Hello all, I'm An English guy in his early 60s. I had a partial penectomy seven or eight years ago which left me with a penis that isn't visible when soft and is only about 2.5 inches when erect. I can have orgasms, which for me is a blessing. The operation was the result of cancer.

I've always been on the kinky side and to make the most of the situation I have developed an interest in dominant women and to some extent men as well and I am lucky to know people who can meet those needs now and again.

For me it all began as a 'disability'. It was one where little or no support was available - in my neck of the woods anyway - but I have managed to turn it into a major fun kink after a period where I thought my sex life was over.

Nice to find a forum where this and similar issues are discussed so openly and helpfully.

First of all welcome and enjoy your stay here.

I hope the cancer has cleared up and you have got it on the run.

Its good to see you have turned the surgery into something positive and you may be able to share your experiances here with othere who are confronting similar surgery.

Wimpy southerner here BTW but family roots in Northumbria.