Who should perform my Orchiectomy? Dr. Marc Arnkoff, or Dr. Harold Reed?

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Who should perform my Orchiectomy to help set my path towards achieving spiritual enlightenment as a voluntary eunuch

Will it be Dr. Marc Arnkoff, or Dr. Harold Reed?

Hi everyone, my name is Bi Biker and I have been following EA for several months and have made a couple of posts wanting to learn more about not having testosterone in my body and how best to go about removing it permanently. I came across a number of interesting articles and came up with several names that seemed to be the leaders in the area of castration and eunuchs, which I will get to in a minute, but first my discussions with Drs Arnkoff and Reed.

I began by speaking with both doctors about their Orchiectomy with scrotum removal procedures last week. Dr. Reed required two physiological release letters and a letter from my wife giving her permission to have me castrated and Dr. Arnkoff does not require anything. Yes, you heard correctly. Dr. Reed requires a letter from my wife giving her permission to have me castrated. How F’in HOT is that? I mean really. This just keeps getting better. That reminded me that I had to get my wife’s permission 20 years ago to have my vasectomy. That was very hot too. I played like I was insulted that I had to get her permission and watch her write the letter to the Doctor. If that wasn’t deliciously submissive enough, I had to bring the letter in with me and give his female assistant my permission letter from my wife for him to perform the surgery since my wife was uninterested in attending. Needless to say, I loved every minute of it. Thinking back in retrospect, my wife and I both agree that I should have been castrated back then instead of vasectomy. Once we were done having children, I should have been castrated. Again, we both agree it would have made me an even better father and husband. If we would have done that 20 years ago when I was in my 30s, we would be so much farther ahead in our relationship today, but at the same time, we would not have done all the sexual and emotional experimenting we tried over our 30’s and 40s to the grand climactic conclusion of having me castrated in my 50’s so we can begin a new and more loving adventure together for our next 30 years.

In my conversation with doctor Reed, he also recommends chemical castration using testosterone blockers for a period of time, so my wife and I can have the opportunity to experience me chemically castrated before surgically castrated.

I needed answers to my desires of being castrated and living a eunuch calm lifestyle. I had many other questions about castration and the consequences that go along with it. I started down this path about ten years ago, when my wife and I were in a cockoldress lifestyle. Yup, we were the real deal during our forties for about ten years. Great times as we both enjoyed the cuckold lifestyle but that came and went in a flash. Just like that, my wife was done with sex. Menopause is a powerful messenger. Prior to those years, she was in mommy mode and sex was not something she was interested in. Not at all. Fast forward to today, we haven’t had sex in a year or more now and only a handful of times over the last 5 years. Lost count. She has lost total interest. So, I find myself with three choices.

1) Get a divorce from the only women I’ve ever loved and worship to this day

2) Just have sex behind her back and go against everything I believe in in being a good, faithful and obedient husband

3) Remove the testosterone from my body and hopefully I can be at peace with my wife and mostly at peace with myself.

Since the first two where not an option, that left only option 3. I am over being tortured by my sex drive and vivid imagination. To be rid of my endless temptations, is a true blessing and a miracle I openly welcome.

So about 6 months ago I began my quest by communicating with Dr. Richard Wassersug. Being castrated himself, Dr Wassdersug has a vested interest and it shows in his research. I have read much of his research and papers on castration and the eunuch community and found many of my questions answered. But internet is one thing and face to face is entirely something required to really and fully understand one another, so I attended MoM in Minneapolis last weekend and met so many EA members. Learned so much from so many great people. I felt like Dorothy in the Wizard of OZ as she looks around herself in confusion as she placed faces with member’s online names. There was Jesus, Kristoff and Paolo. We were guests of Talula and Gem. Many others I shamefully forget their names. I can’t thank you all enough for such a wonderful and most memorable time we all had together. I take back with me a thorough understanding of the Eunuch lifestyle and why I’m certain now, I will soon be one among you.

Once home, my wife and I talked for hours and hours over days. We are both grateful for this level of communication between us. Such openness. We both agreed and came to the same conclusion that surgical is the right long-term solution if we determine it is the best lifestyle for us. We want this for us so we can live in peace from my constant sexual badgering, and continue on our path of being in love with each other for 30 more years where we can pay more attention to each other and work towards our personal happiness.

Even before my wife went into menopause, she had a low sex drive and if science proves consistent, she will likely have zero sex drive after menopause. So, for our mutual sanity from my insatiable and imaginative sexual appetite of every kind, I brought castration and living as a Eunuch up to her. She learned to agree and see the future over time once she started to really listen to what I was saying about the virtues of being a one-woman eunuch husband, with all of the benefits that go along with it. A true domestic partner, life coach and mate, that’s how I envision our next 30 years.

So many things we agreed on and one was that all men should be given the opportunity for voluntary castration. It would be great if our society encouraging men who want to become a eunuch, be a eunuch. Maybe he can work towards being an enlightened male that only castration can accomplish. What wife once she’s had her children, wouldn’t want a eunuch husband? I mean really? We both would encourage couples to follow along to a better future.

Maybe that is what Jesus was saying in Matthew 19:12 (For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.").

Armed with this new revelation, we both came to the conclusion that the world would be a much better place to live with far less testosterone to negatively impact everything. In an effort of full disclosure, we both believe in Female Supremacy and we both believe that females will be controlling much of the world in all areas over the next couple of decades anyway. Regardless, she will continue to be the boss at home. That has not changed over time, but it is more openly obvious that Ken lives in Barbie's world and not the other way around. We own a business together and she is the boss both at work and at home. She is the alpha female and I her beta male husband. Been this way since our very beginnings together. We are who we both needed each other to be throughout our lives together. The good thing is we were truly blessed that we found each other the first time around and we have grown together over the decades. We both believe we are spiritual beings living a human experience.

I so much look forward to hearing back from you all and to continue learning more about ourselves and sharing with you all our journey.

Anyway, I will be going to Dr. Reed’s office this week or next to begin my chemical castration. I need to only see him once for the prescription and he will then monitor me remotely until I schedule my castration in April to celebrate our 31 wedding anniversary. I think it is very fitting for us to celebrate our 31st wedding anniversary with our castration to ring in 31 more years. Our story continues… In our perfect world,

BiBiker