Hello there,

I am completely new to this site. I was looking through the internet to find help on my situation. I am a 25 year old, healthy guy with a great girlfriend in a relationship for 4 years. We have a great sexlife, life is going good in general, we are planning on getting married quiet soon.

For about 5 years I started having fantasies about my own castration. I thought it was very strange, but of course that did not stop me from having those thoughts. Over the years, these fantasies have manifested into a very strong desire. I really want to get rid of my balls once and for all. I know this is not just something sexual, this desire doesn't stop after masturbation. It is always somewhere there. In everyday's life, always thoughts about this.

My girlfriend is the more dominant and leading in the relationship and in sex. I have always been kinda sub throughout all my life. My first girlfriend was more dom, my brother was always the dominant in the family, my current girl is dominant. So I think that kinda plays into it.

My girl at one point wants to have children, so that is problematic ...I have not talked to my gf about this yet, but I know she has a thing for strange stuff like this.

So, I wanna know ... is this normal? Do people here experience this aswell? Any advice? Open for every thought on this. Open to answer questions. Open to share with you guys. Also willing to post pictures if requested.

You're also bisexual?

I have never had any sexual encounters whatsoever with men, some flirting, yes, but I have to admit I do experience sexual desires to men. So yeah, I would consider myself bi, but definately more attracted to women.

very honest, you do have a journey in front of you, I recommend you save some sperm before you do anything permanent. Not having children could prove a big hurdle in the future for your soon to be wife. Every thing else you mention can be dealt with. All the best to both of you.

Thank you very much. Yeah, the sperm saving was an idea of mine. Would it be off turning or be a reason for a woman to leave her partner, if he wanted to be castrated? Or could one be reasonable about it?

I'm a afraid a young woman would not accept having a husband who rarely if ever has sex with her.

CuriousGuy (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 2:16 pm Thank you very much. Yeah, the sperm saving was an idea of mine. Would it be off turning or be a reason for a woman to leave her partner, if he wanted to be castrated? Or could one be reasonable about it?

Jorge2008 (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 2:18 pm I'm a afraid a young woman would not accept having a husband who rarely if ever has sex with her.

what about satisfying her in other ways? oral or whatever is possible

One issue is whether she'd like it (your guess is obviously better than mine here) and be satisfied with it, but the other issue is that a castrated male simply wouldn't like to engage in sexual things. When I masturbate and cum, then thereafter I simply lose any interest in sexual matters and the wish to engage in it for a while after the orgasm, I guess a castrated male has such a disinterest in sexual matters on a permanent basis.

CuriousGuy (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2016 2:30 pm what about satisfying her in other ways? oral or whatever is possible

I'm a few years younger and have similar questions. Send any pics to rogerwpblf98@gmail.com. Complicating matters for me, I'm particularly well endowed which makes my cock a big part of my identity. There's days I'd welcome it being stuffed in someone's dresser to bring her pleasure, or suspended in a jar on someone's desk.

Please, please, don't spring this desire for castration on her after you're married. She needs to know what she's getting into before she ties the knot. She may well decide she can't handle having a husband with no sexual desire and no possibility of having children. Even if you bank some sperm, the whole idea may be such a turn-off that she will bail out on you. If that's the case, better that it should happen before you add the complexity of a divorce or a marriage with resentment from the start.

Sandi