Castration to improve your marriage?
Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2018 4:09 pm
So I get a question on another thread asking basically: "If you are married, why did you get castrated?"
Now this was sort of confusing, for I'm sure I am not the only married eunuch. As I responded it brought to mind an interesting topic of discussion. "Can castration actually improve your marriage?" Now the discussion need not be limited to men who identify as heterosexual. Gay men in a long term monogamous relationships would have the same considerations.
I can only relate my personal experiences but in my case, yes. Definitely, Getting castrated had a very positive impact on my marriage. My middle aged, post menopausal, and very beautiful wife supported my desire to become a eunuch. Perhaps she thought it might even out our libidos, or as I have come to suspect - middle aged women may secretly harbor a deep seated desire to neuter their husbands, if for no other reason than to keep them from seeking a younger, more vibrant lover.
Perhaps it's ironic that, as my libido decreased after castration, my wife's significant increased. Maybe it was that now she didn't feel oppressed and sex was less a marital duty than for her pleasure. She admits she feel more in control of our relationship now and that alone has made me more desirable.
Now as for my lovely wife's perception of having a castrated husband. She claims I have become a much better lover. I am more attentive to her desires. I'm no longer anxious to cum and therefore always make sure she is satisfied before I finish. I tend to like to cuddle more, caress more, passionately kiss more and take things much slower these days. I can't always get and stay hard, so she receives a lot more oral sex. When she just wants to use her vibrator without vaginal penetration I never object (and now truly love to see her fuck herself). I don't get in the least upset when I cannot maintain my erection and will happily don the strap-on if she wants dick and I can't keep it up.
Being castrated I feel no less a man and yet have shed much of my macho persona in bed. It took some experimenting, but now she likes to don the strap-on herself, assume a dominant position and fucking me in the ass until I scream in ecstasy (yes, anal orgasms are incredibly intense and no erection required!!).
Okay, so with all my blathering the question remains. Can castration make your lover happier and more satisfied?
Any women here? I'd love to hear their opinion, but eunuch husbands too.
Now this was sort of confusing, for I'm sure I am not the only married eunuch. As I responded it brought to mind an interesting topic of discussion. "Can castration actually improve your marriage?" Now the discussion need not be limited to men who identify as heterosexual. Gay men in a long term monogamous relationships would have the same considerations.
I can only relate my personal experiences but in my case, yes. Definitely, Getting castrated had a very positive impact on my marriage. My middle aged, post menopausal, and very beautiful wife supported my desire to become a eunuch. Perhaps she thought it might even out our libidos, or as I have come to suspect - middle aged women may secretly harbor a deep seated desire to neuter their husbands, if for no other reason than to keep them from seeking a younger, more vibrant lover.
Perhaps it's ironic that, as my libido decreased after castration, my wife's significant increased. Maybe it was that now she didn't feel oppressed and sex was less a marital duty than for her pleasure. She admits she feel more in control of our relationship now and that alone has made me more desirable.
Now as for my lovely wife's perception of having a castrated husband. She claims I have become a much better lover. I am more attentive to her desires. I'm no longer anxious to cum and therefore always make sure she is satisfied before I finish. I tend to like to cuddle more, caress more, passionately kiss more and take things much slower these days. I can't always get and stay hard, so she receives a lot more oral sex. When she just wants to use her vibrator without vaginal penetration I never object (and now truly love to see her fuck herself). I don't get in the least upset when I cannot maintain my erection and will happily don the strap-on if she wants dick and I can't keep it up.
Being castrated I feel no less a man and yet have shed much of my macho persona in bed. It took some experimenting, but now she likes to don the strap-on herself, assume a dominant position and fucking me in the ass until I scream in ecstasy (yes, anal orgasms are incredibly intense and no erection required!!).
Okay, so with all my blathering the question remains. Can castration make your lover happier and more satisfied?
Any women here? I'd love to hear their opinion, but eunuch husbands too.