I feel like I'm all alone in the world.. All of my male friends are the epitome of the male pig that woman talk about.. They speak to me as if I agree with them about their sexual comments about girls in movies.. Like for instance the movie "The Fifth Element" I was watching this with some friends and they all made sexual comments about Mila Jovavich. I felt like an outcast. I dont think of sex like (as it seems all men do). Sex just does not appeal to me. I've been doing all that I can to eliminate sex out of my life, vocabulary, and desire. It just feels dirty to me in some way.. A useless act when not done in marriage and spiritualy inclined.

You aren't alone.

However, it's not that sex doesn't appeal to me. I can enjoy it with the right person. It's that I don't need it to define or be involved in every minute of the day and in every entertaining thing I do or show I watch. I don't need or want someone to verbalize their horniness all the time.

So don't feel alone.

You'd be surprised by Googling the term "asexual". You're certainly not the only one out there.

I think the last time I was sexually attracted to anyone was sometime back in the late 1980's.

Wow I never heard of Asexuality.. I looked it up and from what I've read I'm definatley leaning towards asexuality. Thanks for posting that.. I didnt know asexuality existed till now.

Anthony Bogaert, a professor at Brock University in Ontario, Canada, is probably the world's expert on asexuality. He estimates that between one and two percent of the population is asexual. The Internet site to best explore asexuality is www.asexuality.org. If you spend some time there you will come to better understand yourself and find that there are a great many people very much like you.

I plan to meet with Tony Bogaert in a couple of weeks and hope to discuss with him some of the similarities and differences between the asexual community and the voluntary eunuch community here on the Eunuch Archive. He and I last spoke a couple of years ago. There is some overlap in the membership of Asexuality.org and Eunuch.org.

This is me. All growing up, this is me. have the male parts, but I don't have the urge to go put them into some gal. or guy. but there is little social understanding for this. you either want to bed a girl or you are gay. no one seems to know of or have heard of not having the over-riding desire for sack time with someone. I have long asked "What's wrong with me that I don't do that?" now I have a possible clue. Thank you.

Paolo wrote: Thu Jul 13, 2017 7:18 pm I think the last time I was sexually attracted to anyone was sometime back in the late 1980's.

Which brings up a question in my mind. I find there are a very few people I like (I don't think it is a sexualy attraction, I just want to like them) from first sight. Do you have that attraction to a very few people?

Oh hell, I don't like anybody!



Just ask any of the MOM regulars.

Seriously, though, as far as strangers or making new friends? Forget it. It's almost as if my "inventory control" says FULL UP.

I still find women attractive.. I just dont want sex at all..

Oyktiro1 (imported) wrote: Fri Jul 14, 2017 8:49 am I still find women attractive.. I just dont want sex at all..

That's so realistic in life on certain levels. I personally find most everybody attractive. That does not mean

I want to have sex with them. Attraction is on so many levels. And can be enjoyed on so many levels,

not necessarily on a physical sexual level. After all, we are often attracted to ideas and strengths as well as

weaknesses. While I may be attracted to certain foods I would never contemplate eating them due to the

negative nature of them.

When we like humans we are attracted to their presence. And each one has different attributes good and bad.

I find intrigue in both. As in there is something to be enjoyed from both. Or perhaps I'm just simply a bad naughty

person finding pleasure in all I see and do. Often I find pleasure just in knowing what I do not do. We are a funny

animal this human species.

At times I want and enjoy sex while at other times the very thought of it becomes repulsive. I guess it all has to

do with the situation of the moment. Just simply wanting to enjoy every breath of air and as many experiences life

has to offer is not a bad or a good thing. It is just a thing. Much like I am not a male or a female. I am just who/what

I am.