate and courageous decisions need care.

Joy comes from opportunities wisely taken. Regrets come from opportunities passed by, such as the later need for nuts after castration, or the need for a dick when it was made to go too early.

Careful what you wish for, but also make the best of life's choices.

Posted: **Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:41 pm**

Absolutely correct!

I try to follow the same philosophy.

Just few thoughts to add.

First, humans have incredibly little free choice. When they think they can choose, they actually could not. For example, one thinks he wants to get married, it is not his free choice. It is the result of his own desires (which are not choices) upbringing, cultural environment, etc.

But yes talking about castration, the moment of getting it done must be chosen as carefully as possible. I have passed the opportunity to become a young eunuch and thats something I regret. But then again, there are other aspects of life I have actually enjoyed being not an eunuch.

Sometimes you do not know what you are going to regret later. And you can not count with these regrets. There is always risks.

Posted: **Tue Apr 24, 2018 8:49 am**

Very well stated.

While I disliked my nuts for decades, I am pleased I only seriously acted upon thoughts of castration in 2016 at age 60, and I am daily filled with joy these days to have two grown boys and one growing granddaughter from each son. I truly can attest to with age comes wisdom and the peace and pleasure that wisdom produces!

daifu-orchid (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 23, 2018 7:43 pm Life offers many stages and opportunities to enjoy it.

If this post seems to recall a topic of way back, perhaps, but recent discussion seemed to make the area worth a note.

Should you go be a eunuch tomorrow? Maybe a nullo? What about let a clever doc make a pussy? -And not regret it, but enjoy.

I've noted the comments of folks who are delighted with their choices and some who chose unwisely, it seems. So how to make the world a little happier overall?

There are natural stages in life: first you're a kid, and then through youth to hopefully old age, you sample the pleasures of different relationships and roles in life. Many of the choices are made for you by life stages. Enjoy the stage you're at to the full because it will pass all too quickly and there is no going back. Some times one see the tragic comedy of the elderly pretending to youthfulness, or youth pretending beyond their years. Neither seem the stuff of happiness, even if it causes a certain hilarity for bystanders. Regrets for not enjoying life at your stage or past stages do nothing to make your lot better; make the best of the life you have.

Then there are some things you can choose, hopefully appropriately for your stage in life: bachelor / single vs married or partnered, children or no, buy a house or rent, save for later or blow it all now..... Many of these choices are made as one moves from one circumstance to the next, having enjoyed the the last and being ready for the next. So, there are folk who married early and regret not having a bachelor existence, etc. We don't all make wise choices, but it certainly worth a try.

So, my two cents worth: if you are free to choose and are trying to decide if you want to lose your nuts, enjoy them first if you can, and then when you feel that you have no more to gain from the nuts, choose carefully if you want to lose them. Does the idea of being a nullo interest? If it does, make sure you have done all you would like with that dick before getting the right doc to make you into a smoothie. If it is really what you want next -and your partner is on board with the plan- go for it while there is still time to enjoy it. Deliberate and courageous decisions need care.

Joy comes from opportunities wisely taken. Regrets come from opportunities passed by, such as the later need for nuts after castration, or the need for a dick when it was made to go too early.

Careful what you wish for, but also make the best of life's choices.

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 12:05 am**

I would enjoy bringing over a Chivas Regal one evening - even a bottle of Mexican moonshine if you are into quality. I am going to share your post with my wife because we are facing the empty nest and the idea has come up that it might be time to move somewhere else once we have helped kids thru high school and local college. We need to think thru what the goals of the next part of the journey might be and where we should live for those purposes. Thanks for the post.

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 8:39 am**

How could I have missed the Chivas Regal from the Important Things?

My wife was present and throughly supportive at both hubby's nutting and later removal of scrotum. We also choose our times of T or no T.

It's now over 10 years since the necessity to lose the nuts, and no trouble seems apparent. So we have also discussed the possibility of getting hubby to Thailand for the best plastic surgery nullo job (incl no visible mark of where the dick once was) we can find. We have researched the options and requirements but until we both consistently agree that it is time, we're keeping the pickle. It would also be a pity to delay it too long, once it's the right thing for us.

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 11:37 am**

I agree the stage of life each man is in determines what is right for him and when. The ranks of eunuchs on this site show the different ages and stages that men get willingly castrated or dickless. Its unique for each man, but most men seem to act on life long desires more after 60 years old than as men in their 20s. Of course that makes perfect sense in how much use a man has for sperm and impregnating abilities at different ages and how much sex he has enjoyed with his sex organs and his sex drive and organ s virility when he decides to willingly give them up. And his sex partners interests and use of his sex organs at different ages too.

The big thing is to avoid making irreversable mistakes that can t be outdone or compensated for.

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 11:42 am**

I m sure most men s biggest worry and question is, is this going to be a big mistake doing this that I will regret in the future ? Tough to know that for sure at any age. But tougher yet as a younger man who has not used his sex organs for decades and had any kids yet. Lots of eunuchs seem to love being fathers and grandfathers.

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 6:29 pm**

I would not trade my kids and grandkids for anything!

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 8:03 pm**

Somehow, I didn't lose our kid with the nuts. One lot went into the pathologist's bucket, and the other seems to be very much around. Hope we got that right!

Posted: **Wed Apr 25, 2018 11:57 pm**

Right on! I fully agree with your statement!

sparkey49 (imported) wrote: Wed Apr 25, 2018 6:29 pm I would not trade my kids and grandkids for anything!

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